“I Didn’t Become Selfish, I Became Harder to Manipulate”
A Powerful eBook & Audio Experience ?
Too many of us know the sting of manipulation… The subtle control, the emotional coercion, and the bullying are masked as love or care.
This isn’t just a book—it’s a movement of truth-telling. In this compelling multi-author eBook and Audio, 27 courageous souls—both men and women from across the globe—have come together to bare their stories. Stories of reclaiming power. By saying “no more,” Of finding their way back to self-worth and soul-sovereignty.
Each chapter is a doorway into personal transformation—raw, honest, and resonant. And it doesn’t stop on the page… This book is paired with an audio version where each author reads their own chapter aloud so you can feel the truth, the emotion, and the breakthroughs in their own voice.
If you’ve ever felt trapped in someone else’s narrative, this book is for you. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” or “not enough,” If choosing yourself has been mistaken for selfishness.
You are not alone. These stories are here to remind you: You are worthy. You are powerful. And you deserve to live free from manipulation.
I, Sara Troy, am honored to be a part of this book, as it is a topic often brought up in our shows, placing value upon yourself is not being selfish. Do enjoy.
I’ve had the honour of interviewing the wonderful Sara Jane several times now, and I’m also proud to be a contributor to her powerful book, “I Didn’t Become Selfish, I Became Harder to Manipulate.”
Sara speaks and lives from the heart — and you can feel it in everything she does.
Below, you’ll find the inspiring shows we’ve created together, along with her impactful book. Dive in, enjoy, and soak up the wisdom shared. There’s something here for every soul ready to receive.
A Powerful eBook & Audio Experience ? “I Didn’t Become Selfish, I Became Harder to Manipulate”
Too many of us know the sting of manipulation… The subtle control, the emotional coercion, and the bullying are masked as love or care.
This isn’t just a book—it’s a movement of truth-telling. In this compelling multi-author eBook and Audio, 27 courageous souls—both men and women from across the globe—have come together to bare their stories. Stories of reclaiming power. Of saying “no more.” Of finding their way back to self-worth and soul-sovereignty.
On this show, Sara, Enolia & Sara Jane will share their thoughts and suggestions of things that work for them to help keep their vibrations as high as possible.
Sara Jane is the founder of Vocal Reiki, which incorporates both the energy of Reiki and Toning (the use of the voice but not singing).
During this interview, you will learn a little of Sara’s own story, her healing journey, and how she uses her own experiences to help reconnect with and heal your Inner Child.
All of our shows/interviews are done by donation; if you enjoyed this show, please support us here with either a one-time donation or subscribe and support. Thank you. Please support Our Forgotten Seniors anthology and help to bring this book to awareness.
Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Pamela Blake, on air March
Collection of 5 Novels Published Posthumously as a Tribute to her husband by Pamela Blake who Receives Critical Acclaim
Pamela talks about:
Grief and the journey of finding the best way to honor a loved one who has passed is a profound theme explored in his work. Each of his books presents intriguing storylines and themes that captivate readers, making them relevant even decades after being written. His coming-of-age novel, A Map of the Edge, set in 1969, delivers a powerful message about self-discovery and transformation. Looking ahead, his dystopian novel Tomorrowville imagines what the world might look like in 2088, offering a thought-provoking glimpse into the future. Blending mysticism with mystery, Things Unseen adds a unique twist to the murder-mystery genre. Notably, the cover of Things Unseen received recognition, winning the BIBA 2024 Fiction Book Cover Award.
Pamela Blake, PhD, is the CEO of Utamatzi Inc, an independent publishing imprint dedicated to bringing creative, high-quality fiction to readers in the global marketplace.
Prior to forming Utamatzi several years ago, Dr. Blake was a Technical Fellow with The Boeing Company, from which she retired in 2020, after twenty years of employment. She is an expert in quantified performance assessment of imaging sensors and in the development and application of algorithms that exploit the underlying physics and phenomenology for automated feature and object recognition.
She holds a BA in Physics from Willamette University in Salem, OR, and MS and PhD degrees in Geology/Geophysics from the University of Hawaii, Manoa. Dr. Blake resides in Huntington Beach, California.
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Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Jerry Giordano, on air from March 18th
With personal insights and a lot of humor, Jerry talks about why we do what we do and how it’s sabotaging our relationships and ourselves. Jerry has put his 7-word philosophy into practice by interviewing over 200 people from the ages of thirteen to ninety-four.
He had tried everything—every form of therapy, seminar, retreat, life coach, past-life regression, psychic reading, and self-help book available—but no matter how much he learned or how many breakthroughs he thought he had, the same emptiness remained. It wasn’t until he hit rock bottom, losing his mother to cancer and watching his fiancée walk away in the span of weeks, that he realized something profound: everything he had been doing was a left-brained approach—logic trying to fix an emotional wound. No amount of analysis could resolve what was buried deep in his unconscious. It was through mindfulness and meditation that he finally saw the truth—his easygoing, people-pleasing persona wasn’t who he really was; it was a mask, one he had worn for so long that even he had mistaken it for his true self. That’s when he discovered the 7 Words approach, a method that led him to uncover the unconscious story running his life. For the first time, he wasn’t just treating symptoms—he was rewriting the script that had been controlling him all along.
Jerry Giordano is an award-winning advertising and branding copywriter as well as a creative director who has lived and worked in New York City, Chicago, Los Angeles, Austin, and Dallas. He has worked for some of the largest advertising agencies in the world, including Ogilvy and J. Walter Thompson. He was also the in-house Creative Director for the National Football League (NFL) and has helped propel an impressive array of powerhouse brands including Duracell, Kraft Foods, American Express, Maxwell House Coffee, Philip Morris Corporate, Fox Studios, Food & Wine Magazine, International Paper, the United Way, Hardees, the British Tourism Authority, the Los Angeles Philharmonic, and countless others.
Being a polymath with an unquenchable curiosity has led Jerry to become a keen observer of the human psyche and the ensuing behaviors. Typically, his work starts with the notion that “he knows nothing,” which allows him to consider everything—sifting through content to find the gem. Jerry is a collector, inspector, and connector of dots, which he credits to much of his success as an advertising creative and the author of Your 7 Words to a Happier You. Jerry was a co-producer of one of the world’s first TEDx events, has penned four screenplays—including a top 10 finalist at the SLAMDANCE film festival—studied sketch comedy professionally at Second City in Chicago, and has performed sketch comedy in NYC and regularly on the main stage at the Comic Strip in LA.
He collects quotes and old cameras, photographs manhole covers (street art) from around the world, and is obsessed with the JFK assassination (which he will gladly discuss ad nauseam over a scotch or coffee). Jerry also meditates regularly. Though originally from New Jersey, he now lives in the moment.
“As a psychotherapist, introducing a number of clients to their 7 Words has been an effective tool for uncovering their unconscious stories and circumventing their sabotaging lifelong patterns. The discovery of my own words was the breakthrough I was unknowingly in search of for decades! Jerry’s writing exudes an uncommon vulnerability, clarity and authenticity, and this book takes self-help/self-discovery to a transcendent level.”— Melissa D. Borski, MRC, CFRC, LPC
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Sisterhood of Common Sense Love with Sara Troy and her guest Claudine McDaniel, on air from March 11th
The mission of Beyond Conquerors Ministry (also known as Beyond Conquerors, Inc.) is to bring love and hope to individuals who have been knocked down by life’s difficulties by motivating them to get back up again and chase after their dreams.
Beyond Conquerors Ministry aims to reach and help as many women as we can by volunteering at women’s shelters in the United States. We host conferences and events to encourage those who have been knocked down by life’s difficulties. We specifically focus on women who are domestic violence survivors or facing challenges in life (emotional, financial, and/or medical) as a result of escaping domestic violence, abuse, stalking, human trafficking, divorce, homelessness, medical issues, and/or severe financial distress. In many cases, those whom we will provide assistance to may be facing more than one life challenge. Our books, messages, articles, teachings, and other services will inspire and give hope to anyone who finds themselves feeling hopeless, lonely, or afraid. Our resources will also provide encouragement so that they will get up from their low places and chase after their dreams.
We also help women in need in Africa to obtain job skills and employment, helping to fight poverty, prostitution and abuse. We work in under served areas by helping those who have the desire to work, but do not have the opportunity to do so.
Born in Togo and immigrating to the United States, Claudine McDaniel has made an extraordinary impact through her commitment to empowering women and serving her community. In February 2020, she founded Beyond Conquerors, Inc., a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization providing education, training, and employment opportunities for women. In 2024, Claudine secured a grant from Montgomery County to certify and support 45 women with training and employment. That same year, she launched The Life Wow Program, a transformative initiative helping women restore confidence, discover talents, and build brighter futures. Claudine is a sought-after speaker, regularly sharing her inspiring message at churches, nursing homes, shelters, and community centers, motivating individuals to overcome challenges and embrace hope. She is also the author of More Than Conquerors: From Struggles to Forgiveness, From Forgiveness to Blessings (2017), sharing her personal journey of resilience and growth. Beyond Conquerors has fed the hungry every Friday for the past three years and hosted a 2022 women’s conference to empower attendees to overcome obstacles and reach their potential. Before founding Beyond Conquerors, Claudine worked for Empiracal CPA, a federal contracting company, where she gained valuable leadership experience. Her unwavering commitment continues to inspire women to achieve lasting personal and professional success.
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