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SCL25-19. Cathy Holt & Unstoppable Women

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Sisterhood of Common Sense Love with Sara Troy and her guest Cathy Holt, on air from May 13th

Unstoppable Women: Owning Our Voices and Leading Change


This is more than a book—it’s a movement. Unstoppable Women is a bold call to action for women ready to lead with authenticity, challenge systemic barriers, and create meaningful change on their own terms. Packed with powerful stories, practical tools, and Cathy Holt’s signature L.E.A.D.S.™ framework, it’s a guide for every woman who’s ever felt underestimated, unheard, or out of place in traditional leadership spaces. Whether you’re leading in your career, community, or personal life, this book will help you rise with purpose, confidence, and intention.

?It’s for every woman who’s ever been told to tone it down.

?For the ones who’ve stayed quiet when they knew they had something powerful to say.
?For the leaders ready to make real change, but on their own terms.

?If you’ve ever felt like your voice didn’t matter, or your leadership didn’t quite “fit the mold” this book was written for you.

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Cathy Holt is the joyful mother of a gifted daughter leader, an internationally renowned speaker, a bestselling author, and a lifelong advocate for women’s rights. Her book, Unstoppable Women: Owning Our Voices, Leading Change, is dedicated to empowering women as leaders and change-makers.

Cathy has spent over 35 years advancing gender equality through university courses in Women and Gender Studies, and political, policy, and advocacy work, including collaborations with the United Nations and global NGOs. As the co-founder of DEI Consultants, she champions Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) practices to foster belonging and drive transformative change.

Through her coaching business, Cathy guides women through her L.E.A.D.S. framework to recognize their innate strengths, amplify their voices, and strategically lead with authenticity and impact.

Cathy has appeared on dozens of podcasts and UN panels to promote women as leaders and open spaces for their voices to be heard.

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CATHY IS ALSO AN AUTHOR OF THE MISSION ACCEPTED 262 WOMEN, FIND THE BOOK HERE AND HEAR MANY OF THE AUTHORS IN THIS BOOK ON PODCASTS WITH SARA.

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25-19. Discovering your Courage

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Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from May 13th

This week, I’m diving into the powerful themes of courage, strength, resilience, and the human spirit’s unyielding capacity to rise. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of interviewing extraordinary individuals who have faced trauma, violence, and unimaginable hardships—yet emerged with greater clarity, purpose, and strength. One such guest is Brenda Coffey, whose story is not only cinematic but a testament to raw survival and unshakable will. Her journey, like many others I’ve shared, reminded me of my own past times when I faced violence, rejection, and struggled to find my place as a dyslexic empath in a world that didn’t understand me.

I’ve spent much of my life choosing people to fix or nurture, often at the cost of my own well-being. But self-discovery has taught me that being of service does not mean sacrificing the self. I now share the tools, wisdom, and soulful guides who can help others heal, but only if they’re willing to walk the path. Through my podcast, Self Discovery Wisdom, I’ve had the honour of hearing 3,000+ stories, each a spark of transformation. Whether it’s surviving abuse, redefining self-worth, or discovering one’s true design through Human Design, numerology, or my True Colours method, each journey brings us home to ourselves. You don’t need to face life-threatening danger to be courageous; sometimes the biggest bravery lies in choosing to live your truth.

My invitation to you: trust your instincts, listen to your inner knowing, and honor your unique flavor in the grand buffet of life. And for my fellow seniors, your story still matters. If you’d like to be part of our anthology, Our Forgotten Seniors, visit OrchardOfWisdom.org. We want your voice, your truth, your legacy. Because no matter your age, your light is still meant to shine.

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C25-19. Brenda Coffee, Maya Blue…

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Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Brenda Coffee, on air from May 13th

It was a fairy tale until it wasn’t…

For a long time, that’s what successful businesswoman Brenda Coffee told herself whenever she dared to look back on her twenties and thirties. In Maya Blue: A Memoir of Survival, She  Brenda opens up about the life she once lived—and all the secrecy, madness, trauma, abuse, and danger that came with it. 

Brenda details her years married to Philip Ray, the genius who conceived and developed the first desktop computer terminal, followed by the microprocessor and the first personal computer. Their infamous and isolated home in San Antonio, Texas was known as the “Spy House on the Hill” for its scandalous history of harboring Nazis spies. It was in the basement of their historic home where Philip began spending every waking moment working on his self-destructive “project,” making cocaine from scratch — becoming addicted to it in the process. 

Motivated by the rush and the rewards, Philip lived large and he took bold risks, and Brenda was on board with almost anything he wanted, whether it was adventurous, dangerous, sexual, or illegal. 

After ten years of thrills and close calls, she began to question her blind loyalty when her husband seized on the idea of making real cocaine from scratch, and before long, their lives took a terrifying turn. 

Philip Ray also created the first smokeless cigarette — Philip and Brenda were watched and threatened by the Big Six tobacco companies and/or the federal government for endangering their major revenue source. It was Brenda who coined the terms vape and vaping. 

The sobering reality — after losing his battle with lung cancer, Philip left her with mountains of debt and a daunting fight to preserve the groundbreaking public company she helped him start. 

Brenda embarked on a solo trip to Belize to reclaim the pieces of herself she’d surrendered to Philip, followed by a visit to the ruins of the ancient Maya city of Tikal—only to be forced into the jungle at gunpoint by the ruthless Guatemalan military. The United Nations estimates that between 1960 and 1996. 200,000 people were murdered, and 45,000 Los Desaparecido,s “the disappeared,” were killed by the Guatemalan military and the group that took her. 

Her marriage to James Coffee, the man who made her feel safe, and his untimely death — he died unexpectedly on Christmas 2010 of cardiac arrest while out for a walk. She talks about grief and how his loss was the most difficult thing she’s experienced. 

 Brenda Coffee is also a breast cancer survivor, enduring 10 breast cancer surgeries and 8 rounds of chemotherapy. 

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Brenda Coffee is a published writer, photographer, and filmmaker with a BA in journalism and film. An avid adventurer, dynamic speaker, and successful businesswoman, she was a managing consultant and former board member of a public company she sold to Big Pharma. Coffee is also a breast cancer survivor, having endured 10 surgeries and 8 rounds of chemotherapy. 

She is the creator of two Top 10 websites, including 1010ParkPlace.com, home to her popular BRENDA’S BLOG, delivering straight-talk about finances, fashion, life, and relationships to the best-educated, wealthiest, most powerful demographic in history: women over 50. She resides in Texas.

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C25-19. Barbara Anne. The Power of Being Seen

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Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Barbara Anee, on air from May 13th

The Power of Being Seen — Portraits as a Path to Self-Worth and Legacy

For years, I watched people, especially women, who shrank from the camera, saying they weren’t photogenic, not ready, or not enough. But behind those words were deeper stories of self-doubt, invisibility, and lost identity. My journey as a portrait artist became one of personal discovery as well: I realized that through intentional portrait experiences, I could help people see themselves in a new light, worthy, powerful, and beautifully human. I need to share this topic because being seen is not about vanity; it’s about visibility, healing, and legacy. This message is for anyone who has ever felt unseen in their personal or professional life and is ready to step into their own story with confidence and purpose.

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Barbara Anne is a portrait artist and entrepreneur whose journey began far from the camera lens. With a background in entrepreneurship, business coaching and community leadership, she spent years helping others grow their brands and voices—while quietly hiding from the spotlight herself. After a period of deep personal reflection and a growing frustration with how women, especially in business, undervalue their self-image, Barbara transformed her photography hobby into a powerful tool to change lives and never looked back. What had begun as a creative outlet quickly became a calling: to help people reclaim their sense of worth, one portrait at a time. Today, she runs Barbara Anne Photography, where she creates empowering portrait experiences that turn self-doubt into confidence and photographs into legacy artwork.

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25-18. Take the Wheel

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Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from May 6th

Today, I want to talk about self-leadership. What does that really mean? We often look for a leader in life—someone to guide us along the path of self-discovery or help us uncover our abilities—because we feel we can’t lead ourselves. But ultimately, no matter who’s guiding you—whether at work, in relationships, or anywhere else—you are the leader of your own life. Self-leadership means stepping into your own empowerment. It’s about knowing what you need, recognizing the path you must take, being aware, and caring deeply about yourself, the environment you’re in, what you’re giving out, and what you’re receiving. Your life, your arena—it all begins with you.

Awareness and Choice

Is your environment bringing out something in you that feels uncomfortable? Are you surrounded by people who claim to be leaders but are leading you astray? Are you in the company of negativity—those who are angry, bitter, vengeful, jealous, or retaliatory? Because those kinds of environments won’t serve you. So, how do you step into your own leadership? It starts with a choice. I will choose the path I take. I will choose the people I allow around me. I will choose how I interact, how I receive, and how I perceive the world. That kind of leadership begins with awareness—awareness of your surroundings and of what life is making you feel. We’re living in a time of heightened emotion: global unrest, political upheaval, wars, famine, division—it’s overwhelming. And in all that noise, it’s easy to feel powerless. It’s easy to feel like our voice no longer matters in shaping our own life.

Yet leadership doesn’t mean having all the answers. It means taking ownership of how we show up. Are we reacting from past wounds? Are we stuck in patterns that aren’t even ours? Generational trauma, societal programming, inherited fear—it’s all there. But we can pause and ask: “Is this mine? Is this helping me? What can I shift?” And from that question, the journey begins.

Empowerment, Exploration, and Leading by Example

Self-leadership doesn’t mean going it alone—it means tuning in. You may be using tools, programs, or practices passed down from others. They might have sparked something in you, or maybe you’ve created your own. Either way, it’s still your leadership. You’re in charge of your actions, your voice, and your direction. While the universe might hold the map, you’re holding the wheel.

Sara shares how her own path to podcasting began at age 57. She didn’t know what a podcast was, but said yes to the invitation. Now, more than 13 years and thousands of shows later, she reflects on how every step before led to this one. Her story reminds us that it’s never too late to begin steering your own journey.

She paints a powerful metaphor—life is a vehicle, and we must learn how to drive it. Know your gears: first, second, third, fourth, and when it’s time for fifth. Your trauma and fears might still ride with you, but they belong in the trunk or backseat, not behind the wheel. Learn from them, but don’t let them drive.

True self-leadership isn’t loud. It’s a calm confidence. It’s feeling your way forward even when the road isn’t clear. It’s choosing what resonates in your gut, heart, and soul. It’s quiet courage and soulful conviction. And when we embrace it, we inspire others to do the same.

We’re not meant to walk alone—we’re meant to harmonize. As we step into our own leadership, we become strong instruments in life’s orchestra, playing with clarity, confidence, and care. Together, we create symphonies that awaken and uplift the world.

So, take the wheel. Tune into your truth. Choose your direction, one breath, one step, one gear at a time. Because the greatest adventure you’ll ever take is the discovery of your Self.

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