TSM18-10 Recovering from Narcissist Abuse PRT 3

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guests Anouska and Sarah Squires, on air from March 13th

In our first show in this series, we covered the Narcissist in a relationship, our second on Children of Narcissist parents. This time is how to recover from the abuse of a narcissist, Sociopath or Psychopath.

We feel that we will never recover from such emotional and crippling abuse, or how to escape from their clutches, but recovery and freedom can be found, you just need help along the way.

Anouska and Sarah will share their expertise on how to recover from a Narcissistic experience and gain our own empowerment back by embracing our self-worth and learning to love our selves unconditionally.


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First, how do we identify, the tel-tale signs? Anouska shares the types here. 


We can even break it down further into classes. Taking the criteria for Narcissism from the DSM-IV, we can classify them as showing a tendency to exaggerate certain behaviours more than others. For instance, some will embellish their accomplishments, while others may be consumed with the concept of finding romantic love, and others might be more interested in behaving in duplicitous ways, conning and using others. Here is the list of behaviours, some of which tend to be more dominant than others.

  • Exaggerate their accomplishments

  • Obsessed with their uniqueness

  • Consumed with finding romantic love

  • Excessive entitlement behaviours

  • Devious and exploitative

  • Obsessed with fame and success

  • Believe they should get special treatment

  • Behave in a selfish and uncaring manner

  • Cannot relate to others feelings and desires

  • Behave in an envious or jealous manner

  • Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner

  • Excessively concerned with how they are perceived by others

  • Excessive need to have high-status friends or other status symbols to impress others.

Why type of narcissist do you/did you have in your life?

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Sarah from The Nurturing Coach says

When I was experiencing narcissistic abuse and parental alienation, I wanted someone who understands and helped me to find myself again. I couldn’t find anyone with this expertise so, once I felt stronger, I decided to use my experience as a social worker and retrain as an NLP Practitioner.

I help victims of narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation to deal with the trauma of their experience and give them the skills to protect their children from the ongoing abuse at the hands of their own parent.  As an ex-social worker, protecting children is at the heart of all that I do.  Whether that be adult children of narcissistic parents or parents trying to co-parent with a narcissist. 

www.thenurturingcoach.co.uk


PART 1 AND 2 IN THE SERIES CAN BE FOUND HERE.

Part1. ANOUSHKA’S SHOW ON Narcissistic, Sociopathic and Psychopathic Relationships CAN BE FOUND HERE 

Part 2. For Sarah’s show on NARCISSISM on Parenting go here. 


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C 18-10 Focus!: Drop the Law of Attraction. Slay Your Goals with David Essel.

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest David Essel, on air from March 6th

False: “We become what we think about all day long.” Buddha 

Truth: “We become what we do all day long.” David Essel 

“I remember the first time I had David Essel on my SiriusXM show. I love the power of positive thinking, so I was very curious as to what this guy was going to talk about when he was my guest with his book “Positive thinking will never change your life… But this book will! The myth of positive thinking, the reality of success.” Was I sceptical? Well, let’s just say intrigued. So he comes onto the show and I decided to give him a few minutes to explain why he believes that positive thinking is a myth. Four minutes later? I was absolutely sold. I actually stopped the show for a second, turned to my listeners, and said “you’ve got to listen to what this man is saying he’s the real deal. He knows what he’s talking about.” And it’s true. Why is he a regular returning guest to my show? Because David has the experience, knowledge, and believe it or not, such a positive attitude and his energy is infectious. With his new book, “Focus! The PROVEN guide to huge success, a great attitude and profound love.”, I find the same infectious attitude, powerful information, that will help you get back on track to accomplish everything you could want in life. With “Focus”, David goes deeply into the concept of profound love. He discusses something he created years ago that we’ve discussed several times on my show “the love scale, 1 to 10″. I’m excited to endorse his new book, just as excited as I was to endorse his last one, and which I said and still believe to this day ” David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.” May your life be enriched in attitude, success and love through this book.” Love, Jenny McCarthy Radio host, actress, best-selling author.

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“I have come to realize that we get out of life what we focus our thoughts on, and just as importantly, what we focus our actions on, on a daily basis. Over the years many people have put the emphasis for our success on the power of thought, from books to DVDs and movies. So what we see today in regards to goal achievement and goal setting is about focusing our thoughts. While this is incredibly important, what you are going to find out in this book, and what I think separates this book from so many other products on personal growth and motivation, is that we are going to look not just at what our mind is doing, but what our actions are doing, or not doing, on a daily basis as well.” David Essel.

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TBT 18-09  The Life and Fertility Coach Predeepa

 “Thoughts Become Things: International”  with Neomaya Davila aka Neo Positivity and his guest Pradeepa Narayanaswamy, on air from March 6th

 The Life and Fertility Coach Predeepa

As a Fertility & Life Coach, I coach people going through fertility challenges to
– Take Control & Ownership of your lives
– Keep the energy moving forward
– Attain emotional clarity & move towards your goals quickly!As an Agile Coach, Pradeepa is a self-proclaimed “Agile Passionista” who strongly believes in agile values & principles to help organizations delight their customers. Pradeepa helps teams and leaders in understanding & aligning with their organizational vision and supports in their transformation journey.


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C18-11 Raising Awareness of The Real Self: with Dr Vie

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Dr. Vie: on air from March 13th

Dr. Vie: Raising Awareness of The Real Self:

Super Conscious Humanity is the answer to a kind, non-violent, loving and blissful humanity.

AS LONG AS there is suffering, as long as there is regret, as long as there is little satisfaction in life, the human continues to search for a better life and something more.

But if you are suffering, why not put a stop to it?
If you are feeling regret, why not stop it?
If you are not satisfied, why not find something lasting instead of momentary?

What is it within the human that, even though he knows something is harmful to him, compels him to engage in action that ultimately drags him down to the pits of emotional torment and mental anguish?

“The answer lies in wait in every human, and the only way out is to unravel the real Self, and live fully in tune with your real identity, instead of living as someone else or for someone else,” says Dr. Vie.


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Dr. Vie (V) is of Indian lineage born in the throes of apartheid in South Africa and branded as “non-white.” Following an enlightening experience at age 16 as she was about to be killed by a soldier, her perspective of life changed.

“I left the country solo, something certainly uncommon in those days, for a tiny single Indian female. Since then, I’ve been living a nomadic life for +30 years on my own. An unplanned real-life adventure getting on my Life Express (as named in the Book); new places, a variety of peoples, numerous cultures, fantastic cuisines, foreign languages and of course many challenges.

What truly amazes me beyond the fascinating cities, towns and traditions, is the breathtaking natural environments as I hike high up in the mountain trails around the globe, sometimes with a guide and most often on my own.

The African ranges to the Himalayan peaks. Pristine air, sounds of nature, and the splendour of fauna and flora in their natural habitat resonated with me. Staring into the eyes of a young deer, strolling alongside a giraffe, and revelling in the dainty clasp of a hummingbird on my finger. Most often I am one with everything.

When I’m not exploring mountains, I share my personal revelations and insights to tens of thousands of all ages, from tiny tots ages 3+ to the 100+, in poverty-stricken huts and villages to plush halls. What a joy to witness human personal transformations. I love inspiring our fellow Beings.

Yes, I’ve many degrees, doctorate and post-doctorate from the USA, authored university books, self-help books as well as fiction time travel adventures. In Switzerland I dabbled in diagnostic devices (with a patent) and natural wellness, pioneering the first raw, fresh, vegan natural Superfoods factory in 2005 in Canada. The foods fed children, diabetics, patients, doctors, celebrities, Olympians and more. I’ve also taught as an assistant professor at a medical university, engaged in clinical practice, worked as a medical device scientist in Denmark and conduct research in India.

Since 2005 I self-fund my humanitarian super conscious work and help tens of thousands of youth especially in Africa. When the youngsters are living as their real Selves, they only wish love and safety and bliss for everyone.

Most of all, over the past 10 years I’ve been focusing my time inspiring our fellow Beings of all ages to live life as their real Selves…because I know the only hope for a better future is if humans are in full control of their own minds….and not being mind-controlled or living as anything but their real Selves, free. Our strength is within our freedom from the mind.

As I share my insights, my rewards come from the excitement in the eyes of those who attend the many seminars, workshops and events, the smiles that fill their faces, and the abundant hugs after each session. My work is my personal journey and not really work…but living, and I live a simple life, pouring any revenue back into my volunteer humanitarian life around the globe.”

Visit Dr. Vie’s site and join her free weekly interactive live streams focused on how to live as the real you, or contact her to invite her to speak at your events, or to set up a counseling session for your Self or loved ones, or peruse or benefit from the books, programs, online educational training within the Super Conscious Humanity memberships, workshops, superfoods and much more.

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TSM18-09 Victims of Narcissistic Parental Abuse Prt 2

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Sarah Squires, on air from February 27th


Over 26,000 people in the UK are diagnosed with having a severe personality disorder and 60-70% of all child abuses feature a parent with a severe personality disorder.  And those figures are based on diagnosed patients and reported abuse cases.  The real numbers are likely to be scarily higher.  So hundreds of thousands of children are being raised by disordered parents, all of whom are at risk of abuse and long-term harm.

My name is Sarah Squires, founder of The Nurturing Coach brand, and I help victims of narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation to deal with the trauma of their experience and give them the skills to protect their children from the ongoing abuse at the hands of their own parent.  As an ex-social worker, protecting children is at the heart of all that I do.  Whether that be adult children of narcissistic parents or parents trying to co-parent with a narcissist.

Having experienced narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation, I understand how lonely, frustrating and devastating it can be.  And I want to help.  I also run a training consultancy to train professionals working with children and families to recognise the signs of disordered parenting (in particular narcissism) and how to intervene in a more effective way.  This is part of the “wrap-around care” approach I have to tackling these issues.  You can’t treat the problem without working with those who play their role as flying monkeys!


I am really excited to be talking to Sara Troy about my work and I hope you will join us here 


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Anoushka and Sarah’s Narcissistic series within relationships and parenting. 

Part 1. ANOUSKAS SHOW ON NARCISSISM PART ONE IN THE SERIES FIND HERE 

Part 3. Recovering from Narcissist Abuse Prt 3 go here. 


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