“I Didn’t Become Selfish, I Became Harder to Manipulate”
A Powerful eBook & Audio Experience ?
Too many of us know the sting of manipulation… The subtle control, the emotional coercion, and the bullying are masked as love or care.
This isn’t just a book—it’s a movement of truth-telling. In this compelling multi-author eBook and Audio, 27 courageous souls—both men and women from across the globe—have come together to bare their stories. Stories of reclaiming power. By saying “no more,” Of finding their way back to self-worth and soul-sovereignty.
Each chapter is a doorway into personal transformation—raw, honest, and resonant. And it doesn’t stop on the page… This book is paired with an audio version where each author reads their own chapter aloud so you can feel the truth, the emotion, and the breakthroughs in their own voice.
If you’ve ever felt trapped in someone else’s narrative, this book is for you. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” or “not enough,” If choosing yourself has been mistaken for selfishness.
You are not alone. These stories are here to remind you: You are worthy. You are powerful. And you deserve to live free from manipulation.
I, Sara Troy, am honored to be a part of this book, as it is a topic often brought up in our shows, placing value upon yourself is not being selfish. Do enjoy.
Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Sara Jane, on air from April 1st
Coming This April 1st: A Powerful eBook & Audio Experience ? “I Didn’t Become Selfish, I Became Harder to Manipulate”
Too many of us know the sting of manipulation… The subtle control, the emotional coercion, and the bullying are masked as love or care.
This isn’t just a book—it’s a movement of truth-telling. In this compelling multi-author eBook and Audio, 27 courageous souls—both men and women from across the globe—have come together to bare their stories. Stories of reclaiming power. Of saying “no more.” Of finding their way back to self-worth and soul-sovereignty.
Each chapter is a doorway into personal transformation—raw, real, and resonant. And it doesn’t stop on the page… This book is paired with an audio version where each author reads their own chapter aloud so you can feel the truth, the emotion, and the breakthroughs in their own voice.
If you’ve ever felt trapped in someone else’s narrative, this book is for you. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” or “not enough,” If choosing yourself has been mistaken for selfishness.
You are not alone. These stories are here to remind you: You are worthy. You are powerful. And you deserve to live free from manipulation.
? Release Date: Tuesday, April 1st Share it with your community, and get ready to feel seen, heard, and empowered.
The authors are Sara Jane, Angela Orora Medway-Smith, Anne Klint, Dr. Anthony E. Wilson, Bina Di Livio, Bradford W. Tilden, C. S. Roberts, David D McLeod, Dianna Leeder, Dirk Albrodt, Dorian A. Des Lauriers, Elizabeth McPherson, Heather Prince, Ilene Dillon, Jean Voice Dart, Jos Smeets, Kate Babetin, Laurie Mornin, Linda Binns, Dr. Linda Marsanico, Lorree Appleby, Mahalia Michael, Michol Mae, Nicole Perterhans, Peiming Sun, R. Scott Holmes, and your hostSara Troy.
Sara Jane is the sum of all her experiences, from the accident as a baby, through to working in her parents’ hotel as a teen, plus doing paper rounds.
Sara worked in retail to area manager level as a consumer services manager for two toy manufacturers, managing pubs/bars, insurance, and working with both children and adults with learning difficulties.
A “LifeQuake” in 1996 helped Sara to wake up and let go of her people-pleasing way of living. Learning to say yes to herself and No to others. Her own healing journey is reflected in the work she does today
She is now a complementary health therapist, mainly working with energy techniques such as Reiki and Sound. Sara is the creator of Vocal Reiki, a technique that supports individuals to connect with and heal the hurt, pain, and trauma experienced by their younger selves.
In 2014, Sara founded Gift of Healing TV and is the main presenter. She is an international speaker and author, including the No#1 best seller Gifts of Wisdom: Practices for Healing and Empowerment, and she channels Light Language. FOUND HERE
The book came about because of an article she wrote and then recorded for YouTube, “You Didn’t Become Selfish, You Became Harder to Manipulate”, posted on 1st April 2024, which to date has had 99,000 views and over 600 comments posted beneath it.
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I’ve had the honour of interviewing the wonderful Sara Jane several times now, and I’m also proud to be a contributor to her powerful book, “I Didn’t Become Selfish, I Became Harder to Manipulate.”
Sara speaks and lives from the heart — and you can feel it in everything she does.
Below, you’ll find the inspiring shows we’ve created together, along with her impactful book. Dive in, enjoy, and soak up the wisdom shared. There’s something here for every soul ready to receive.
A Powerful eBook & Audio Experience ? “I Didn’t Become Selfish, I Became Harder to Manipulate”
Too many of us know the sting of manipulation… The subtle control, the emotional coercion, and the bullying are masked as love or care.
This isn’t just a book—it’s a movement of truth-telling. In this compelling multi-author eBook and Audio, 27 courageous souls—both men and women from across the globe—have come together to bare their stories. Stories of reclaiming power. Of saying “no more.” Of finding their way back to self-worth and soul-sovereignty.
On this show, Sara, Enolia & Sara Jane will share their thoughts and suggestions of things that work for them to help keep their vibrations as high as possible.
Sara Jane is the founder of Vocal Reiki, which incorporates both the energy of Reiki and Toning (the use of the voice but not singing).
During this interview, you will learn a little of Sara’s own story, her healing journey, and how she uses her own experiences to help reconnect with and heal your Inner Child.
All of our shows/interviews are done by donation; if you enjoyed this show, please support us here with either a one-time donation or subscribe and support. Thank you. Please support Our Forgotten Seniors anthology and help to bring this book to awareness.
Ignite your heart and soul with Sara Troy and her guests Sara Jane and Enolia, on air from January
On this show, Sara, Enolia & Sara Jane will share their thoughts and suggestions of things that work for them to help keep their vibrations as high as possible.
Sara Jane says,
The words Good Vibrations remind me of the Beach Boys song and the line:” I love the colorful clothes she wears.” and colour is a beautiful place to start to raise your vibration. For all of us we have choices in our daily lives and the ones we make affect our vibration, as do the words we use. 2020 has been a very different year for the majority of people and the choices we made, including our words, reactions, actions, and so much more, have shaped our experiences. We all have downtime, but it is our choice to stay there or rise above it and feel happier in our own lives.
Enolia says, We are multi-dimensional beings in multi-dimensional times. We have many choices of paths and realities that we can activate from the center of beings and the center of our consciousness.
This activation takes place in our thoughts, words, and intentions, both consciously and unconsciously, to establish our vibration. Ignite positive vibrations by creating a path in life that carries facets of happiness in every thought, decision,and accomplishment in your vision for 2021.
All of our shows/interviews are done by donation; if you enjoyed this show, please support us here with either a one-time donation or subscribe and support. Thank you. Please support Our Forgotten Seniors anthology and help to bring this book to awareness.
Ignite your heart and soul with Sara Troy and her guest Sara Jane, on air from August 10th
Sara Jane is the founder of Vocal Reiki, which incorporates both the energy of Reiki and Toning (the use of the voice but not singing).
During this interview, you will learn a little of Sara’s own story, her healing journey, and how she uses her own experiences to help re-connect with and heal your Inner Child.
Trauma, hurt & pain have affected so many from a very early age, and children don’t know how to deal with it.
They are not as resilient as people think; they bury that hurt & pain, and it can seriously affect how they think of themselves throughout their lives.
Supporting your younger self to feel loved and heard can make a huge difference to your life today.
Sara will share a demonstration and encourage you to join in.
Sara also speaks what she believes is our Soul Language, what others call Light Language, and will happily share more about this with a message.
An Interview with The Dragons
In 2009 Sara became aware that she is a channel for many Mythical Friends, including Dragons.
She shares monthly messages from Mythical Beings as well as the Dragons that guards over the Earth’s Crystals.
Last year her awareness of Grandfather Dragon grew, an old and very wise Dragon, who came through, with others, to answer questions on a live program.
If you have any questions you would like to ask of the Dragons, feel free to ask them.
Sara also speaks what she believes is our Soul Language, what others call Light Language, and will happily share more about this with a message.
Who is Sara Jane?
Sara Jane is the Master of Voice and creator of Vocal Reiki, founder of Gift of Healing TV, an International Speaker, and Author.
She is based in Bournemouth, England, where she runs her own therapy practice and hosts workshops to help you connect with your inner child.
Sara is a Master Teacher & Practitioner of both Reiki & Vocal Reiki.
Sara draws on her own life experiences and healing journey to support those who attend her practice, courses, and workshops.
She comes from a varied background, having worked in retail, office and Public House management, as well as insurance.
A fun fact about Sara is that she has been a Trainee Handler with the Wolves at the UK Wolf Conservation Trust and felt honoured to interact with these amazing creatures.
She is also a voice for many friends from the Mythical Realm, including the Dragons that guard over Earth’s Crystals.
All of our shows/interviews are done by donation; if you enjoyed this show, please support us here with either a one-time donation or subscribe and support. Thank you. Please support Our Forgotten Seniors anthology and help to bring this book to awareness.
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