C 17-12b Joy in Mathematical Puzzles with Rob Eastaway

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Rob Eastaway, on air from March 21st.

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CHILDHOOD

I grew up in Cheshire in the North West of England in what – looking back – I realize was quite a carefree home environment where there were plenty of opportunities for imaginative play.  I loved playing most ball sports.  More unusually from a young age, I was also always intrigued by mathematical puzzles, an interest that was fed by my dad and later by one of my teachers who would often pose us riddles and quizzes. 

TEENS

images-1In my early teens, I had a few creative hobbies, including producing simple cartoon flick books and four-minute silent movies using an old 8mm cine camera.  But the innocent enthusiasm behind those and some of my other interests often set me apart from my peer group whose interests were increasingly turning towards heavy metal and parties.  I spent much of my mid-teens as an observer, watching how teenagers behaved with each other.  I was never bullied, but I became very sensitive to the injustice of people being laughed at just because they or their ideas were ‘different’. 

Around the age of 15 I immersed myself in the solitary activity of solving puzzles, and one day on a whim I had a go at setting a puzzle myself.  I submitted it to a national newspaper – The Sunday Times.  To my delight and amazement, they agreed to publish it.  That launched me into becoming a regular puzzle setter, first for The Sunday Times and then for New Scientist magazine.  Writing a monthly puzzle gave me early exposure to the world of journalism, and also took away some of the mystery of creativity.  I realized that ‘new’ ideas often come from immersing yourself in old ideas and then repackaging them.  There were other important lessons, too.  The second puzzle of mine that was published contained a serious error (it required April to have 31 days) and I was inundated by letters from angry readers who had been wasting time on an unsolvable challenge.  It was a harsh way to learn that while ideas are important, the end product has to work too.  


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CORPORATE CAREER

My interest in ‘real world’ puzzle solving led me to do study Engineering for my degree (at Cambridge University).  I then spent a few years working for Deloitte, one of the large management consultants.  I was lucky that their culture turned out to be one in which encouraged eccentricity.  Ideas and innovation were actively encouraged.  It gave me an excellent grounding in professional creative problem solving, and it was a confirmation that ‘fun’ could have serious benefits.  In 1991 I went freelance: I’d had my fill of working for big organizations and wanted the freedom to pursue my own passions in my own way.   I began running creative problem-solving workshops for senior managers in government (it was a huge, untapped market!) and also for graphic designers.  In my spare time, I also wrote a book about cricket.  I’ve always loved cricket, as a player and as a spectator, but was aware that the arcane laws of the sport are a mystery to most people. The book (‘What is a Googly?’) is an explanation of cricket to the general public. Getting that first book published in 1992 was probably the most satisfying creative project of my life – taking a project all the way from the seed of an idea to the finished product over the course of about 18 months, after many rejections by publishers.   The book did very well.  Its biggest claim to fame was that in 1993, Prime Minister John Major presented a copy of it to President George Bush (Snr) at Camp David.  (At the time it was an ongoing joke between the two leaders that Bush was a baseball fan, John Major a cricket fan).

BOOKS AND MATHS

In the late 1990s, an old friend Jeremy Wyndham asked me if I’d be interested in writing a book with him about the maths of everyday life.  That book became the bestselling Why Do Buses Come In Threes? and it was to push my career in a different direction.  I began to be invited into schools to give talks about maths for disaffected teenagers who couldn’t see the point of the subject.  I also started doing talks on maths and magic for primary school children.  Both of these proved to be a wonderful stimulus for generating ideas for new book material.  Jeremy and I wrote a second book, ‘How Long Is a Piece of String?’, and I have since gone on to write/co-write seven more books, some but not all of them about the maths of everyday life.  In 2004 I had the idea of putting on maths lecture shows for teenagers.  To get away from the notion that maths only happens in schools, we decided to hold the shows in regular theaters such as the Bristol Hippodrome and London’s Gielgud Theatre.  Our shows attract about 15,000 teenagers every year from across the UK.  We have to come up with new material each year, so nurturing ideas is an important part of my daily life.

CREATIVE THINKING BOOK – COMING FULL CIRCLE

In the last few years, maths education has become dominated by the words ‘creativity’ and ‘problem-solving’.  This has been a theme of workshops that I have run for maths teacher for several years, but until now I never formally made the link back to my previous life running workshops for civil servants.  My new book ‘Any Ideas?’ has brought those two worlds together.  The book is about the whole process of ideas – from having them, to implementing them.  What distinguishes it from the many other books on this topic is that I differentiate between having ideas on your own, and having ideas with one or more other people.  In most situations, there’s more than one person involved in the idea process, and that introduces all sorts of complications.  A lot of the book is about how to overcome the natural tendency to kill ideas (either our own or other people’s).  There’s also a chapter dedicated to the importance of SILLINESS: if we want to have new ideas, we have to tolerate a period of having ideas that may at first seem impractical, dangerous, crass or just silly.  The other feature of the book is that it has puzzles dotted throughout.  Puzzles are often a great way to illustrate the principles of creative and lateral thinking.

The book is aimed at the general public but it’s as relevant to maths teachers as it is to any other adults.

FAMILY

I’ve been married to Elaine, an American, for 18 years.  We have three children, who help to keep me young and (most of the time) enthusiastic.

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17-10 OK UK here I come

Sara Troy with Sara’s View Of Life. On air from March 7th.

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Well, it is here at last, my trip home to see family and friends.

The last time I was home it was to say goodbye to my Mama in April 2014, she passed February 2015. I did not go back for the funeral, we had a celebration of her life here my children. Since then my brother had a heart attack, which as he went Vegan is now doing very well, my sister is a few years older than so and time is a clicking, so it was time to go home and unite once more.

I am also taking the time to meet with some of my Self Discovery radio guests while there, it is going to be awesome to put faces to the voices. We have our first Self Discovery Ebook coming out in April, of which Tony Selimi of London is in, so excited to meet him. Maybe get some of them to commit to the next ebook due out in the summer.

My sister Jane has got us on a fun schedule, seeing cousins, shopping, museums etc. Then I go see my brother in Lincolnshire where we have a few days before we come back to London to have some sibling time altogether.

So bags packed, finishing up my shows edits, got some good ones for you while am away, will be working on social media and email while away, but I am taking time for me and have a look at what is possible for my future.


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LM/PVR 17-10 The BRAVO 748 Musicians

Positive Vibrations Roundtable & “for the LOVE of Music” with Sara Troy and her guests, Adam Martin, and Nicholas Sterling, all on air from March 7th on.


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Blackbird Anthem is a Southern Rock band from the heartland of Florida. Their music is a blend of southern rock, outlaw country, and blues. Fronted by lead singer/songwriter Adam Martin, Blackbird Anthem’s songs are tales of love, loss, regrets, and redemption. A U.S. Army combat veteran, Adam taught himself to play guitar after returning home from Iraq. A few years later, he began writing songs and performing locally. He formed Blackbird Anthem with David Bruce and later added Cody Owens on drums. Their debut EP, Stories I’ve Never Told, was released in early 2016 and is available worldwide across multiple digital media platforms including iTunes, Amazon, and Spotify. Their debut single, Come Kiss Me was featured on the syndicated radio program “The Iceman Show” and their music is in normal rotation on HV Rebel Country Radio as well as many other internet radio stations. As both a solo artist and with his band, Adam has performed throughout Florida and southeast Texas. Notable stages include Tootsie’s Orchid Lounge in Nashville, TN and House of Blues in Orlando, FL. Blackbird Anthem has opened for several national touring artists and played at multiple music festivals in Florida and Texas including CountryFlo, Texas Frog Fest, Vetfest, Texas Aggie Vetfest, Delandapalooza, and more. Blackbird Anthem is also a finalist in the Runaway Country Music Fest Artist Search 2017. They have recorded with all-star musicians Darin Favorite (lead guitarist for Tracy Lawrence), James Cook (bass player for Luke Bryan), Kent Slucher (drummer for Luke Bryan), and Jake Clayton.

In February 2017, Blackbird Anthem released their song 22 as a tribute to the 22 Veterans a day who die by suicide. All proceeds from 22 will be donated to the Lone Survivor Foundation. Blackbird Anthem is on the album “Battle Cry: Songs of America’s Heroes” released by Pacific Records in March 2017. Their song “Tonight We Ride” is featured. Blackbird Anthem has returned to the studio and begun work on their full-length album, Southern Ground.


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A Parents Approving Praise its not wanted anymore

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Our children grow up seeking our approval, pleasing Mum or Dad looking to know they have done something right. They look at you with those enthusiastic eyes and do things with such eager intent it is heart warming.

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You can do no wrong in their eyes, a hug from Mama, a smile and well done, went so far and gave them the encouragement to explore more ways of pleasing you. They were adventurous, making things for you, drawing pictures that they took such pride in and putting on plays to act out for you. It was wonderful and I still have a lot of my children’s art from that time. They were innocent loving creatures of a pure heart.

Then they hit the teenage years, and now you can’t to anything right and the last thing they want to do is please YOU. Now all you do is get in their way, stop them from living their dreams by dampening their spirit, or so they think and totally believe. They are caught up in the transition of becoming an adult and while hurrying to be older they are also resisting leaving childhood. Conflicts galore.

images-1Then they are young adults, working, living, arguing and pointing out how everything wrong it the world was our doing, and they will do it so much better than us. After all, they are young so must know everything right? Little do they know and until they grow older sampling the wares of life, do they understand just how hard life really is. All those ideals are not so clear anymore because reality has set in and now faced with the truth, they understand just how hard it is to change a systematic pattern that has been around a very long time.

The party days grow fewer, the workload heavier, another person to care for or maybe even more, life has suddenly hit them in the head and now they too are caught in the cycle of life. Do they see their parents differently then? Sometimes, and so many times not. Depending on how you have brought up your children, opening the minds to the world, showing them the diversity, or not, is the way they will interact and connect with anything and everyone. The more they traveled, explored learned about other cultures, they more their minds hearts and souls opened. But if they did not, all they have to draw from is the little world they came from.

downloadIf you as a parent have traveled even lived in others countries you will bring a certain influence to their world, but they are still governed by the limitations of theirs. So, encouraging your children to travel and open up their minds is so very beneficial to their lives. I was lucky to have lived in 3 countries already when I had my children and had traveled a lot. I made sure we took our kids traveling, not as much as I would have liked but some, so they could be open to other ways of cultures. I encouraged an open dialogue at the dinner table, asking those questions to learn from. I encouraged them to travel on their own, even if it was a bit nerve racking for me as a parent as I understood the lifelong benefits from it.

I was lucky to have lived in 3 countries already when I had my children and had traveled a lot. I made sure we took our kids traveling, not as much as I would have liked but some, so they could be open to other cultures ways. I encouraged an open dialogue at the dinner table, asking those questions to learn from, open their wonderment to the world and embracing that is different, encourage the questions and don’t be afraid to answer them. I encouraged them to travel on their own, even if it was a bit nerve racking for me as a parent as I understood the lifelong benefits from it, opening up to all that is life.

I was hoping that with their world perspective they would understand mine, but alas, not. My children still see me as just Mum, not the world traveler I was, not the wisdom I have gained, not the insight I have, but still just Mum. How do we open their minds to see you for who you are not just someone who birthed them or raised them? How do they see you as a person in your own right? How do you show them who you are and what you stand for? YOU HAVE TO GO OUT AND LIVE FOR YOURSELF.

images-3Living for you, embracing you, owning you, empowering you will show them who you are. They may not like seeing you as a person and not just their Mum or DAD, BUT, this is your life and living for you, does not mean you don’t love them any less, but only that you are here to do more with your life.

They like to know their parents are there for them, secure stable and with always an open door. They like to know that we are there for them any time no matter what. As parents, we try to be, we want to be interactive in their lives, we want a connection with our children, but we also want our children to see us as adults who have already wanted the path that they are on. We may have more dreams ourselves, more to do in life, more directions to take and most certainly embrace the changes before us. We are not over yet, we still have so much more to do, just like them.

Many a parent has lost the connection with their child because the child would not accept who they are outside of being a parent, this is on them, their choice that they must own, we cannot take it on. We strive through life to find and live in an authentic identity, we strive to find a meaningful purpose, we strive to learn to love ourselves and we seek to love life and live it to its fullest. This is the journey of life that all of us in some way, are journeying.

I am not the same person I was when I raised my children, I am not that woman who only lived for her kids, I am still a loving Mother who loves her children, that will never change, but I am also now a woman who has a life of her own life. My children will ALWAYS be so very important to me, their wellbeing, their soul fulfillment their joy in their heart, and the growth of their purpose is what I long for. I suppose there comes a time where you have to stop being a parent to them and invite them to see you as a person in your own right. Do you stop being a parent? NEVER for that is built into our very DNA, but it does mean we go and live our lives for ourselves, making us a happier person that can bring to the children’s table our strength our love and our knowledge.

They like to know their parents are there for them, secure stable and with always an open door. They like to know that we are there for them any time no matter what. As parents, we try to be, we want to be interactive in their lives, we want a connection with our children, but we also want our children to see us as adults who have already walked the path that they are on. We may have more dreams ourselves, more to do in life, more directions to take and most certainly embrace the many changes before us. We are not over yet, we still have so much more to do, just like them.

e12fef61e09b63849525e9230dc79907So, although you will always be the parent, do not forget to be the person you are. Man, or Woman who also is a Dad and a Mama, do not lose your identity, do not sacrifice yourself just so a child will love you, for is they really love YOU, they will love the whole of you and realize what an asset you are to their lives.

To all you parent’s out there facing this crossroads, hold on to your inner strength, stand tall in your being, and invite them to see you in all your glorious light, for it is that light that shines the way for them.

 

Always a Loving parent

Sara Troy

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C17-10 &11b. Murder Of Talent: How Pop Culture Is Killing “IT”

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Lisa Dalton, on air from March 7th

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Murder Of Talent: How Pop Culture Is Killing “IT” By Lisa Loving Dalton, Amazon #1 Bestselling Author

Behind-the-Scenes Tell-All About How Talented Artists and Athletes Are Mentally and Physically Killed by Badly Behaving Fans, Families, Teachers and Coaches Who Deify, Vilify and Crucify Our Stars. How She Found Healthier Ways to Mentor the Talented and Bring Healing to Our Culture In the midst of award season, Lisa Loving Dalton, a forty-year veteran of the entertainment industry, dares to pull back the curtain of tinsel town to examine some very gritty facts. What stands out in her new book Murder Of Talent: How Pop Culture Is Killing “IT” is the no-holds-barred assay she makes on the fans, the families, mentors and the talented ones revealing the dangers that exist. An easy and dynamic read, with something for everyone, this part memoir, part political diatribe is also a master class for training for Peak Performance in art, athletics, politics and life. Dalton puts us all on trial for the death and destruction of our stars, our Dalton puts us all on trial for the death and destruction of our stars, our wannabes, ourselves and our culture. She calls for the arrest of some and even judges herself guilty of self-violence for allowing a famous coach to destroy her film-acting career. Then, with empathy and wisdom, Lisa gently steps us along a path to redemption with tips for each of us on how to stop the metaphoric and actual bloodshed, leading us to happier, healthier lives. Endorsed by a Clinical Psychologist and a Tony Award-winning Producer, with fore-word by noted scholar/author Dr. Sharon Carnicke, Dalton courageously shares painful true stories of how she and fellow artists were indoctrinated in PTSD-inducing techniques.


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The knife is further twisted when we understand this destruction is still propagated by academia and manipulative super coaches, some making over a million dollars a year as they drain the pockets of penniless actors and a few super-stars to boot. No wonder stars are killing themselves with sex, drugs and other bad behavior. Perhaps the most publicly provocative aspect of this book is how children are traumatized into denying their talent by parents, teacher’s and peers. Parents fear economic and social instability, and even attach homophobia to talent, refusing to support their children in non-math/science careers, forcing them away from what they love and into other fields where they suffer, fail and take a toll on society. Dalton reveals what it takes to survive humiliation in the classroom, harassment and jealousy from friends, self-doubt and parental disapproval. It is rare that any adult passes a single day without repeated exposure to entertainment.

229544_218054118213551_3838855_nDalton reminds us that since ancient times, storytellers have led the critical task of unifying and uplifting the culture. Yet learning how to uptake that noble task is at risk. Politically, the arts, while having scientifically demonstrated outstanding economic and health benefits, are being systemically eradicated from curricula. Murder Of Talent reveals the cost, the cause and a cure for the negative impact pop culture and its icons have on each other. It challenges the reader to reflect on their own role in society’s badly behaving celebrities while calling on coaches and parents to step up their game to offer higher quality mentorship. For those with talent, it asks them to go beyond their fears, demand respect and learn how to survive being deified, vilified or crucified by the public. “We need talent now as much as our tribal ancestors did when they carved masks on the cave walls. It’s time to stop the murder of talent and start healing the wounds of our culture through the arts.” Lisa Loving Dalton, National Michael Chekhov Association Master Acting Teacher, Director, Filmmaker, John Maxwell Certified Speaker, Trainer, Coach, Athlete, Amazon #1 Best-Selling Author of Falling For The Stars: A Stunt Gal’s Tattle Tales, has shared her performing, leadership and teaching talents across the world. She has appeared in over 200 films, TV shows and commercials. An avid motorcyclist, golfer, diver.

Parents fear economic and social instability, and even attach homophobia to talent, refusing to support their children in non-math/science careers, forcing them away from what they love and into other fields where they suffer, fail and take a toll on society. Dalton reveals what it takes to survive humiliation in the classroom, harassment and jealousy from friends, self-doubt and parental disapproval. It is rare that any adult passes a single day without repeated exposure to entertainment. Dalton reminds us that since ancient times, storytellers have led the critical task of unifying and uplifting the culture. Yet learning how to uptake that noble task is at risk. Politically, the arts, while having scientifically demonstrated outstanding economic and health benefits, are being systemically eradicated from curricula.

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Murder Of Talent reveals the cost, the cause and a cure for the negative impact pop culture and its icons have on each other. It challenges the reader to reflect on their own role in society’s badly behaving celebrities while calling on coaches and parents to step up their game to offer higher quality mentorship. For those with talent, it asks them to go beyond their fears, demand respect and learn how to survive being deified, vilified or crucified by the public. “We need talent now as much as our tribal ancestors did when they carved masks on the cave walls. It’s time to stop the murder of talent and start healing the wounds of our culture through the arts.” Lisa Loving Dalton, National Michael Chekhov Association Master Acting Teacher, Director, Filmmaker, John Maxwell Certified Speaker, Trainer, Coach, Athlete, Amazon #1 Best-Selling Author of Falling For The Stars: A Stunt Gal’s Tattle Tales, has shared her performing, leadership and teaching talents across the world. She has appeared in over 200 films, TV shows and commercials. An avid motorcyclist, golfer, diver, she never lets her dyslexic klutziness and crippling stunt injury get in the way of sharing her love of talent, though if you eat a meal with her, she will wear a bib.

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