26-26. To Scroll or NOT to Scroll


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from June 30th

In today’s world, it is incredibly easy to pick up a phone and begin scrolling. One post leads to another, a video catches your attention, and before you know it, hours have passed. Social media can be informative, inspiring, entertaining, and even uplifting. It can introduce us to new ideas, make us laugh, and connect us with people and opportunities. Yet, like anything else in life, it is best enjoyed in moderation.

Social media is not our identity. We bring our identity to it. We share our wisdom, our knowledge, our joys, our concerns, our businesses, our books, our podcasts, and our passions. It is a platform, a tool, and a resource—but it should never become the center of our lives. The danger comes when scrolling begins to consume time that could be spent on more meaningful pursuits, leaving us disconnected from ourselves and the people around us.

The key is balance. Just as we enjoy a glass of wine without drinking to excess, or a piece of chocolate without eating an entire box, we must learn to use technology without allowing it to take over. Every area of life deserves attention: work, family, health, well-being, friendships, recreation, and rest. Social media can have a place among those things, but it should not replace them.

For those with ADHD or highly active minds, scrolling can be especially seductive. What starts as a quick look can quickly become a three-hour rabbit hole. While the content may be interesting, informative, or entertaining, it is important to ask whether it deserves that much of our time. Creating boundaries, setting timers, and being intentional about when and how we engage with social media can help us remain in control rather than becoming controlled by it.

One of the saddest sights today is seeing people sitting together at a meal while staring at their phones instead of talking to each other. Technology is meant to connect us, yet it can often separate us. Meals, conversations, family gatherings, and moments with friends should be opportunities for presence and connection. A phone should never replace genuine interaction with the people sitting right in front of us.

Equally important is making time for ourselves. We live in a world overloaded with information, often leaving us mentally exhausted and overstimulated. We need moments to pause, reflect, and absorb what we have learned. Music can be restorative. Nature can be healing. A walk by the ocean, through the woods, or simply sitting quietly and listening to the sounds around us can bring us back to center. Nature speaks to the heart, soul, and spirit in ways that technology never can.

Technology itself is not the problem. In fact, it offers tremendous benefits. Podcasts, educational content, online communities, and even AI can be valuable tools. AI, for example, can serve as an excellent assistant—helping organize thoughts, correcting mistakes, brainstorming ideas, and providing information. However, it should remain an assistant, not a replacement for our creativity, intuition, or personal responsibility. Technology should support our lives, not run them.

The real question is not whether we should scroll, but whether we are doing so consciously. Are we taking care of our own well-being first? Are we nurturing our relationships? Are we spending quality time with family and friends? Are we engaged in work that fulfills us? Are we making space for rest, reflection, and personal growth? When those priorities are being honored, then there is certainly room for some scrolling and entertainment.

Children deserve special consideration. Phones and tablets should not become substitutes for interaction, creativity, or play. Young minds are still developing, and excessive screen time can influence attention, behavior, and emotional well-being. Parents must remain vigilant, guiding children toward healthy technology habits while ensuring their safety in an increasingly digital world.

Ultimately, moderation remains the answer. Social media is not your identity. Your phone is not your life. These tools can enrich your experience when used wisely, but they should never replace real living. Put the phone down when sharing a meal. Step away from the screen before bedtime. Spend time in nature. Breathe deeply. Connect with people. Be present in your own life.

So, to scroll or not to scroll? Scroll when it serves you. Learn when to stop. Be mindful of your time. Use common sense. And most importantly, remember that you are always in charge of where your attention goes. Your life is too valuable to spend it endlessly scrolling past.



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26-25. Cat Lady Sara


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from June 23rd

Well, I think it’s official—I’ve become that cat woman. The funny thing is, I don’t even own a cat. It all started with one older-looking cat that would wander through my retirement complex. It seemed a little hungry, a little lonely, so I began putting out some food and water. Before long, word spread through the feline grapevine, and suddenly I had neighborhood cats, a young raccoon, squirrels, hummingbirds, and even deer stopping by. What began as a simple act of kindness became a daily reminder of how deeply connected we are to the creatures that share our world.

As I sit and watch these visitors come and go, I’m reminded that caring doesn’t have to be grand or expensive. Sometimes it’s simply a bowl of water during a drought, a handful of food, or taking a moment to notice who or what around us may be struggling. In a world facing climate challenges, wildfires, water shortage, food insecurity, and increasing disconnection, perhaps the greatest gift we can offer is awareness. When we become aware, we care. And when we care, we act.

Today’s show is about compassion in action. It’s about the small things we can do to support the animals, people, and communities around us. Whether it’s helping a stray cat, supporting a local food bank, or donating a few dollars to an animal rescue organization, every act of kindness matters. What may seem small to us can mean everything to someone—or something—in need. So let’s explore what it means to be of service, to share this planet more consciously, and to remember that we all have the power to make a difference.



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26-24. “13 Years of Soul-Led Conversations”


“The Wisdom Was Always the Journey”

For 13 years, Self Discovery Wisdom has been far more than a podcast network; it has been a living journey of wisdom, humanity, healing, and heart-centered connection. What began as one inspired voice and one meaningful conversation has evolved into thousands of interviews, multiple genres, and a global platform where people from all walks of life have shared their truths, their struggles, their purpose, and their illumination. Through every episode, the intention has always remained the same: to give wisdom a voice and create conversations that truly matter.

Over these 13 years, the world has changed dramatically, and so have we. Technology has evolved, consciousness has shifted, and people are searching more deeply for authenticity, compassion, and meaning rather than performance and noise. Through it all, Self Discovery Wisdom has continued to stand as a place where lived experience matters, where people are heard, and where stories become pathways for others seeking hope, direction, and understanding in their own lives.

This journey has not always been easy. Building a soul-led platform comes with sacrifice, perseverance, health challenges, financial strain, and moments of exhaustion. Yet the mission always mattered more. Every guest, every listener, every shared story created a ripple effect that often could not be seen but could certainly be felt. The greatest lesson through it all is that wisdom is not found in perfection; it is found in experience, resilience, compassion, and the courage to keep showing up authentically.

Now, 13 years later, this celebration is not simply about longevity. It is about honoring the countless voices that have inspired change, the listeners who found comfort and clarity, and the continuing commitment to conscious conversations that uplift humanity. The future of Self Discovery Wisdom is not just about media; it is about community, illumination, and creating spaces where people can reconnect with who they truly are and the wisdom already within them.

Here is to many more years, and thank you to our listeners, our Guests, our sponsors, and our donators, without you this would be meaningless.



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26-23. Who Are You Really?


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from May

Who are we really, beneath all the labels, expectations, and identities we have gathered throughout life? From the moment we are born, the world begins shaping us. Parents, schools, religion, culture, media, relationships, and life experiences all begin telling us who we should be, how we should behave, what success should look like, what is acceptable, and what is not. Little by little, many people stop listening to themselves and begin living according to the expectations of others. They become who they were taught to be rather than who they truly are.

Some people become the caretaker because they learned early that love came through service. Others become the achiever because approval only came when they succeeded. Some become quiet, invisible, or emotionally guarded because life taught them it was safer not to shine too brightly. Over time, survival patterns can become identity, and many people no longer remember who they were before fear, criticism, rejection, comparison, or pain entered their lives. They spend years performing versions of themselves that fit into society while feeling deeply disconnected inside.

But underneath all of that conditioning lives the authentic essence of who we truly are. Before the world told us what we should be, there was a natural spirit within us — curious, creative, feeling, intuitive, and uniquely our own. There was a knowingness, an energy, a truth that belonged to us before the noise of the world became louder than our own inner voice. The real tragedy is not that the world influences us, because life itself is a journey of learning and interaction. The tragedy is when we completely abandon ourselves in order to gain acceptance, approval, or survival.

And truly, who has the right to decide who and what we are? No institution, relationship, government, social pressure, diagnosis, or expectation should own our identity. Others may guide us, influence us, teach us, or inspire us, but they should never define the entirety of who we are. The ownership of self belongs to each individual soul. Yet many people spend most of their lives seeking permission to simply be themselves.

The journey of self-discovery is often not about becoming someone new. It is about peeling back the layers of conditioning and remembering who you were before the world placed limitations upon you. That remembering can be uncomfortable because it asks us to question everything: the roles we play, the beliefs we carry, the relationships we tolerate, and the masks we wear to survive. We begin asking ourselves difficult but necessary questions: What do I truly feel? What matters to me? What brings me peace, joy, meaning, and purpose? What no longer belongs to me? Where have I betrayed myself to fit into someone else’s expectations?

This awakening is not about rebellion for the sake of rebellion. It is about authenticity. It is about learning to stand in your own truth with compassion, responsibility, and self-awareness. It is about understanding that you were never meant to be a copy of someone else’s idea of success or worthiness. You were meant to discover your own path, your own voice, your own rhythm, and your own contribution to life.

Perhaps one of the greatest acts of courage today is not becoming more impressive to the world, but becoming more truthful with yourself. To stop performing. To stop shrinking. To stop apologizing for who you are. And instead, to reconnect with the person you were always meant to be before the world told you otherwise.



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26-23. “The Soul Is Tired of Performing”


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from May

The soul is tired of performing. Tired of pretending. Tired of wearing masks to fit expectations, roles, labels, and demands that often have little to do with who we truly are. For so long, humanity has been taught to perform for approval, perform for survival, perform for success, perform for love, and perform for acceptance. We have learned how to present ourselves to the world while quietly disconnecting from the truth of our own essence.

But the soul was never designed to live as a performance. It was meant to live as an expression of divine wisdom flowing naturally through us. It seeks truth, authenticity, connection, purpose, and meaningful presence. It does not wish to compete for worthiness or exhaust itself trying to become enough for others. It simply wishes to be fully aligned with its own knowingness and allowed to flow freely into life.

Within every person lives a wisdom far deeper than intellect alone. The soul carries insight, compassion, intuition, creativity, and an energetic understanding that often speaks quietly beneath the noise of the mind and the chaos of the world. When we become still enough to listen, that wisdom begins to guide us toward what is real, what is aligned, and what matters most in the present moment.

The soul does not need to dominate others to be heard. It simply wishes to ignite truth within others — heart to heart, spirit to spirit. When one person begins living authentically, it gives others permission to do the same. Truth has a resonance to it. It awakens something within people that reminds them of who they are beneath their own layers of performance and conditioning.

This does not mean abandoning the mind, because the mind too has its purpose. The mind is meant to clarify, organize, understand, and bring wisdom into practical action. But the mind was never meant to rule disconnected from the soul. When intellect operates without heart, humanity loses compassion. When knowledge exists without wisdom, people become informed but disconnected. The soul brings meaning to knowledge and humanity to action.

What many people are feeling right now is spiritual exhaustion — not simply physical fatigue, but exhaustion from constantly trying to be what the world expects instead of what the soul knows itself to be. People are yearning for spaces where they can breathe again, where they can stop performing and simply exist in truth without fear of judgment or rejection.

Perhaps this is the great awakening happening now. Not an awakening into superiority, but an awakening back into authenticity. A remembering that the soul already carries wisdom, and that wisdom becomes powerful when it flows into compassionate action, conscious living, and truthful connection with others.

The soul is not asking us to become more impressive.
It is asking us to become more real.



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