Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from October 15th
Yes, I’ve got bronchitis again—this husky voice isn’t the sexy kind, and neither is bronchitis. But I had a wonderful birthday weekend. My son and the kids pitched in to rent a beautiful house at Qualicum Beach, up in the mountains. We overlooked the ocean and trees, with morning mist making it feel like we were above the clouds. It was exquisite.
We had a wonderful time with conversation, fun, and great vegan food. On my actual birthday, we went mini golfing. I even got a hole in one! Of course, I also had that one hole that took me ten tries, but it was all in good fun. Watching my little grandson give up on the golf ball and just plop it in the hole himself was priceless. It was a celebration of my son’s 40th coming up, too, and an early Thanksgiving; it was magical.
We enjoyed so much delicious food—wonderful vegan dishes my son prepared, along with beautiful soups and breakfasts made by all my daughters. It was all just lovely. We spent time watching the wedding videos of my daughter-in-law Jess and my son Tyler, reminiscing as if we were walking down the aisle with them once again.
The whole weekend was wonderfully relaxed, which was exactly what we needed. It wasn’t about rushing around or keeping busy; it was about savoring that laid-back family time together. Whether we were sharing meals, playing cards, or just hanging out, it was all about the simple joy of being with each other. That kind of togetherness is what truly matters.
Unfortunately, I caught a cold from the little ones before we left, and it turned into bronchitis. It’s been a tough week trying to shake it off. Since RSV last December, it feels like I’ve been sick more often than not—COVID, bronchitis, you name it. But if something’s important, I just keep going, trying to find a Doctor even a virtual one, has been hard, but finally got some antibiotics and now on the mend.
I often wonder if this resilience is from my generation’s “suck it up and get on with it” mentality. We rarely had the luxury of putting ourselves first, but it’s important to find balance and take care of ourselves too.
Turning 70 brought reflections—good and bad memories, and the resilience that carried me through even when things got tough, like during my marriage. My kids always knew I loved them, and that love brought them home. That’s the foundation of everything: love.
It pains me to see how kids today are struggling with values. When a 13-year-old gets lured to a beach and beaten by other kids while onlookers cheer, it’s clear we’re failing them. Too many children today feel entitled but lack connection, compassion, and a sense of purpose.
Parenting is hard, especially with social media’s influence. But boundaries and teaching kids self-love, respect, and responsibility can help. They need to learn that life isn’t handed to them; it requires effort and accountability.
Despite being unwell, I’ve got some wonderful shows lined up for you. From science and spirituality to saving ancient trees, and a fabulous music show featuring George Witty and Ellis Hall. Remember: listen, learn, and apply. Until next week, take care. I’ll be resting up and hopefully back with a voice.
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