C17-37 Fantasy and Illusion of Cyber Relationships

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest  John Krotec, ON AIR FROM September 12th

In the search for acceptance, sexual assault survivor John Krotec discusses his own personal experience trying to find love in the cyber-world. He will detail how he first found the romantic cyber world and the pitfalls he encountered. His reactions to his own behaviour while in the cyber-world nearly ruined his personal life. He will talk about the nature of the cyber world, a place where because of technology you can be anybody or anything you want to be. It is his belief that such cyber-relationships are not real, just fantasy and illusion and, if not kept in check (the proper perspective), can erode the human spirit.

It really was a search for acceptance and satisfaction…things I was not finding in my own personal relationships and job…brought on by serious low self-esteem…


COME HEAR THIS SHOW WITH ON-DEMAND LISTENING

For mobile/tablets you can download free apps here:  http;//soundcloud.com/mobile


“Putting Out The Self-Loathing Fire”
The journey of self-actualization (I call it the struggle for authenticity) is lifelong. For me and for millions of others, it can be and has been excruciatingly emotionally painful at times. However, for those struggling, there is a way out. It’s not easy.  It takes brutal honesty and courage to overcome.  After months of one-on-one therapy, I believe the only way to truly self-actualize is to dig deep, to introspect, and to do the hard work that will erase the negative limiting self-beliefs that can and will continue to reinforce self-loathing. You will have setbacks and you will make mistakes (I certainly have), but you will have small victories, too. I ultimately belief these small accomplishments can be built upon and lead you to success.
My own personal struggles dealing with self-loathing were the result of two significant events in my early life, events that took place before the age of fifteen. The extreme self-loathing created by these significant events fueled an extreme need for acceptance and love–not self-acceptance and self-love–but finding acceptance and love from others. The first event, being sexually assaulted, destroyed many parts of my self-esteem. It was not good. It sucked. The second event further reinforced my feelings of inadequacy AND added even more psychological destruction to my already fragile sense of self. Without going into too much detail about it, let’s just say it concerned the behavior of a parent and it created more confusion for me on the important subject of marital fidelity.
I will be sharing my personal journey for self-actualization with you in the hopes that my story will help others suffering from similar circumstances and feelings.  One of the subjects that I will be exploring will be online relationships.  Drawing upon my own experiences, I hope to expose the pitfalls of looking for acceptance and love in the digital world, a world full of fantasy and illusion. I know firsthand that millions are suffering.  In the process, I hope to heal myself and my marriage and not add any more fuel to my self-loathing fire.
Please join me…it’s time to live a real life…
 

FOR JOHNS SHOW ON THE GREEN ZONE HERO

GO HERE  

YOU CAN SUPPORT THIS VETERAN ORGANIZATION HERE

greenzone-hero-association-for-veterans

www.greenzonehero.com
 https://www.facebook.com/john.krotec.1
 https://authenticabellator.wixsite.com/johnkrotec

https://bravo748.com/team/john-krotec/#member

More shows to go to choose-positive-living

C 17-37a DE-ESCALATE Your Life with Douglas Noll

CHOOSE POSITIVE LIVING with Sara Troy and her guest Douglas Noll, on air from September 12th

De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person 
in 90 Seconds or Less
By Douglas Noll
Lawyer-Turned-Mediator Teaches the Secret to Successful, Respectful Communication with Emotionally Triggered People
The Art of Becoming a Powerful Peacemaker!
book-shadow_final

Noll, who holds both a JD and an MA, left a successful career as a lawyer to become a peacemaker. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, highly experienced mediator, and co-founder of the Prison of Peace project. This has been the most profound peace training Douglas has conducted thus far in his career. Inmates who have gone through his program have learned and applied deep, empathic listening skills, leadership skills, and problem-solving skills to reduce violence in their prison communities.


ON AIR WITH ON-DEMAND LISTENING

For mobile/tablets you can download free apps here:  http;//soundcloud.com/mobile


GET THE BOOK HERE 

To learn more about Douglas, visit 

www.DouglasNoll.com.

facebook.com/DouglasNoll

twitter.com/dougnoll

https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll

More shows to go to choose-positive-living

SHOWS URPPOT

27655343_1552218424826279_1439001674154271799_n

C 17-36b Dr Holly Fourchalk on Your Whole Health Wellness

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Dr Holly Fourchalk, on air from September 12th

Dr. Holly Fourchalk, Ph.D., DNM®, RHT, HT, AAP.

Holly and I will be looking to the Whole of us and why we need to see our selves from the inside out in health. With such knowledge form Holly addressing our mind and body health, she knows the need to place importance on our whole health wellness system for it to work cohesively for us.

With PhDs in Psychology (not registered with the College of Psychologists) and in Nutrition; Dr of Natural Medicine; another MA in Herbal Medicine; Advanced Ayurvedic Physician; Homeopathy; Reflexology, Hypnotherapy & various energetic healing modalities (from Rieke to Theta) and a variety of other healing modalities, Dr Holly covers the spectrum of holistic health.

She was born with a genetic disorder that prevents her from metabolizing food in the same way the rest of us do, consequently, she has a passion for research and understanding how the body functions from the energetics to the psychological to the physiological right down to cellular functioning.

She runs a Mobile Health Clinic, aptly named Choices Unlimited for Health & Wellness Ltd.  It moves from Hope to Horseshoe Bay; from Oliver to Vernon; and around the world.


TUNE IN HERE FOR ON-DEMAND LISTENING

Hear this on your phone or tablet with this free APP 


In addition to being a Health Practitioner and a scientist, Dr Holly is also an author (over 20 books so far) and a professional international speaker. www.DrHollyBooks.com

www.ChoicesUnlimited.ca 

www.DrHollyBooks.com

www.WholeHealthIntiative.ca

holly@choicesunlimited.ca 

More shows to go to choose-positive-living

SHOWS URPPOT

C17-36a The Prophecy of Global Awakening with Christina & Athella

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Christina and Athella, on air from September 5th

THE PROPHECY as told by Beinsa Douno  

Peter Konstantinov Deunov, also known as Beinsa Douno, born in 1886 and who later passed away in 1944, left a prophecy that he had obtained through a trance based state. The prophecy was therefore dated as 1944, a few days before his death in December that year. The prophecy Beinsa Douno left fits right into the times we are going through right now, in relation to the shift in consciousness, the earth changes and our golden age. Back then, Douno was aware and taught that we were moving into the age of Aquarius, as per the astrological age system

“During the passage of time, the consciousness of man traversed a very long period of obscurity. This phase which the Hindus call ‘Kali Yuga’, is on the verge of ending. We find ourselves today at the frontier between two epochs: that of Kali Yuga and that of the New Era that we are entering.

A gradual improvement is already occurring in the thoughts, sentiments and acts of humans, but everybody will soon be subjugated to divine Fire, that will purify and prepare them in regards to the New Era. Thus man will raise himself to a superior degree of consciousness, indispensable to his entrance to the New Life. That is what one understands by ‘Ascension’.

Continue Here 


TUNE IN HERE FOR ON-DEMAND LISTENING

  Soundcloud  ITunes  iHEART  Anchor
 Google play, Spotify Amazon Podchaser
   Radio Public.  Breaker, Audry  Vurbl
  FM Player Launchpad   Odysee  Youtube 

Christina Hill & Athella and Sara will be speaking to the changes that are already in place and what is to come. 

Athella a divine Angel told Christina her life’s purpose had been revealed and the two set out to share Athella’s messages of healing, balance and wholeness with the world. Experience Athella’s wisdom through one-on-one private sessions, a retreat with Christina, Athella’s e-books and videos, or at one of the many free live events Christina holds for the public in Seattle, WA.

FOR CHRISTINA’S INFO AND OTHER SHOWS WITH US 


FIND MORE SHOWS OF ILLUMINATION HERE

SHOW SUPPORT

C17-34 Dolphin Kasper on Evolving Now

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Dolphin Kasper, on air from August 22nd 

When we are rooted in living from the qualities of authenticity and clarity, and we let go of the need for coping and self-created filters, our way of living and interacting with others becomes grounded and deeply purposeful.  Our most positive qualities begin to naturally come to the surface leaving us more honest, compassionate and generous even in the most challenging and stressful environments.  Imagine if your most positive qualities and capacities were available to you regardless of the circumstances around you. Imagine if you had the ability to bring your very best to your work, to your family and to your life. This is what the work Evolve now offers is cultivating and making real.  

Once reacquainted with these essential yet forgotten parts of us we step back onto a developmental trajectory we all knew when we were very young.  One that had us in our innate love of learning, connecting and growing in partnership with the people around us.  We then begin to live to openly give, to fully receive and to consistently and progressively contribute to creating a better world.  What you are, the most beautiful and meaningful part of you gets to come to the surface and express itself through us and into our lives, our work and our world. Join us and rediscover your own highest calling and your deepest resources.


TUNE IN HERE FOR ON-DEMAND LISTENING

 ITunesSpotify Soundcloud
  Amazon Google play,   iHEART
 Acast   onpodium  Anchor
 Podvine  Radio Public.   FM Player
  Launchpad Mixcloud   Vurbl
   Odysee  Youtube Sticher


Dolphin Kasper, a consummate coach, speaker and facilitator of human growth and transformative communication, grew up in Vancouver BC and is now based in Edmonton, Canada.  For over 18 years, through his private coaching and thousands of workshops, retreats and online programs, Dolphin has been inviting people to become the empowered authorities of both their inner and outer lives.  He has a passion for creating the space in which people can recognize and integrate their conditioned limitations and coping mechanisms, opening the doorway to their full potential.  He believes in each person’s capacity to heal, grow and live a life beyond ideas and beyond imagined limitations.

Dolphin’s career has spanned a wide range of roles and experiences. From coaching professional athletes, to working with business leaders to supporting and empowering homeless youth, Dolphin has found the underlying truths about why the human system falters and what it needs to thrive. He brings this knowledge and clarity to the work he does with others in a way that profoundly changes their perspective and their capacity to become the source of sustainable positive change in their lives and in the world.   He takes the richest and most powerful learnings from these varied experiences and has honed them into 3 specific areas of expertise: Conscious Communication, Leadership and the most effective ways of Maximizing Human Potential


http://www.evolvenowinc.com

 lINKED-IN: dolphin-kasper

Facebook: dolphin.kasper

Youtube Dolphin

FIND MORE SHOWS OF ILLUMINATION HERE

Find us on these sites too.  linktr.ee/saratroy

All of our shows/interviews are done by donation, if you enjoyed this show please support us here with either a one-time donation or subscribe and support on Patreon.

SHOWS URPPOT