25-06. Rich or Poor Wealth


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from February 11th

Rich or Poor: Who is Truly Abundant?

When we look at poverty, we often equate it with a lack of money—the inability to afford a better quality of life, to meet basic needs, and to live comfortably. Conversely, when we look at the wealthy, we see power, opulence, and privilege. But who is truly rich, and who is truly poor?

Across the world, many people live in what is deemed poverty—crowded homes, mud huts, and minimal material wealth. By North American standards, they have little. Yet, they are often rich in joy, gratitude, and community. Their abundance is found in their relationships, their laughter, and their appreciation for life itself.

Meanwhile, I have encountered countless wealthy individuals who, despite their immense financial success, live in constant fear—fear of losing money, of being manipulated, of being valued only for their wealth. Their paranoia dictates their lives, making them question who they can trust, how they can protect what they have, and how to accumulate more. In their relentless pursuit of power, they lose sight of true enrichment.

The Moral Compass of Wealth

A select few control vast sums of money, believing it grants them the ability to buy anything and anyone. Many have lost their moral compass, consumed by greed, manipulation, and an insatiable hunger for control. But in their endless pursuit of wealth, they reveal the greatest poverty of all—a poverty of spirit, of purpose, and of true connection.

Real enrichment has nothing to do with money. It is found in love, kindness, and understanding. When wealth becomes a dictator, a force that governs one’s sense of worth and purpose, it exposes the emptiness within. The wealthiest among us are not those with the most money but those who give, who uplift, who invest in the well-being of others.

The Struggle of the Poor and the Fear of the Rich

I have met people who live on the poverty line, struggling each month to afford basic necessities—housing, healthcare, and food. Their struggles are real, but so is their appreciation for what they do have. There is joy in the small pleasures of life: a meal, a warm home, a shared laugh with loved ones.

Interestingly, it is often those with the least who are the first to give. Experiments have shown that when a struggling person asks for help, few respond. Yet, when the message is changed to “need money for drugs,” people contribute. What does that say about our perceptions of poverty? Do we turn away from those in need because it reminds us of our own vulnerability?

I have interviewed people who once had it all—wealth, power, status—only to lose it. And in that loss, they found something far more valuable: humility, compassion, and a deeper understanding of what truly matters. Their reset, their realization, made them richer than ever before.

A Broken System

We live in a world where wealth is hoarded, where the rich manipulate laws and governments to serve their interests. Money dictates policies, buys politicians, and erodes ethics. Meanwhile, the poor face cuts to essential services, higher costs of living, and fewer opportunities to rise.

There is no reason for homelessness to exist in a world of such vast wealth. No reason for people to freeze in the streets while billionaires build superyachts. No reason for a system that forces people to choose between food and medication while pharmaceutical companies rake in obscene profits.

We need to tax the rich—not out of spite, but out of necessity. Imagine if even a fraction of their wealth was used to support education, healthcare, and infrastructure. The money that billionaires hoard could feed and house millions. The disparity is not just unfair; it is a failure of humanity.

True Abundance is in Giving

I do my work by donation. The interviews I conduct, the stories I share, and the insights I provide—these are my contributions to the world. If everyone gave just a little, the impact would be enormous. But I do not beg. True giving must come from a place of free will and gratitude, not coercion.

The real rich are those who share their wealth—whether it be financial, emotional, or intellectual—with others. Those who empower, uplift, and create opportunities. The real poor are those who hoard, manipulate, and measure their worth by numbers in a bank account.

The Power of Unity

For too long, we have allowed wealth and power to dictate the rules. But when people come together—when hearts, voices, and actions unite—the tide shifts. No amount of money can stand against a movement built on love, kindness, and justice.

History has shown that those who underestimate the power of the people ultimately fall. They believe they can buy loyalty, manipulate truth, and control narratives. But they cannot control the collective strength of humanity when it chooses to stand together.

The Choice is Ours

I am financially poor by society’s standards, living on a pension that barely covers my needs. And yet, I feel incredibly rich. My wealth is in the conversations I have, the stories I share, and the lives I touch. My abundance is in my purpose.

So, I ask you: Who is truly rich? And who is truly poor?

If we come together, if we choose to invest in humanity rather than in greed, we can create a world where wealth is not measured in dollars but in kindness, in impact, and in the legacy we leave behind.

Will you stand with the truly abundant?



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25-05. Feed Joy instead of Fear


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from February 4th

How to Stay Positive in Today’s World

Staying positive in today’s world starts with intentional choices. Begin by limiting your exposure to negativity—switch off social media and TV, if they overwhelm you. Focus on positivity, as what you engage with shapes your mindset. Stay informed, but don’t let the weight of the world consume you.

Gratitude and joy are powerful tools. Start each day by saying, “Thank you for this new day.” Speak affirmations like, “I can, I will, I am capable,” to set a positive tone. Engage in uplifting activities, surround yourself with things that inspire you, and approach challenges with resilience and optimism.

Joy grows through connection and kindness. Take small steps—greet strangers with a smile, help a neighbor, or support a cause. Acts of compassion, no matter how small, create a ripple effect of positivity.

Choose joy over fear. Focus on what you can contribute rather than what you cannot control. We strengthen each other and create lasting change when we come together with love, hope, and a purpose. Be the light that inspires others, and let joy lead the way.

Staying positive in today’s atmosphere can be challenging, but it starts with intentional practices that help maintain balance. First, limit your intake of negativity by switching off social media and TV. Social media operate on algorithms, feeding you what you engage with. Focus on the positive; the platform will reflect that back to you. However, don’t completely ignore what’s happening around you. Awareness is crucial because neglecting the problems allows negativity to win. Instead, strike a balance by limiting how much you absorb while staying informed.

We live in a world in transition, and though it’s being shaken up, this is a chance to ask yourself: Do you want to repeat the past, or do you want to shape your future actively? The answer should be no to passivity and yes to taking charge of your life. Start each day with affirmations, gratitude, and optimism. Whether writing something uplifting, speaking affirmations aloud, or watching something inspiring, this positive energy can set the tone for the day.

Gratitude is transformative. Begin each morning with, “Thank you for this new day,” and embrace challenges with a mindset of resilience. Remind yourself, “I can, I will, I am capable.” Even when the day throws difficulties your way, remember to breathe, trust, and allow solutions to emerge naturally.

Despite the chaos in the world, including political strife and economic pressures, we must not let despair consume us. Instead, focus on what you can control and contribute to solutions, whether by being a voice for change, supporting others, or simply showing compassion and love. This unity is our strength, starting with small, consistent acts of kindness.

When life feels overwhelming, don’t spiral into anxiety or despair. Take proactive steps to resolve issues and ask the universe for guidance: “Show me how, show me whom, show me where.” Staying calm and optimistic prevents you from sinking into hopelessness and allows you to take empowered actions.

Engaging in meaningful activities brings joy and purpose. Whether it’s volunteering, helping a neighbor, or supporting a cause, giving to others fills your heart with joy and creates a ripple effect of positivity. Prioritize self-care, but remember that your self-fulfillment enables you to serve others. Acts of kindness—small or grand—uplift both the giver and the receiver.

Connection is vital. Look others in the eye, greet them warmly, and create moments of human interaction. Especially in challenging times, we must resist isolation and foster community. We combat negativity and bring light into the world by feeding joy, kindness, compassion, and solutions.

Ultimately, staying positive requires balancing awareness of the world’s problems with an intentional focus on solutions, love, and hope. Embrace life’s beauty, engage in acts of kindness, and find ways to contribute to your community. We can create a powerful force for good together, arm in arm.

So, start today with gratitude and a smile. Spread joy and love, and remember that even small actions can make a big difference. Let’s be the change we want to see and inspire hope in others along the way.



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C25-05. Warren Farrell & Lifelong Love


Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest, Dr. Warren Farrell, on air from February 4th

As Valentine’s Day approaches, romance is in the air. Falling in love is a biological, natural experience, releasing high levels of feel-good dopamine. Staying in love? That’s not in Cupid’s job description. We, mortals, are left struggling with what to do after the initial love-struck euphoria fades and reality hits. No wonder so many blissful marriages end in bitter divorces.  

New York Times bestselling author and internationally recognized expert on couples’ communication, Dr. Warren Farrell has repeatedly observed a heartbreaking fact for many couples: sustaining love is biologically unnatural. In his latest book, Role Mate to Soul Mate: The Seven Secrets to Lifelong Love, Dr. Farrell reveals his solutions to breaking through our natural defenses against making love last. As he has found, real couples can live happily ever after if they learn how to handle personal criticism from each other without becoming defensive.

Dr. Farrell has discovered seven core secrets to keeping the early spark of love burning strong in a relationship through decades and life’s inevitable challenges. Yet, as he impresses on couples, sustaining love takes commitment and practice. Drawing on his 30 years of experience teaching couples’ communication workshops, Dr. Warren Farrell can share his trusted secrets and tested practices with your audience. For starters, he can discuss how to:

  • Appreciate your partner creatively, consistently, and specifically
  • Transform the “Four Depleters of Love”—Criticisms, Complaining, Complacency, and Controlling—into ways to deepen love
  • Master the eleven “Soul Mate Wisdoms.”
  • Play together, keeping the fun and passion alive, to stay together
  • Create win-win solutions to even the stickiest problems


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WARREN FARRELL, PhD, a New York Times and internationally bestselling author, has coached couples and psychologists nationwide in couples’ communication for the past 30 years. Recognized by the Financial Times of London as one of the world’s top 100 thought leaders, he has been a pioneer in both the women’s movement (elected three times to the Board of the National Organization for Women) and the men’s movement (called the “Martin Luther King of the men’s movement” by GQ). He advocates for a “Gender Liberation Movement, freeing both sexes from rigid roles of the past.” His books have been published in 19 languages and include Why Men Are the Way They Are (1986), The Myth of Male Power (1993), and The Boy Crisis (2018). His most recent book, Role Mate to Soul Mate (2024), grew out of his popular course on the art and discipline of sustaining loving, intimate relationships. He and his wife Liz have been together for more than 30 years.


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MH25-05. Paul Dought’s Superpower Resilience


Mental Health Awareness with Sara Troy and her guest Paul Daughty, on air from February 4th


Paul’s message, “Resilience: My Ultimate Superpower,” embodies his mission to empower individuals to embrace their own strength and create a legacy of success and positivity. ?

Paul Doughty is a dedicated public and survivor speaker hailing from Scituate, MA. His life’s journey has been marked by formidable challenges that have profoundly shaped his character and outlook. From a young age, Paul wrestled with circumstances that steered him toward despair. However, with unwavering determination and an intrinsic belief in the power of resilience, he has turned his tale of adversity into one of triumph. His story is a testament to the unfaltering human spirit when met with hardship. ?



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As a speaker and author, Paul’s true story of growing up in an abusive home and then being left unsupervised through his teenage years is now being developed into a TV series. ?

The metamorphosis Paul underwent is not solely his own doing. Through the empathetic guidance of a mentor, the transformative process of therapy, which led to a profound Spiritual Awakening, and the strength culled from various passions, he re-authored his life’s narrative. As he shares his experiences with audiences, he aims to catalyze a similar awakening within them—to inspire and demonstrate that with support, inner resolve, and courage, anyone can overcome their trials and emerge stronger. ?


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MH25-04. Lori Chenger, D is for Dementia


Mental Health Awareness with Sara Troy and her guest Lori Chenger, on air from January 28th

I am sharing information on my children’s book D is for Dementia, which helps explain the concept of dementia to children. After losing my dad to dementia, I realized that we often leave children out of these conversations, thinking it’s too complex for them to understand.

Storytelling helps us navigate fear and uncertainty. Communication within families is essential as we face loss. Inspired by my experiences, I aimed to provide a resource that fosters dialogue between families and children when dementia affects their lives.

Children need clear facts and relatable images. Books and music offer comfort, and my book includes lyrics to “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star,” demonstrating that, ultimately, love transcends words, regardless of age.

No matter what we can no longer verbally express, the power of love still resides in all of us.

From my house to yours, may love be your anchor.

Dementia is a term used to describe a group of symptoms that affect memory, thinking, reasoning, and the ability to perform everyday tasks. It is not a specific disease but a condition caused by underlying disorders, such as Alzheimer’s disease (the most common cause), vascular dementia, or other brain-related issues.

How easy is it to forget the things we promised to remember forever.

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Key symptoms of dementia include:

  • Memory loss, particularly of recent events.
  • Difficulty with problem-solving or planning.
  • Confusion about time, place, or people.
  • Communication challenges, such as finding the right words.
  • Changes in mood, behavior, or personality.

Dementia primarily affects older adults, though it is not a normal part of aging. Early diagnosis and care can help manage symptoms and improve the quality of life for those affected and their families.



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2023 Award winner of Rise to Greater Heights and Iconic Impactors for women who teach, lead, and inspire. I have worked as a recreational director for 8 years in senior care centers and currently teach an online addictions program. I have over 20 years of experience working with children, youth, and seniors in various capacities. In my work in the recreation field with seniors, I found that we have a habit of asking questions regarding diagnoses that they cannot recall. Example: “Don’t you remember?” “Why did you do that?” One of my modalities led me to the training and teaching of Dr. Daniel Nightingale, a leading psychotherapist, clinical hypnotherapist, and medical director.


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