18-10 Eternal Optimism but running out of Enthusiasm?

March 2, 2018March 31, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast 2 Comments

Sara Troy on Sara’s View of Life, on air from March 6th

Sometimes those dark thoughts come creeping in, they take away your enthusiasm for your optimism. How do we stop that from happening?

I am the eternal optimist, always believing that somehow it will work out, that I am meant to go this way, meant to take this journey. Then something happens and you are challenged once again, and you wonder about it all. I am very enthusiastic about what I do, what vision I see for the future, what possibilities lay before me, and I take action to put them in the process, then it is STOP, not now.

That is when you get the hurry up and wait, what wait why? everything feels right, the vision is clear the action is needed now, so why the wait? Well, you can not argue with the universe, and you have to surrender to patience once again. BUT, it is a damper on the enthusiasm.

I am optimistic that my vision will find its action, in time, and I will always find my enthusiasm for it is my divine presence, even though it drops off sometimes on those dark days for a moment or two.

So how we choose to see the world is our choice, even when things are shity, think manure for that is the soil of growth. I know at times it can be challenging, the always up to only be brought down, but maybe those down times are preparing us for what wonders are to come.

So don’t get gloomy, I know it is hard at times, dark at times, even scary, do not forget that freedom starts in the mind with a willingness to connect with our heart and souls.

I face this daily, yet I choose even though the clouds to see the clear blue sky. Sometimes I have to see it in my mind before I truly see it in my heart, but when you do, you know, this darkness will pass and optimism and enthusiasm will prevail.

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TSM18-10 Recovering from Narcissist Abuse PRT 3

March 2, 2018November 17, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guests Anouska and Sarah Squires, on air from March 13th

In our first show in this series, we covered the Narcissist in a relationship, our second on Children of Narcissist parents. This time is how to recover from the abuse of a narcissist, Sociopath or Psychopath.

We feel that we will never recover from such emotional and crippling abuse, or how to escape from their clutches, but recovery and freedom can be found, you just need help along the way.

Anouska and Sarah will share their expertise on how to recover from a Narcissistic experience and gain our own empowerment back by embracing our self-worth and learning to love our selves unconditionally.

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First, how do we identify, the tel-tale signs? Anouska shares the types here.

We can even break it down further into classes. Taking the criteria for Narcissism from the DSM-IV, we can classify them as showing a tendency to exaggerate certain behaviours more than others. For instance, some will embellish their accomplishments, while others may be consumed with the concept of finding romantic love, and others might be more interested in behaving in duplicitous ways, conning and using others. Here is the list of behaviours, some of which tend to be more dominant than others.

Exaggerate their accomplishments
Obsessed with their uniqueness
Consumed with finding romantic love
Excessive entitlement behaviours
Devious and exploitative
Obsessed with fame and success
Believe they should get special treatment
Behave in a selfish and uncaring manner
Cannot relate to others feelings and desires
Behave in an envious or jealous manner
Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner
Excessively concerned with how they are perceived by others
Excessive need to have high-status friends or other status symbols to impress others.

Why type of narcissist do you/did you have in your life?

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Sarah from The Nurturing Coach says

When I was experiencing narcissistic abuse and parental alienation, I wanted someone who understands and helped me to find myself again. I couldn’t find anyone with this expertise so, once I felt stronger, I decided to use my experience as a social worker and retrain as an NLP Practitioner.

I help victims of narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation to deal with the trauma of their experience and give them the skills to protect their children from the ongoing abuse at the hands of their own parent. As an ex-social worker, protecting children is at the heart of all that I do. Whether that be adult children of narcissistic parents or parents trying to co-parent with a narcissist.

www.thenurturingcoach.co.uk

PART 1 AND 2 IN THE SERIES CAN BE FOUND HERE.

Part1. ANOUSHKA’S SHOW ON Narcissistic, Sociopathic and Psychopathic Relationships CAN BE FOUND HERE

Part 2. For Sarah’s show on NARCISSISM on Parenting go here.

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C18-10 Worthy Women embracing your self worth and love

March 1, 2018March 19, 2018Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Faye Hurley, on air from March 6th

“3 Steps to Self Worth that Attracts Phenomenal Love & Success.

If you feel like you have to work incredibly hard to receive success,
If you feel like you’re always ‘giving, giving, giving’…yet receiving very little in return,
If you feel exhausted and resentful, and just wish that you could have the love, money (or any other form of success) with ease…

Then this topic is for you!

The root cause of all of the above is low self-worth…even if you appear self-confident to the outside world!

In my interview with Sara, I will be sharing 3 life changing tips, that will transform your life, love and wealth forever. I know this to be a fact because these steps changed my own life, and continue to change my client’s lives.

I experienced multiple toxic and dysfunctional relationships, during my childhood and adulthood; as well as a dysfunctional relationship with money too. But the steps I’m sharing enabled me to attract loving relationships, including my partner of 10 years, and to become a multiple awards winning entrepreneur.

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These steps are the ‘magical keys’ to shedding all of the resistance you have to receive what you truly want. They enable you to become an ‘aligned match’ to attracting and receiving your heart’s desires…without having to struggle, strive or prove yourself. You start to receive with ease!

You will attract:
– The fulfilling, emotionally supportive, loving relationships you’ve always wanted
– The money you want
– The freedom and joy you want
– The creative, passionate, fulfilling life that you know, deep down, you’re meant to be living

So if this is something that excites you,
If this is something you want for your life right now,
I can’t wait for you to join us as I share this topic that I’m so passionate about!”

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David Essel shows

February 28, 2018March 29, 2018Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

David Essel, #1 Best Selling Author, TV/Radio Host, Master Business, Relationship & Success Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Addiction Recovery Coach #1 best-selling author says that positive thinking accounts for only 20% of anyone’s success ! And proved it in his new book.

Nine-time author, master life coach and national radio host is crowned the “New Leader of The Positive Thinking Movement” by radio & TV host/actress Jenny McCarthy

“Positive Thinking Will Never Change Your Life… But This Book Will! The Myth of Positive Thinking, The Reality of Success” on Amazon.com (www.talkdavid.com). The free giveaway will last through Friday, February 10^th, just in time for Valentine’s Day. The book breaks the rules on the way we think about positivity, with stories that include collaborations with six New York Times best-selling authors.

Actress and Sirius XM Host, Jenny McCarthy has endorsed David’s book and crowned him “The New Leader of The Positive Movement”, while Dr. Wayne W. Dyer said “David Essel’s destiny is to help you become more alive in every area of your life.” Watch David (Syracuse University Alum) on Syracuse’s ABC 9 TV morning show: bridge-street/as-seen-on/author-david-essel-on-life-lessons

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C 18-10 Focus!: Drop the Law of Attraction. Slay Your Goals with David Essel.

February 28, 2018March 13, 2018Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest David Essel, on air from March 6th

False: “We become what we think about all day long.” Buddha

Truth: “We become what we do all day long.” David Essel

“I remember the first time I had David Essel on my SiriusXM show. I love the power of positive thinking, so I was very curious as to what this guy was going to talk about when he was my guest with his book “Positive thinking will never change your life… But this book will! The myth of positive thinking, the reality of success.” Was I sceptical? Well, let’s just say intrigued. So he comes onto the show and I decided to give him a few minutes to explain why he believes that positive thinking is a myth. Four minutes later? I was absolutely sold. I actually stopped the show for a second, turned to my listeners, and said “you’ve got to listen to what this man is saying he’s the real deal. He knows what he’s talking about.” And it’s true. Why is he a regular returning guest to my show? Because David has the experience, knowledge, and believe it or not, such a positive attitude and his energy is infectious. With his new book, “Focus! The PROVEN guide to huge success, a great attitude and profound love.”, I find the same infectious attitude, powerful information, that will help you get back on track to accomplish everything you could want in life. With “Focus”, David goes deeply into the concept of profound love. He discusses something he created years ago that we’ve discussed several times on my show “the love scale, 1 to 10″. I’m excited to endorse his new book, just as excited as I was to endorse his last one, and which I said and still believe to this day ” David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.” May your life be enriched in attitude, success and love through this book.” Love, Jenny McCarthy Radio host, actress, best-selling author.

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“I have come to realize that we get out of life what we focus our thoughts on, and just as importantly, what we focus our actions on, on a daily basis. Over the years many people have put the emphasis for our success on the power of thought, from books to DVDs and movies. So what we see today in regards to goal achievement and goal setting is about focusing our thoughts. While this is incredibly important, what you are going to find out in this book, and what I think separates this book from so many other products on personal growth and motivation, is that we are going to look not just at what our mind is doing, but what our actions are doing, or not doing, on a daily basis as well.” David Essel.