TSM 15/34 You did not Invite RAPE it was their CHOICE

Thier Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Evelyn Obahor aired August 25th/15

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RAPE…..Is not to be taken lightly and is no laughing matter IT SCARES FOR LIFE

SMILING FLIRTING EVEN OVERT SEXUAL ATTENTION IS STILL NOT AN INVITATION TO RAPE.

Being a sensual and sexy woman is not an invitation or permission to RAPE. BEING A WOMAN IS NOT PERMISSION TO RAPE.

Being a child a wife an innocent is not permission for you to rape. Why is it that some men think that a woman being friendly or living in her own sensuality means that she is rapable? How can any man look at a child and think sexual thoughts and ACT ON THEM?

It is shameful that in this day and age with so much global information we still have to address the issue of a girls, women’s, boys right to say NO and not be raped and that some cultures still think they have the RIGHT to RAPE.


  HAVEN OF LIGHT-THE JUSTEVE ORGANISATION SUPPORTING SURVIVORS OF RAPE.

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Evelyn a highly successful outstanding TV and Movie Script Writer/Producer in African Television and movie industry. In the last 30 years, television host, script writer and movie/TV producer Evelyn Obahor has become a recognisable face in the media industry as one of the most successful media personalities of African descent.

But: She has experienced first hand the horrors of rape and now today has started a foundation where those who have been victimised to empower their person again and become a beautiful whole being living in self worth and divine love.

HAVEN OF LIGHT-The JUSTEVE organisation supporting survivors of RAPE through the healing process and offers them hope that even though they have been in a dark place, they can move on at their own pace embracing the light and hope for a bright future in their own lives.

Evelyn says “We find what skills the survivors have and help them achieve their dreams and aspirations. The process is not over till we see them succeeding in all their own endeavours”. Right now everything is done through Facebook as it reaches and invites people to share and remove the stigma of being a surviving rape victim and empower each other into thriving, not surviving life, just leave your message and they will get back to you, it is all private.

You can call any time to talk to someone confidentially and Evelyn’s organization is in North America, Nigeria, and the UK. TELL: …


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In 1998, Evelyn left DBN to set up her own production company producing programmes such as EVE…THE WAY WE ARE, and also became a media consultant. While working on her own projects, she also presented NTA 2 THIS MORNING with the likes of FEMI SEGUN, ISRAEL EDJEREN, SADIQ DABA, GEENA ETUK and MARIAN ANAZODO; the programme which is today known as AM EXPRESS. She also presented HELLO LAGOS with SEGUN ADEBOWALE on SILVER SCREEN TELEVISION.

On returning to the UK her place of birth, she quickly was spotted by BEN TELEVISION, the first Black station in the UK where she created and presented programmes such as BEN BREAKFAST SHOW which is now the flagship of the station, ON THE FERMINIESIDE and HEY LETS TALK.

Leaving BEN TELEVISION, she set up her own company,JUSTEVE BROADCASTING NETWORK LIMITED now known as FLOOD LIGHT BROADCASTING NETWORK LIMITED where she has produced and presented flagship programmes such as HEY LETS TALK, THE JUSTEVE SHOW, MYWORLD and the reality show THE BIG SEARCH working with PRINCESS DEUN SOLARIN, OMAYELI ODELI and SOLA OYEBADE .

As well as a creative genius in the media and TV production, Evelyn is also a dedicated mother blessed with a 22-year-old son Daniel who has become a fantastic footballer, currently playing in semi-professional football for a local club. Evelyn has a passion for children and is in the process of setting up a charity for children in Africa. In her own words, “I will die a fulfilled person when I have impacted the world by making a change and giving hope to all suffering and struggling people. I have been through the school of life with many hard experiences of which I have come out of very strongly and I am now ready to share my experiences to impact the world.”

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TSM15/32 Playing to Reduce Stress in Kids

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Michele Kambolis from Harbourside Family Counseling Centre aired August 11th

One in five children has a diagnosable mental disorder; one in eight experienced clinical levels of anxiety. Amidst these extremes, every family must deal with some level of childhood stress: worries about changes at home, school pressures and scary headlines. What caused this surge in anxiety in our young people? How can parents combat this? Esteemed child and family therapist Michele Kambolis combine theory and practical, play- based activity to help this ‘generation stressed’.

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Kambolis shows how to translate Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) techniques from her book Generation Stressed into fun, playful exercises that can be practised by parents with their children. CBT is the top, evidence-based toolset to reduce childhood anxiety; it teaches children powerful ways to change their thinking patterns and actions to decrease stress and increase resiliency.


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Michele-Kambolis1-560x660Children experiencing high levels of anxiety are more likely to be physically sick, experience additional social problems, suffer from weakened brain development, and be less financially independent in later life. At a time when mental health is at the forefront of many parents’ priorities, Kambolis demystifies methods that ensure our children’s mental well-being. At the heart of these methods is a focus on joyful parenting and the relationship between parent and child.

Michele Kambolis (MA) is a registered Child and Family Therapist and Parent Educator dedicated to raising awareness about mental health issues. She is currently pursuing her PhD program in Mind-Body Medicine at Saybrook University and is passionate about supporting global health initiatives. Her book, Generation Stressed, has received widespread praise from therapists, families and media alike. Kambolis writes a popular weekly parenting advice column, Parent Traps, for The Vancouver Sun.

Michele shares with us an easy to use handbook which offers original, engaging and effective exercises developed by Kambolis that you can use at home, on the road and in social settings to alleviate the symptoms of anxiety in your child.

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C15/33b Angels, Mediumship and Healing the Heart.

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Sunny Dawn Johnston aired August 18th-24th

          Why aligning with your Angels is the key to emotional and physical well-being.

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There is a major shift happening in the way people are regarding their health (physically, emotionally, and spiritually). More so now than ever, we are aware of how intricately tied our body, mind and spirit are. Angel Communicator, Spiritual Counselor, and Author, Sunny Dawn Johnston, has been guided to empower us all on our journey for health and prosperity. Sunny teaches that all healing (whether it be with addiction, disease, self-image, relationships, grief, etc.) starts from within. In order to truly heal and live our best life, we must connect on a soul level and accept guidance from the Angels who are here to help.

SunnyPix 04 16 2012Sunny Dawn Johnston is a world renowned psychic medium, dynamic and engaging inspirational speaker and gifted author. Since early childhood, Sunny has always known she was different and destined to do great things. As a teenager, she possessed an innate wisdom, awareness and curiosity of the Angelic realm and Spirit world. While she fought those gifts for many years, Spirit ultimately won and today Sunny is dedicated to teaching others about the Spirit world and unconditional love.

Over the last fifteen years, Sunny has performed thousands of readings and workshops where she’s communicated with angels, guides, and loved ones who have crossed over to the other side. The constant theme she receives from all of these divine entities and loved ones is: Love never ends!


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Sunny is the author of 6 books and has spoken internationally on the subject of Angels, Mediumship and Healing the Heart. Sunny has been featured on many local and national television and radio shows and has appeared in the award winning documentary Sacred Journey of the Heart. Her most recent endeavour has been starring in “A Séance with…” on Lifetime Movie Network LMN. Sunny’s latest book, The Love Never Ends: Message from the Other Side… was released in October 2014.

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C15/33a. Am I really Homosexual? Where do these feelings stem from?

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest David Pickup aired August 18th-24th 

Confusion, many kids at some point have an attraction for the same sex, but does that mean they are bi-sexual or homosexual?

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The shame and guilt that is imposed on then shuts them down and they never really get to look at why these feelings are there. Some come from sexual abuse some from misdirection, we need to talk about it and not dismiss or shame someone because of those feelings, and we need to understand if the are real or imposed on a person. If you’re straight or gay all is ok, but if you’re confused know why? UNDERSTAND TO SET FREE.

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David Pickup, is licensed in California and Texas as a Marriage and Family Therapist, whose 2 private practices involve those undergoing authentic Reparative Therapy. After having great success with Reparative Therapy in his own life, he is now an experienced therapist who facilitates therapy for men that truly works to reduce or dissipate homosexual feelings and helps them experience their heterosexual potential.

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Healing wounds and unmet needs……Resolving causes of homosexuality

Gender Identity Inferiority, especially during a young child’s gender/sexuality developmental years, can be a traumatic experience that is reinforced with Shame-Based Self-Beliefs for many years. For the pre-homosexual boy, and for adult men, bullying and repetitive shaming of gender identity from primary male relationships, frequently imbed this soul-wrenching Shame into the mind of the struggler. The client experiences emotional wounds, (often repressed), that prevent the journey from boyhood into manhood from being fully realized. Maleness becomes an object to the struggler instead of something wonderful that is subjectively experienced. The result?…In puberty, when sexual hormones “kick in,” masculinity is objectified and sexualized.

The men that come to Reparative Therapy in the world today come because they believe in their hearts that Homosexuality, for them, is truly not inborn. They can feel it. But they often don’t know that change is possible, or what to do about it. I invite you to take a look at both sides of the issue, and make up your mind for yourself. The first rule of good scientific evidence for any issue is to be open to consideration of ALL the evidence. What do you think?

Homosexuality is inborn and unchangeable?
Homosexuality is not inborn and can be changed?

I encourage you to read everything you can about both sides. I have to be honest here. I don’t think you’ll find many Gay individuals or Gay affirmative therapists tell you to consider both sides. This is interesting because even the American Psychological Association states that there is no Gay gene. They also state that evidently, homosexuality could be caused by a combination of genetic and environmental influences. 

I encourage you toward find what fits for you. 


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Reparative Therapy helps a client resolve these wounds, which can result in the spontaneous lessening and/or dissipation of homosexual feelings. The wounds are replaced by confident subjective feelings of their own masculinity and self-esteem. Attractions for women can arise as well. Regardless, a man can move toward his authentic heterosexual self.

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TSM 15/33 Who Says You Can’t? Just Do IT.

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Alvin Law aired from August 18th

Start an Attitude Revolution

Imagine if everyone in your organization saw themselves, and each other, as leaders. If they positively influenced each other by proactively jumping in and making things happen. If they inspired each other by consistently operating from a mindset of ‘yes’.

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What could you accomplish? How far could you go? Maybe you need to work to be awesome

Like you, attitude expert and bestselling author Alvin Law has heard a lot of clichés about cultivating a positive attitude. But are any of them true? Does a positive attitude really guarantee success in life? Should we force ourselves to think positively, no matter what our situation? Will mantras and sound bites change how we view ourselves and the world? Or are we thinking about attitude all wrong?

With over three decades of professional speaking and over five (ahem) decades of experience living life without arms, his view is radically different.

AlvinLaw_Promo1_fullAlvin’s mission is to spark a worldwide Attitude Revolution. Attitude Revolutions happen because people are inspired, from within themselves, to practice cultivating a more proactive and effective outlook on their lives. Alvin knows, and demonstrates to his audiences, that attitude is not about touchy-feely platitudes or ‘thinking positive’ – attitude is how we look at and interpret life overall. It is a skill that can be learned, and that must be practised. It is a tool that can be used. Most importantly, it can’t be imposed upon people – it has to come from a genuine place.

Alvin uses his story to challenge audiences to rewrite the negative stories they tell themselves about themselves; to stop feeling like victims in their lives and get proactive; to stop making excuses and start making choices. His fusion of storytelling, musical performance and down-to-earth humour connect with his audiences at an intimate, intense and individual level. Over 7,500 organizations on five continents, including Cisco Systems, Pfizer and Telus, have used Alvin to ignite, engage and transform their people.

Born with no arms as a result of the drug Thalidomide, Alvin was adopted by a family who taught him to use his feet for hands – and who by doing so gave him the gift of freedom. In addition to being a professional speaker, he is a trained broadcaster, fundraiser, award-winning musician and bestselling author. He has earned the designation of Certified Speaking Professional (CSP), an honour possessed by less than ten percent of professional speakers worldwide. In 2009, Alvin was inducted into the Canadian Association of Speakers (CAPS) Hall of Fame.


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Prior to his career as a professional speaker, Alvin worked for non-profit groups, in advertising and public relations, the civil service, and has even run for public office (unsuccessfully, but he got over it). He has appeared on countless telethons and media features and has been the subject of two award-winning television documentaries. He has played a direct role in raising over $175,000,000 for charity.

He shares his life with his wife and business partner, Darlene; his adult son, Vance; Raymond, the dog; and Trixie, the cat. They all live in beautiful Calgary, Alberta, Canada.

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