C15/33a. Am I really Homosexual? Where do these feelings stem from?

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest David Pickup aired August 18th-24th 

Confusion, many kids at some point have an attraction for the same sex, but does that mean they are bi-sexual or homosexual?

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The shame and guilt that is imposed on then shuts them down and they never really get to look at why these feelings are there. Some come from sexual abuse some from misdirection, we need to talk about it and not dismiss or shame someone because of those feelings, and we need to understand if the are real or imposed on a person. If you’re straight or gay all is ok, but if you’re confused know why? UNDERSTAND TO SET FREE.

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David Pickup, is licensed in California and Texas as a Marriage and Family Therapist, whose 2 private practices involve those undergoing authentic Reparative Therapy. After having great success with Reparative Therapy in his own life, he is now an experienced therapist who facilitates therapy for men that truly works to reduce or dissipate homosexual feelings and helps them experience their heterosexual potential.

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Healing wounds and unmet needs……Resolving causes of homosexuality

Gender Identity Inferiority, especially during a young child’s gender/sexuality developmental years, can be a traumatic experience that is reinforced with Shame-Based Self-Beliefs for many years. For the pre-homosexual boy, and for adult men, bullying and repetitive shaming of gender identity from primary male relationships, frequently imbed this soul-wrenching Shame into the mind of the struggler. The client experiences emotional wounds, (often repressed), that prevent the journey from boyhood into manhood from being fully realized. Maleness becomes an object to the struggler instead of something wonderful that is subjectively experienced. The result?…In puberty, when sexual hormones “kick in,” masculinity is objectified and sexualized.

The men that come to Reparative Therapy in the world today come because they believe in their hearts that Homosexuality, for them, is truly not inborn. They can feel it. But they often don’t know that change is possible, or what to do about it. I invite you to take a look at both sides of the issue, and make up your mind for yourself. The first rule of good scientific evidence for any issue is to be open to consideration of ALL the evidence. What do you think?

Homosexuality is inborn and unchangeable?
Homosexuality is not inborn and can be changed?

I encourage you to read everything you can about both sides. I have to be honest here. I don’t think you’ll find many Gay individuals or Gay affirmative therapists tell you to consider both sides. This is interesting because even the American Psychological Association states that there is no Gay gene. They also state that evidently, homosexuality could be caused by a combination of genetic and environmental influences. 

I encourage you toward find what fits for you. 


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Reparative Therapy helps a client resolve these wounds, which can result in the spontaneous lessening and/or dissipation of homosexual feelings. The wounds are replaced by confident subjective feelings of their own masculinity and self-esteem. Attractions for women can arise as well. Regardless, a man can move toward his authentic heterosexual self.

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C15/28b Transparency: The Gender Identity Project New York

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Daphne Chan originally aired July 14th

TGIP-Shorter_DonaldWe are becoming a more embracing world of each others differences. We still have a long way to go in understanding and showing compassion for each other, but with work like Daphne is doing, we are a step further. 

Daphne is currently working on Transparency: The Gender Identity Project.

Daphne Chan’s work explores identity and how it reveals itself through gender, culture, sexuality and body image. With “The Flawless Sabrina” (2006) the fluidity of gender and sexuality were explored by documenting a drag queen named Jack Doroshow. The project delved into communal taboos of populations that rankle social precepts such as the gender identity of genderqueer: a person who identifies as a gender other than “man” or “woman”. The commonality is that all genderqueer people reject the notion that there are only two genders in the world as they believe binary gender is a social construct. 

DaphneChan_headshotNext, “Her Interior” (2007) examines the conceptual conflation between women’s bodies and domestic interiors, how the identification between self and interior is linked with women. Each woman interacts with features of her environment in order to explore how she occupies that particular physical and psychological space. The fragmentation of the bodies emphasizes the compartmentalization that is inherent in women’s identities. “Transparency: The Gender Identity Project” is a visual depiction of the LGBT and genderqueer community of New York that is unique and much needed. There is still a lack of visibility of specific identities and uncovering these identities will challenge the common stereotypes for what certain identities are expected to look like. It’s a powerful statement in visibility and diversity. The goal is to celebrate and encourage the expansion and public awareness of queer fluid expression. The transgender community has historically faced systemic discrimination and this project provides a platform for visibility, recognition and eventual acceptance. With each project, Chan attempts to reveal one more aspect of our identity and to distinguish the physical corporeal grounding in our bodies and the amorphous, socio-cultural precepts layered upon us.


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Each portrait is a collaboration between the subject and the artist and is created through an intimate artistic process resulting in a unique handmade fine art print.

Please call 778-709-3717 or email info@daphnechanphoto.com to arrange a consultation.


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The New York City LGBT Center:
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Flawless Sabrina, drag activist, friend and mentor:
http://www.flawless-sabrina.com/

Miss Vera’s Finishing School For Boys Who Want To Be Girls: http://www.missvera.com

The Bureau of General Services-Queer Division Bookstore and Event Space owned by Greg Newton and Donnie Jochum:  http://bgsqd.com

GENDEROSITY is a 70 min multimedia solo performance art piece that uses the personal narratives of creator/writer/performer Donald C. Shorter Jr drag transformation process to talk about his life experience of gender non-conformity.


     Here is the show I did with Daphne before she went to New York 

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15/21 “How to Win a Man’s Heart” with Expert Elena Burnett

Transforming Relationships with host, Julieanne O’Connor, and her guest Elena Burnett, on air from May 26th 

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Tune-in for a candid and honest interview with Elena Burnett on How to Win a Man’s Heart.  Join us for some laughs, some ‘ah-ha’ moments, and for the truth behind the fairy tale. Elena shares insights about emotions, sex, thinking and more. Don’t miss this episode of Transforming Relationships!

Elena’s new release How to Win a Man’s Heart is available on her website at www.ElenaBurnett.com and can be found on Amazon in both English and Spanish.

Elena Burnett, Author and Relationship Specialist has been featured on CNN Latino, La Opinion, El Mundo, KLive, 105.3, ABC7, and countless other shows. For more on Elena, visit her website and find her on social media…


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P15/18b Tziporah on Sex Sensuality and Spirit

Positive Living Vibrations with Sara Troy and her guest Tziporah Kingsbury originally aired  May 5th.

Tziporah  Bridges Sensuality, Sexuality and Spirituality.

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Tziporahs mission is to awaken and empower individuals and couples to access and clear emotional suppressions, develop deep states of intimacy, cultivate the richness in communication and discover the keys to living a life of truth, presence and pleasure.

Tziporah Kingsbury (pronounced Zi-Por-Ah) is a groundbreaking intimacy expert, Integrative Breathwork Specialist and Spiritual Midwife who has dedicated her life for nearly 2 decades to being of service to helping others in transforming their lives and returning to truth, presence and pleasure.

Her roots are deep in shamanic practice, creating pathways to spiritual and emotional health. She has decades of training in many disciplines including Integrated Breath work (Transformational Breathwork ™), various yogic and shamanic traditions, movement therapy meditation, conscious communication empathy development, tantra, psycho-spiritual counselling, life coaching, body science and conscious sexuality. As well Tziporahs work has been influenced by her vast experience in various styles of bodywork, wholistic healing arts, “the work” by Byron Katie , self-inquiry, meditation.

Tziporah has been seen on ABC’s The Bachelor in 2015 where they named her “The Love Guru”. As well has been interview nationally and internationally for her work.

Tziporah’s initial focus began with an exploration of body consciousness early in her teens. As a young adult, she turned to bodybuilding, eventually establishing herself as an accomplished competitor and trainer. While she appreciated the discipline, she discovered wellness is about much more than the physical body.  She set her path to learning about all dimensions of the human experience—and began exploring many healing modalities.

Dedication to deepening her spirituality and expanding her expertise led her to spend years honing her skills in Switzerland where she trained in a variety of disciplines and first encountered Integrated Breathwork. The last layer of her skills was acquired through studying the Eastern and Western body of expertise and educational programs in human sexuality and inter-relating skills. This combination prepared Tziporah to develop her unique methodology for mentoring individuals and couples so they may find and experience that wellspring of intimacy and love within themselves and with their partners.


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2idJNr4mSVBbuP9ORqPs50JgUg7u_CyHodaCb7VYhcUnthQlaLaM-V1lW5MqnIDbhava3nDzDVY4JMxxT498IUWhile there are romantic benefits of her work, her practice is primarily about how we–individuals and partners–may uncover and clear the emotional heaviness to awaken the awareness of an intimate inter-connectedness between each moment and all beings. There is a fullness in her method that goes beyond merely constructing a process to enable romance, or a technique to act intimately. Essentially, Tziporah teaches how to live a wholistically intimate life.

Tziporah mentors her clients how to tap into their sexual power as a healing force. Her wisdom and training provide tools for cultivating interdependent relationships that thrive through empowering and compassionate communication. Under her guidance, relationships of all kinds thrive with power, truth and pleasure.

Those who work in sessions with her feel an instant understanding that they are safe, even as they are stretched beyond what their initial understandings are about themselves, about romance, about intimacy, even about love.

Tziporah helps people to feel safe again, to be still enough to listen to their bodies and to embrace their fears and emotions. Together with Tziporah her clients are able to enter in a world feeling centred, clear in who they are, confident, passionate, aware and present. She guides people to live so in touch with who they are and empowered to be seen, heard and felt that life turns from black and white to High Definition Color.

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P15/16a Sexy over Sixty and beyond

POSITIVE LIVING VIBRATIONS with Sara Troy and her guest Leslie Traill aired April 21st.2014

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                      Leslie Traill – Health & Wellness/Meditation Coach

Getting older does not mean we need to be out to pasture, we still have desires, dreams, and abilities to live a full vibrant life. What is the key to living a sensual life and embracing our divine sexuality? Leslie shows us that meditation, our food, our thoughts, and positive action can give us a great quality of life and renews our sensual desire. 

                  Leslie’s motto is Change your mind, change your body, change your life!

 
leslie sLeslie Traill, founder of “Sexy Over Sixty,” is a pioneer in the field of life coaching and personal empowerment – in fact, she began her coaching career back in 1977, before there were even training courses available. “Sexy Over Sixty” is a boutique life coaching agency that offers transition coaching for all of life’s challenges from mid-adulthood and beyond. A sought-after speaker, Certified NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner/Coach, meditation coach, menopause coach, and Counsellor, Leslie incorporates a wealth of personal and professional experience into her private sessions and corporate seminars. Leslie has a keen understanding of business as a result of her professional experience in law and the fashion industry. Her strong commercial instincts, coupled with a life-long study of Mindfulness Meditation, make her uniquely suited to guide her clients toward lives that are healthier and more productive, with stronger decision-making and communication skills, more rewarding relationships, and enhanced careers. Blue-chip companies understand the benefits for their employees – and Leslie’s corporate seminars are tailored to time, availability, and budget. Her interactive “Lunch and Learn” presentations are concise, compelling overviews of the benefits of utilizing meditation techniques and life coaching in order to help create a more balanced, satisfying life and career. 
Leslie uses Budist-based meditation, meditation to ignite our grey brain cells, using colour to heal, and so many more techniques.
 Coaching can be in person in the Greater Toronto Area or via Phone or Skype in Canada or Internationally.
T: 416.473.8813

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