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 Sara Troy on Sara’s View of Life show, on air from November 29th

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Am I getting old, or are manners becoming a lost art? Simple words like “please” and “thank you” seem to be fading from everyday life, and courtesy is rarely taught or practiced. Yet when someone takes a moment to say thank you, it reminds us that what we did mattered, that we are seen and appreciated.

Do you remember Carole King’s song: “You’ve got to get up every morning with a smile on your face and show the world all the love in your heart…”? A genuine smile can shift the energy in a room. A little courtesy, a heartfelt “please” or “thank you” can brighten someone’s day — including your own.

And now we’re plunging into the big, bustling Christmas season — when everyone (and yes, even their dogs) is out shopping. The crowds are loud, the shelves look picked over, and frustration rises fast. You’re normally patient… but the line feels endless, the clerk is overwhelmed, and that perfect gift seems to have vanished.

Breathe. Be patient. The season is meant to be joyful.
Courtesy can be contagious — let’s make sure we’re spreading the right kind.

When one person snaps, it ripples outward. But kindness ripples too. Here are some tips to help you keep your cool and your cheer this holiday season:

1?? Plan ahead — Don’t leave everything to the last minute. Spread your shopping over a few outings so you can look without pressure.
2?? Do your research — Flyers, catalogues, and online browsing can give you gift ideas before you go out.
3?? Ask for a list — Especially helpful with teens and tricky relatives. Choose something special from what they suggest.
4?? Shop smart — Avoid weekends if you can. Evenings during dinner hours are often quieter. Take break moments for a warm drink and a recharge.
5?? Give meaningfully — Consider donating in someone’s name or creating gift baskets for those in need. Include your children — it teaches giving from the heart.
6?? Gift cards count — Teens love post-Christmas sales. Add a small personal gift to show thoughtfulness.
7?? Gifts for spouses — Don’t buy household items as the gift. Choose something personal and treasured — jewellery, experiences, favourite music, cozy luxuries.
8?? Show love both ways — Practical gifts are great, but sprinkle in something playful, romantic, or fun.
9?? In-laws — When unsure, keep it classy and universal: good wine, a festive treat, an ornament, a family photo gift, or a lovely outing. Respect personal beliefs in your choices.
? Make it personal — Homemade or heartfelt gifts — writing, baking, painting, music — can mean more than anything purchased.

BUY LOCAL AND SUPPORT YOUR COMMUNITY

When someone says, “You shouldn’t have!”
Reply: “Of course I should — you’re worth it.”

And if you receive something you don’t love?
Say: “Thank you for thinking of me — I feel very special.”

Because at the end of the day, it’s not just the gift…
It’s the gratitude, the grace, and the love behind it that people remember.


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Thats Christmas is to me


Courtesy is one of our greatest human assets. It costs nothing, yet it carries tremendous value and is always appreciated. When someone takes the time to do something thoughtful for you this season, pause and truly acknowledge the effort — the energy, the intention, and the care behind it. Be grateful that you are the one they chose to give to.

If you can’t reciprocate with material gifts, offer your time, your attention, your kindness. Time is precious — and giving it is often the most meaningful gift of all.

Gratitude is the best response.


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C16-49b Maureen Hancock on Messages from the Dead

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Maureen Hancock, on air from December 6th 

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We all have those we have loved and lost, but are they really gone? Maureen has a direct channel open to speaking with the dead and relays their messages back to us; yes folks there is life after death and we are going to hear what messages they have for your world .

new_headshot_400x400Maureen Hancock is an internationally renowned Spirit Medium, intuitive, teacher, lecturer, Holistic Healer, and author of the bestselling book, “The Medium Next Door: Adventures of a Real-Life Ghost Whisperer.” She is the star of the Style Network documentary, Psychic in Suburbia. Style Network along with ABC Media Productions, and the producers of The Ghost Whisperer (Sander/Moses Productions and Slam Internet Co.) worked together to present this inspirational, “out of this world” special presentation.

Hancock has been interviewed by many national television, radio, and print publications, including CNN, Associated Press, VH1, Martha Stewart Living magazine & radio, The Boston Globe, Coast-to-Coast radio, WROR with Loren & Wally, several Town Square Media radio stations across the country (FUN107 locally), ABC, NBC, CBS, and FOX Television programs all over the country.

518eih1coml-_sx322_bo1204203200_She has spent the last twelve years demystifying the overwhelming subject matter of death, and helping individuals to flex their intuitive muscle, and tap into messages from spirit. A teacher of sorts, Maureen’s work has brought comfort, hope and healing to the masses. She has taught workshops on intuition building to law enforcement, medical professionals, financial experts, and the “Average Joe.” She spends much of her time giving back by assisting those with terminal illness, sitting with newly bereaved parents, aiding law enforcement- including the FBI, and motivational speaking about life after death, stress management, intuition, and perspective building.

Maureen was a reoccurring guest on the Ricki Lake Show, was offered a show of her own, but wishes to be true to her art and soul so will look to houring her work in a different way.                                                                        Click on Book to Buy

She resides outside of Boston, Massachusetts with her children and Golden rescue lab, and large Irish Catholic clan of siblings, and, saint of a mother, Grace Agnes.


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C16-48b. 365 Days of Gratitude with a Positive Attitude.

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Child author Muskan Virk, on air from November 29th.

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Our children the leaders of our tomorrows have already begun to show us the way, we interview Muskan a child herself on why she wrote this book on Gratitude and what it has meant to her and what has become for us. 

Muskan came into this world as a miracle after her parents’ 16 years of marriage. At the young age of six, Muskan learned about the injustice that Malala Yousafzai had gone through, and was devastated. She was propelled to take action and 14962540_10155446195034115_8396619359566836975_nwanted to make a difference. She started by raising funds to donate to the Malala Fund and other local charities as well as journaling her thoughts of gratitude. From those beautiful daily gratitudes, 365 Days of Gratitude was born. Muskan now only 10 years old is inspired by knowing that her words will make a difference in people’s lives and would like to make a difference globally with her charity called Helping Hands, whose mission is to help homelessness in every country. Partial proceeds of this very book will be donated to Helping Hands as a continued effort in ensuring you are also a part of making a difference. Muskan lives with her parents and her dog Butterball.

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WE NEED TO RAISE OUR GOOD VIBRATIONS

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I HAVE MIXED EMOTIONS right now about our global vibrations.

I most certainly have mixed emotions right now and an overwhelming feeling of loss. I am trying to believe that humanity can rise above this and lift their vibrations into united harmony.

Am I delusional? If I thought that I could not go on, but I am disappointed in people choices. I am a fighter for human rights, a fighter for equality, dignity, freedom and kindness and love, yet I see hate won this time and it makes me feel sad, and shows me how much more work do we have to do.

untitled-design-5I understand that so many voices are sick of the same old and we need change, but that change must be in loving harmony that includes all of humanity not just a few.

My spirit needs harmony, my soul divine loving connection, my heart fueled with loving purpose, my spirit belief that all that is possible. Yes, I am feel low right now, feeling sad that humanity is thinking so small. Yes, I am mad right now that people think it is ok to hurt another in any way because they are different. Why are we a human nation that loves to hate, to hurt and kill each other? Why are we a people who embraces the worst of self? Why are we a people who demeans another to make themselves feel better? Why are we so uncaring so unkind?

Have we not learnt yet that hate, loathing, hurting, demeaning, killing one another is only hurting ourselves?

Have we not learnt yet that dividing instead of uniting and not truly listening to each other only hurts us all as the whole?

Have we not learnt yet that no matter our colour, race, sex, gender, faith, age, economics we are all the same seeking a loving meaningful purposeful life?

17All our discontent lies within us; all our pain and suffering is because we are not allowing our own inner peaceful purpose and self-love to thrive.  It is all within us, the answers, the healing, the tools, the love, but we must be willing to work at it in bringing it out, setting ourselves free, allowing us to be that divine wonderful purposeful spirit that we are.

It takes more energy to hate one another than to love, it takes more energy to hate our lives than it does to change it. While your running around blaming everyone else for your suffering you are avoiding the healing love that lays within?.

There is no quick fix, there is not downloadable app, there is no getting someone else to do it for you, we must do the work on ourselves for ourselves to heal, to serve our global community.

Harmony is the answer sung in unison for peace love and kindness. 

WE ARE TOMORROW 

So, now in this time of confusion, disappointment and even despair, let us not lose sight that we are the answer we seek, we are the souls that can make things happen, it is up to us to make sure that humanity keeps rising up together in unity of community, and does not get lost in the hate of the few.

keep-the-sun-in-your-heart-always-1So, I ask you to RISE UP to let your frequency of good vibrations run high and do not get pulled down to the level of discontent. Let your spirit fly and embrace what we can make possible, what we can do with a united front to make sure we are all EVERY COLOUR CREED GENDER FAITH AND RACE be included in the healing of our world.

I ask you to RISE UP IN LOVING PEACE and UNITE in LOVING KINDNESS and show all who is so despondent with life, that together we are the difference we seek, together we are the answers, together we are the healers, together we are a stronger nation in love, in peace, in unity, in collaboration is the  respect and dignity of all our wonderful differences.

So join me in raising our vibration and in showing all that choosing love  over hate it a more peaceful place to be.

MAY WE FIND THE STRENGTH THE LOVE THE COURAGE TO RISE UP AND BE THE LOVE THE WORLD NEEDS.

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TSM16-46 Universal Love Ministry defending the rights of minorities in Uganda

Their story Matters with Sara Troy and her guests Sharon Kakunda and Turinawe Samson, on air from November 15th   

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Universal Love Ministries – Mission

To empower our community towards an inclusive and diverse society; free from gender-based violence, defending the rights of women and supporting towards peaceful and harmonious living.

ULM supports active non-violence and engages with advocates of gender to teach an interpretation of the Holy Scriptures that demonstrates respect for all human beings.

They are pioneers in their approach to teaching our children understanding of the rights they have as a divine human being. We are all equal, it is the time we treated each other with love and kindness and embracement of our differences.

13344694_1618403918478536_3991256994049702960_n Sharon is a professional teacher who specialized in teaching English and Christian Religious Education. Sharon works as the Executive Secretary at Universal Love Ministries in Kampala Uganda. As a teacher who has taught in different schools and different parts of Uganda interacting with children, women and youth from different families and cultures, she observed that a child especially a girl child faces a lot of challenges in Uganda. About three years back, after listening to teachings and humanitarian services that Universal Love Ministries is offering, she felt that Universal Love Ministries offers practical solutions to improve the life style of vulnerable groups; children, women and LGBTIQ. Sharon joined ULM to help improve life of children, women and LGBTIQ in Uganda.

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I was born to a family of nine children; three of which are my mother’s and six are my step mother’s. I have lived in an environment full of violations of women’s and children’s rights. Being the first born to my mother, my dad’s second wife, my birth was characterized by misunderstandings and chaos in the family. My name “Turinawe” means “we are with him” meaning we are with God. At the age of five my sixth elder sister had dropped out of school due to lack of school fees, my eldest sister was pregnant at seventeen years. This was due to school dropout and parental negligence, her son was born prematurely at seven months but luckily enough he survived. He never attended school and currently his whereabouts are not clear since his mother could not tell him who his father is. At the age of six years I started school. This was made possible at this early age because my mother loved and treasured education. For her she is not educated though her father had resources to take her to school. She narrated that her mother died the day she was born due to bleeding after which her father married another wife. Her father was a drunkard who beat her and the step mother every night. He provided no support to the family. His money was for drinking alcohol. At seven years old she was assigned to look after goats although she preferred going to school. She talks of her peers who threw stones at her as she was digging along the road when they were going to school in the mornings. “I surely loved going to school like them” she says. At the age of thirteen she left home and started working for money. She says her first dress was bought for her by a man who employed her. At that time she says that she was almost naked. At an early age she married my father who was already married, aged and sickly, as it was the only way for her survival. The polygamous marriage status I was born into denied me the right to be dedicated in born again faith church to which my father had converted about thirty years before. Friends of my father who were leaders in the Anglican Church took me and baptized me there, and called me Turinawe Robert. After which the born again church realized they were losing a staunch follower and called me back and named me Turinawe Samson. I feel my spiritual rights were violated at such an early age. A year after my graduation from a bible school I served in a Pentecostal church from which I was expelled and banned from attending church services or performing any other religious duties in some Christian churches in western Uganda. This resulted in me moving to Kampala city where I started my humanitarian mission. My expulsion came as a result of me preaching against discrimination of people alleged to be homosexuals, co-habiting or having sex before or outside of marriage. I opposed the proposal by some of the church leaders that during church service that included women, the women would have to sit down on mats; as they didn’t deserve to sit on chairs like men and prohibiting women from preaching and leading church projects; that women doing these things was against the scripture. On my expulsion I was named “A dangerous pastor”. In 2003 I lost my child hood girlfriend Adella who was forced into marriage by her father. I grew up with this girl and we attended the same primary school. When she was in primary five at age of fifteen years her father chose a husband for her and forced her into marriage because he wanted bride price. This man had lost a wife. Three months later she was pregnant. Unfortunately when she went for antenatal health services she was found HIV positive. On returning home and informing the husband he divorced her. Adella tried going back home but her father chased her back to the husband’s place. She stayed with her aunt. At the time of delivery she could not manage the hospital fees so the aunt tried attending to her using her hands to manually pull the baby out. During the delivery she was injured and got fistula. All this stigmatized her and no one cared about her. Around four months before her death I met her at a local dispensary where she had gone to seek treatment. We talked for almost two hours. She said “Samson, I am going to die. Not because of my mistakes but because of something I was force into by my father” as we departed. It is this personal experience and experience from people around me right from childhood that led me to dedicate myself to contributing towards ending the suffering and mistreatment of people based on their sex, sexual orientation, gender identity or beliefs and founding Universal Love Ministries.


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