Sara Troy on Sara’s View of Life show, on air from November 29th

Am I getting old, or are manners becoming a lost art? Simple words like “please” and “thank you” seem to be fading from everyday life, and courtesy is rarely taught or practiced. Yet when someone takes a moment to say thank you, it reminds us that what we did mattered, that we are seen and appreciated.
Do you remember Carole King’s song: “You’ve got to get up every morning with a smile on your face and show the world all the love in your heart…”? A genuine smile can shift the energy in a room. A little courtesy, a heartfelt “please” or “thank you” can brighten someone’s day — including your own.
And now we’re plunging into the big, bustling Christmas season — when everyone (and yes, even their dogs) is out shopping. The crowds are loud, the shelves look picked over, and frustration rises fast. You’re normally patient… but the line feels endless, the clerk is overwhelmed, and that perfect gift seems to have vanished.
Breathe. Be patient. The season is meant to be joyful.
Courtesy can be contagious — let’s make sure we’re spreading the right kind.
When one person snaps, it ripples outward. But kindness ripples too. Here are some tips to help you keep your cool and your cheer this holiday season:
1?? Plan ahead — Don’t leave everything to the last minute. Spread your shopping over a few outings so you can look without pressure.
2?? Do your research — Flyers, catalogues, and online browsing can give you gift ideas before you go out.
3?? Ask for a list — Especially helpful with teens and tricky relatives. Choose something special from what they suggest.
4?? Shop smart — Avoid weekends if you can. Evenings during dinner hours are often quieter. Take break moments for a warm drink and a recharge.
5?? Give meaningfully — Consider donating in someone’s name or creating gift baskets for those in need. Include your children — it teaches giving from the heart.
6?? Gift cards count — Teens love post-Christmas sales. Add a small personal gift to show thoughtfulness.
7?? Gifts for spouses — Don’t buy household items as the gift. Choose something personal and treasured — jewellery, experiences, favourite music, cozy luxuries.
8?? Show love both ways — Practical gifts are great, but sprinkle in something playful, romantic, or fun.
9?? In-laws — When unsure, keep it classy and universal: good wine, a festive treat, an ornament, a family photo gift, or a lovely outing. Respect personal beliefs in your choices.
? Make it personal — Homemade or heartfelt gifts — writing, baking, painting, music — can mean more than anything purchased.
BUY LOCAL AND SUPPORT YOUR COMMUNITY
When someone says, “You shouldn’t have!”
Reply: “Of course I should — you’re worth it.”
And if you receive something you don’t love?
Say: “Thank you for thinking of me — I feel very special.”
Because at the end of the day, it’s not just the gift…
It’s the gratitude, the grace, and the love behind it that people remember.
appreciated
Thats Christmas is to me
Courtesy is one of our greatest human assets. It costs nothing, yet it carries tremendous value and is always appreciated. When someone takes the time to do something thoughtful for you this season, pause and truly acknowledge the effort — the energy, the intention, and the care behind it. Be grateful that you are the one they chose to give to.
If you can’t reciprocate with material gifts, offer your time, your attention, your kindness. Time is precious — and giving it is often the most meaningful gift of all.
Gratitude is the best response.
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wanted to make a difference. She started by raising funds to donate to the Malala Fund and other local charities as well as journaling her thoughts of gratitude. From those beautiful daily gratitudes, 365 Days of Gratitude was born. Muskan now only 10 years old is inspired by knowing that her words will make a difference in people’s lives and would like to make a difference globally with her charity called Helping Hands, whose mission is to help homelessness in every country. Partial proceeds of this very book will be donated to Helping Hands as a continued effort in ensuring you are also a part of making a difference. Muskan lives with her parents and her dog Butterball.


I understand that so many voices are sick of the same old and we need change, but that change must be in loving harmony that includes all of humanity not just a few.
All our discontent lies within us; all our pain and suffering is because we are not allowing our own inner peaceful purpose and self-love to thrive. It is all within us, the answers, the healing, the tools, the love, but we must be willing to work at it in bringing it out, setting ourselves free, allowing us to be that divine wonderful purposeful spirit that we are.
So, I ask you to RISE UP to let your frequency of good vibrations run high and do not get pulled down to the level of discontent. Let your spirit fly and embrace what we can make possible, what we can do with a united front to make sure we are all EVERY COLOUR CREED GENDER FAITH AND RACE be included in the healing of our world.
Sharon is a professional teacher who specialized in teaching English and Christian Religious Education. Sharon works as the Executive Secretary at Universal Love Ministries in Kampala Uganda. As a teacher who has taught in different schools and different parts of Uganda interacting with children, women and youth from different families and cultures, she observed that a child especially a girl child faces a lot of challenges in Uganda. About three years back, after listening to teachings and humanitarian services that Universal Love Ministries is offering, she felt that Universal Love Ministries offers practical solutions to improve the life style of vulnerable groups; children, women and LGBTIQ. Sharon joined ULM to help improve life of children, women and LGBTIQ in Uganda.
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