Sara Troy on Sara’s View of Life show, on air from November 29th

Am I getting old, or are manners becoming a lost art? Simple words like “please” and “thank you” seem to be fading from everyday life, and courtesy is rarely taught or practiced. Yet when someone takes a moment to say thank you, it reminds us that what we did mattered, that we are seen and appreciated.

Do you remember Carole King’s song: “You’ve got to get up every morning with a smile on your face and show the world all the love in your heart…”? A genuine smile can shift the energy in a room. A little courtesy, a heartfelt “please” or “thank you” can brighten someone’s day — including your own.

And now we’re plunging into the big, bustling Christmas season — when everyone (and yes, even their dogs) is out shopping. The crowds are loud, the shelves look picked over, and frustration rises fast. You’re normally patient… but the line feels endless, the clerk is overwhelmed, and that perfect gift seems to have vanished.

Breathe. Be patient. The season is meant to be joyful.
Courtesy can be contagious — let’s make sure we’re spreading the right kind.

When one person snaps, it ripples outward. But kindness ripples too. Here are some tips to help you keep your cool and your cheer this holiday season:

1?? Plan ahead — Don’t leave everything to the last minute. Spread your shopping over a few outings so you can look without pressure.
2?? Do your research — Flyers, catalogues, and online browsing can give you gift ideas before you go out.
3?? Ask for a list — Especially helpful with teens and tricky relatives. Choose something special from what they suggest.
4?? Shop smart — Avoid weekends if you can. Evenings during dinner hours are often quieter. Take break moments for a warm drink and a recharge.
5?? Give meaningfully — Consider donating in someone’s name or creating gift baskets for those in need. Include your children — it teaches giving from the heart.
6?? Gift cards count — Teens love post-Christmas sales. Add a small personal gift to show thoughtfulness.
7?? Gifts for spouses — Don’t buy household items as the gift. Choose something personal and treasured — jewellery, experiences, favourite music, cozy luxuries.
8?? Show love both ways — Practical gifts are great, but sprinkle in something playful, romantic, or fun.
9?? In-laws — When unsure, keep it classy and universal: good wine, a festive treat, an ornament, a family photo gift, or a lovely outing. Respect personal beliefs in your choices.
? Make it personal — Homemade or heartfelt gifts — writing, baking, painting, music — can mean more than anything purchased.

BUY LOCAL AND SUPPORT YOUR COMMUNITY

When someone says, “You shouldn’t have!”
Reply: “Of course I should — you’re worth it.”

And if you receive something you don’t love?
Say: “Thank you for thinking of me — I feel very special.”

Because at the end of the day, it’s not just the gift…
It’s the gratitude, the grace, and the love behind it that people remember.

appreciated

Thats Christmas is to me

Courtesy is one of our greatest human assets. It costs nothing, yet it carries tremendous value and is always appreciated. When someone takes the time to do something thoughtful for you this season, pause and truly acknowledge the effort — the energy, the intention, and the care behind it. Be grateful that you are the one they chose to give to.

If you can’t reciprocate with material gifts, offer your time, your attention, your kindness. Time is precious — and giving it is often the most meaningful gift of all.

Gratitude is the best response.

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