MH23-13. Mediating Conflict with Kimberly Best.


Mental Health Awareness with Sara Troy with guest Kimberly Best, on air March 28th

We have thought of peace as the passive and war as the active way of living. The opposite is true. War is not the most strenuous life. It is a kind of rest-cure compared to the task of reconciling our differences…. The world will be regenerated by the people who rise above these passive ways and heroically seek, by whatever hardship, by whatever toil, the methods by which people can agree.”
? Mary Parker Follett.

Kimberly says that, mediation, negotiation, and arbitration are dispute resolution skills that also include facilitation.  The scope of use is anywhere from interpersonal to countries at war.  Problems can be identified, their impact discussed, and each person’s needs identified in order to resolve the conflict.  An easy way to describe it is collaborative problem solving.



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Kim is also a volunteer mediator with the Los Angeles City Attorney’s Office, Dispute Resolution Program and Community/Police Unification Program. In addition, she is a practicing facilitator for challenging business and social conversations.

Kimberly Best, RN, MA, is a Tennessee Rule 31 Listed Civil and Trained Family Mediator Kim’s practice focuses on Family Mediation, Health, and Elder Care Mediation, Civil and Business Mediation, and Conflict Coaching in Franklin, Tennessee.

She is the author of “How to Live Forever, A Guide to Writing the Final Chapter of Your Life Story” and is a speaker and trainer on the topics of conflict management, dispute resolution processes, life transitions, and how to make difficult decisions – including end of life issues.

She is the author of “How to Live Forever, A Guide to Writing the Final Chapter of Your Life Story” and is a speaker and trainer on the topics of conflict management, dispute resolution processes, life transitions, and how to make difficult decisions – including end of life issues.


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MH23-10. Kimberly Best and The Biology of Conflict:

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MH23-10. Kimberly Best and The Biology of Conflict:


Mental Health Awareness. with Sara Troy and her guest Kimberly Best, on air from March 7th

She is passionate about helping others resolve conflicts in a productive, non-litigious way using mediation, facilitation and collaborative problem solving, in order to find optimal solutions for all parties. Kim’s unique, diverse experiences and her love of learning inform her work in conflict management. 


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Kim is also a volunteer mediator with the Los Angeles City Attorney’s Office, Dispute Resolution Program and Community/Police Unification Program. In addition, she is a practicing facilitator for challenging business and social conversations.

Kimberly Best, RN, MA, is a Tennessee Rule 31 Listed Civil and Trained Family Mediator Kim’s practice focuses on Family Mediation, Health, and Elder Care Mediation, Civil and Business Mediation, and Conflict Coaching in Franklin, Tennessee.

She is the author of “How to Live Forever, A Guide to Writing the Final Chapter of Your Life Story” and is a speaker and trainer on the topics of conflict management, dispute resolution processes, life transitions, and how to make difficult decisions – including end of life issues.

She is the author of “How to Live Forever, A Guide to Writing the Final Chapter of Your Life Story” and is a speaker and trainer on the topics of conflict management, dispute resolution processes, life transitions, and how to make difficult decisions – including end of life issues.


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linkedin.com/in/kimberlybestmediator

Twitter: kimberly_a_best

facebook.com/bestconflictsolutions

instagram.com/kimberly_a_best

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MH23-06. Greg Hammer’s Resolution to Improve Mental Well Beingness


Mental Health Awareness with Sara Troy and her guest Greg Hammer MD, on air from February 7th

  • Why do you think the #1 resolution for 2023 is to improve mental health and well-being?
  • People are experiencing a prolonged period of chronic stress that’s unprecedented in their lifetimes.  The pandemic, global food shortages, climate uncertainty, and the war in Ukraine and ongoing threats of war all contribute to this stress.
  • Many people feel like they weren’t able to prioritize their mental health while focusing on their physical health during the pandemic.
  • Gen Z is driving the push towards prioritizing mental and emotional well-being.  They’re realizing that health is a holistic pursuit that includes the mind as well as the body.
  • What is it about winter that makes us feel more prone to anxiety, depression, and burnout?
  • Decreased sunlight lowers our vitamin D levels which can lower serotonin and can cause feelings of depression.
  • Staying indoors can also feel isolating, which can contribute to anxiety and depression.
  • “Winter Burnout” is the physical and emotional exhaustion that is caused by chronic stress over a prolonged period of time.  Over time, the above two issues and other stressors can contribute to feelings of burnout.
  • Many people struggle with feelings of anxiety, depression, and burnout during the winter.  What is the first thing that you would recommend they do?  
  • Sleep, exercise, and nutrition form the tripod that supports our physical and emotional wellbeing. Chronic stress causes a deterioration in all of these, but improving even just one leg of this tripod can begin a new trend towards overall wellness.
  • Weather permitting, get outside to increase your vitamin D levels.  Even a short walk will help.
  • Winter is an especially difficult time for mental health so practice Nonjudgment to limit self-blame and be Intentional about finding 3 minutes a day to prioritize your well-being.
  • How does just 3 minutes a day improve negative thoughts and rewire our brain?
  • The key is daily practice over time.  When you start the day by focusing on the 4 pillars of GAIN, you’ll begin to recall them in daily life and in various situations.
  • For example, you might have a difficult commute and start to get upset with other drivers.  But then you’ll remember that you promised to Intentionally choose Nonjudgment and Accept those around you and your current circumstances.  You can even be Grateful that you have a place to go and are healthy enough to travel!
  • What are the 4 pillars of the GAIN Method and how is it used in a 3-minute meditation? 
  • (Take a few deep, calming breaths before you begin)
  • G: Breathe in the Gratitude for the richness in our lives, our loved ones, and even simply being alive this day.
  • A: Accept the painful experiences we cannot change. Open our hearts and bring this pain closer and closer until we merge with it until there is no separation. We often find that the pain is less than we thought.
  • I: Use our Intention to re-wire our brains away from our negative bias and obsession with the past and future. Practice being present, which is where happiness lives.
  • N: Become more Nonjudgmental. The world around us does not have to be labeled as good or bad. This goes for the people around us and even ourselves. Dropping self-judgment is difficult, but we can learn to do this through daily practice with small, baby steps.
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Greg Hammer, MD is a Professor at Stanford University School of Medicine, pediatric intensive care physician, pediatric anesthesiologist, mindfulness expert, and the author of GAIN without Pain: The Happiness Handbook for Health Care Professionals.

A member of the Stanford WellMD initiative, Dr. Hammer is the former Chair of the Physician Wellness Task Force for the California Society of Anesthesiologists. He has been a visiting professor and lecturer on wellness at institutions worldwide and teaches GAIN to medical students, residents, and fellows at Stanford. 

Dr. Hammer’s clinical focus is in pediatric cardiac anesthesia and pediatric critical care medicine. His research is in developmental pharmacology and immunology, and he has an active laboratory with multiple ongoing studies in these areas. He has published widely on topics related to pharmacology and perioperative care of children undergoing cardiac and thoracic procedures as well as organ transplantation. Dr. Hammer is a health enthusiast and meditator, utilizing a non-duality and mindfulness-based approach, including the GAIN method.  


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MH23-05. Wendye Savage & Surviving Domestic Violence. 


Mental Health Awareness with Sara Troy and her guest Wendye Savage, on air from January 31st

I  am an over comer and a holistic confidence and esteem coach for women who have been challenged with Domestic Violence. 

Wendye Savage is an author, poet, mental health advocate, self confidence and esteem coach. Wendye is an over comer who understands what it’s like to be mentally ill, abused, to lack self-worth and confidence because that was once her story.

Wendye has done the work of reflecting and healing and is now CEO and founder of Igniting Her Worth, LLC, a ministry that serves the emotional needs of women who have been challenged with domestic abuse and are searching for higher levels of esteem and confidence.

Wendye Savage is the author of a women’s wellness guide, entitled, “What’s in Your Purse?”, a semi-autobiography/self-help book that has inspired women both nationally and internationally.

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Wendye Savage is an example of  the grace of  God. In solitude she has over come, mental and sexual abuse, Major Depression, low self-esteem and confidence, hatred and unforgiveness.  Wendye is the author of a women’s wellness guide, entitled, ” What’s in Your Purse?”, and the CEO and  founder of Igniting Her Worth, LLC. As a holistic confidence and esteem coach for women who have been challenged by Domestic Violence, Wendye’s calling is to lead other women out of bondage and help them form  better relationships. 

Wendye resides in Ridgeland, South Carolina. She is a native of Buffalo, New York and a graduate of Kensington High School. Wendye Is a United States Army Veteran and trained representative for NAMI (National Alliance On Mental Illness). She is also the mother of five children, grandmother to seven grandsons and two beautiful granddaughters.


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MH23-04. Zane Landin, Mental, Wellness, and Inspirations.


Mental Health Awareness with Sara Troy and her guest Zane Landin, on air from January 24th

I am the founder of Positive Vibes Magazine, a digital magazine dedicated to telling authentic stories about mental health, wellness, and inspiration. The magazine has featured over 80 voices, reached thousands of readers from over 150 countries, and secured 22,000 followers on several social media channels.

I attended the first-ever Mental Health Youth Action Forum in Washington, D.C., where I met President Biden, Selena Gomez, Dr. Murthy, and Dr. Biden. Out of hundreds of applications, 30 young advocates across the country attended the forum to advocate for youth mental health activation, policy, and inclusion.

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I am a passionate storyteller who regularly writes about wellness, psychology, and culture for the Power of Positivity, Entrepreneur, and Lady Gaga’s Channel Kindness. My writing has appeared in several other publications. What inspires me the most is storytelling and how we can leverage powerful stories to create a more inclusive world for all to thrive. I have been featured and appeared on over 50 platforms like Forbes, Buzzfeed, Authority Magazine, Canvas Rebel Magazine, Shoutout LA, Exeleon Magazine, Seek the Joy Podcast, Coming from the Heart Podcast, Go Solo, and Yahoo! Life.

Zane Landin is a non-graduating senior from the California State Polytechnic University, Pomona. He will graduate in December 2021 with a Bachelor of Science in Communication with an emphasis in Public Relations. He has a strong passion for academics, design, social issues, creative writing, and learning new things all the time. Upon graduation, he hopes to be accepted into the master’s program in strategic communication from Columbia University to work at a public relations firm, the government, a nonprofit, or a university. Zane wanted to inspire individuals and communities to tap into their unlimited potential, and PositiveVibesMag was bor

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