Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from October 29th
Today, I want to talk about balance, especially as a Libra. Being born on October 6th and having just turned 70, I’m always trying to maintain equilibrium between taking care of myself and supporting others. My horoscope today emphasized this struggle, advising me to balance my well-being with the needs of those who rely on me. It reminded me how easily we can feel depleted if we don’t prioritize ourselves.
As a Libra, the scales of balance are central to my life. I’m loyal and committed to my work and to those who need me, but I often feel torn between what others expect and my own self-care. It’s an ongoing challenge. This week, two people postponed on me, which reduced my workload. While I usually do four shows a week, this week it’s only two, and I’m okay with that. I’ve been sick, and it gave me a chance to slow down and get other things done.
Finding balance, whether you’re a Libra or not, is about knowing when to say no, recognizing that it’s okay to take a step back, and realizing you don’t have to be everything for everyone. This idea really hit home when my daughter-in-law said in her wedding vows, “I’m going to take care of me so I can take care of you.” That’s something I wasn’t raised with. In my generation, we were taught to put others first, even at our own expense.
But she’s right—if we don’t take care of ourselves, how can we truly be there for others? Sometimes, the universe steps in to force us to slow down, like this week with my two postponed shows. Yesterday, I took care of errands without rushing and treated myself to a coffee and pumpkin soup. These small acts of self-care help rejuvenate me.
This weekend, I’ll be helping my daughter while my grandson has surgery, and I’ll visit my 91-year-old former landlady who misses me. After that, I’ll be back to work. Life is busy, but it’s about finding that balance between what needs to be done and taking time for ourselves
Everything comes down to balance. I’ve got a long to-do list, but with some free time after a postponement, I know I can get it done. However, focusing can be a challenge for me due to ADD. Once I’m locked in, I’m productive, but getting there isn’t always straightforward.
As a Libra, balance has always been important. I used to be a people-pleaser, doing everything for others until I felt drained. Over time, I’ve learned to say no and find balance. Even though I rarely cancel commitments, my grandkids are my top priority. I stay committed, but when it’s not urgent, I sometimes struggle to focus.
Balancing is also about seeking justice, weighing options, and making decisions. Recently, I had a respectful conversation with someone of opposing political views, and we agreed that love is central to everything. Love drives our actions, but we also need wisdom and accountability. Life teaches us through mistakes, and the more aware we are, the more we can grow.
For me, balance means knowing who I am—my strengths and areas where I need help. As a True Colors coach, I help people discover themselves, which helps me stay centered. Even when I wobble, I have tools to recalibrate.
Change is inevitable, and resisting it is futile. Like in Who Moved My Cheese, we must adapt to change and see it as an opportunity for growth. Clinging to the past leaves us behind, while embracing change opens new possibilities.
Right now, society is divided by anger and fear. We must regain our balance, step back, and approach challenges with love and compassion. In both personal life and the world, where do we find equilibrium? By nurturing ourselves, we can keep giving and contributing positively. Grounded in love, compassion, and care, we can advance humanity.
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