23-48. The Gift of Family.

November 27, 2023November 24, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from November 28th

Family, the fabric of life woven with threads of love, laughter, and shared memories. For some, it’s a complex tapestry, a mix of joy and challenges. But in my experience, it’s a masterpiece of affection and warmth.

I am blessed with three remarkable grown children, their loving spouses, and three delightful grandchildren. Each one a unique strand, adding strength and beauty to the family bond. We recently gathered by a serene lake, a tranquil retreat from the world’s hustle. There, embraced by nature’s tranquility, we basked in the joy of togetherness.

Our days were filled with laughter echoing across the water, the warmth of shared stories, and the delight of great food. In those moments, the essence of family was palpable, a feeling of belonging and unconditional love.

It’s in these gatherings, simple yet profound, that the true gift of family reveals itself. It’s not just in the big celebrations, but in the quiet, cozy moments over looking the lake, where the world slows down, and we truly connect. This is the gift I cherish, the gift of a family bound not just by blood, but by an unbreakable bond of love and joy.

My journey as a parent and theirs as children, is a testament to the enduring power of love and commitment. Despite the challenges that arose from my separation 23 years ago from their father, our unwavering dedication to being a part of each others lives has cultivated a family dynamic that is both unique and strong.

In the tapestry of your family, each thread represents the differences and similarities that make our unit special. These diverse strands, woven together, have created a rich and vibrant pattern, a testament to the love and effort we’ve invested.

Our story is one of resilience and determination, showcasing that physical distance and past circumstances don’t define the strength of familial bonds. Instead, it’s the effort to remain connected, the willingness to embrace both similarities and differences, and the capacity to nurture love that truly matters.

This unity, born out of our commitment and love, has undoubtedly shaped a family culture where respect, understanding, and affection flourish. My children and grandchildren, influenced by our example, will likely learned the value of perseverance, the beauty of diversity, and the warmth of unconditional love.

Our family, a tight unit forged through years of shared experiences and nurtured relationships, stands as a beautiful illustration of what it means to overcome obstacles and maintain a bond that thrives on love and mutual respect.

May your family be foundered on love, and may you always be a unit of that love no matter the challenges.

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23-47. Prepping for the New Year 2

November 20, 2023November 20, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast 2 Comments

Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air form November 21st

Reflecting on my current situation, I find myself grappling with a significant decision regarding the timeline of a project or task at hand. The pressing question I’m facing is whether this needs to be wrapped up within the current year, or if it’s feasible and acceptable to let it extend into the next year.

As I sit here, considering the workload and responsibilities that are already lined up for the next few weeks, I’m leaning towards the realization that extending the timeline into next year is not just a possibility, but perhaps the most practical choice. This decision isn’t made lightly; it’s born out of a realistic assessment of my current commitments and the scope of work that remains.

The conclusion that ‘the answer is yes’ to extending the deadline into the next year is a reflection of my understanding of the situation. It takes into account various factors such as the quality of work, my well-being, and the potential benefits of allowing more time to ensure that the task or project is completed to the best of my abilities.

As I make this decision, I’m aware that it may necessitate clear communication with any stakeholders involved. It’s important to convey not just the change in timeline, but also the reasoning behind it, ensuring that everyone understands and is on board with this revised plan.

Navigating through these considerations, I feel this approach will ultimately lead to a better outcome for the project and for myself.

It’s indeed okay to not push an agenda and to go with the flow. This mindset can be particularly beneficial in situations where forcing a course of action might lead to unnecessary stress or complications.

The idea that encountering resistance could be an indicator that either the situation or we ourselves are not ready for a particular change or action is quite insightful to oneself. It suggests a level of awareness and adaptability that can be crucial in both personal and professional contexts.

Resistance, whether internal or external, often signals that there might be aspects of a situation that haven’t been fully considered or understood yet. It might mean that more preparation is needed, or that circumstances aren’t conducive to the desired course of action. In such cases, taking a step back, reevaluating the situation, and allowing things to unfold more naturally can lead to more harmonious and effective outcomes.

Embracing this approach can also involve a degree of patience and open-mindedness. It allows for the possibility that there might be alternative paths or solutions that haven’t been considered yet, and that these might emerge more clearly when not forcing a specific agenda.

In summary, going with the flow and being mindful of resistance is a valuable strategy. It encourages a more responsive, rather than reactive, approach to challenges and opportunities.

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23-46. Finishing up the year.

November 13, 2023November 13, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from November 14th

As the year draws to a close, that ever-present sense of urgency looms over us. We’re left wondering how we can manage to tie up loose ends, meet our goals, and make room for new beginnings in 2024, all while allowing ourselves the simple pleasure of just being in the moment.

The challenge lies in striking that delicate balance between productivity and mindfulness. It’s crucial to create a clear plan to wrap up any outstanding tasks and projects, prioritizing what needs immediate attention. Break these tasks into manageable chunks, allocate specific time slots for them, and stay disciplined.

But it’s equally important to carve out dedicated time for reflection and planning for the year ahead. What are your aspirations for 2024? What new projects or goals do you want to pursue? Taking some quiet moments to contemplate these questions can help set a clear direction.

And let’s not forget the importance of ‘just being.’ Amid the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s essential to find moments of peace and relaxation. Whether it’s spending time with loved ones, pursuing a hobby, or simply taking a leisurely walk in nature, these moments of serenity recharge our spirits and allow us to appreciate the present.

For me, the year-end rush isn’t just about wrapping up my annual projects; it’s also about ushering two books into publication and ensuring they receive the attention they deserve. One of these projects involves hosting an Authors Anthology Summit for the “Our Forgotten Children” book. While I still have some chapters to edit, it’s clear that certain aspects need to be accomplished by year-end, while others can benefit from a fresh start in the new year.

The key is to prioritize and strategize effectively. Finishing up the annual projects may take precedence, ensuring a strong finish for the current year. This allows me to focus on the book projects with renewed energy in the beginning of the year.

The Authors Anthology Summit can be a great way to kick off the new year, but that is going to be in December to promote the pre order of the book. Instead the new year will be authors hour, where people can ask the authors questions on their chapter and experiences, creating excitement and anticipation around the book and what its message really is. As we move forward, we can carefully plan the release and marketing strategies, ensuring that these books ( mine included) receive the recognition they deserve.

In this way, we can strike a balance between wrapping up the old and ushering in the new, allowing us to achieve our goals while also finding moments of peace and relaxation during this busy season.

So, as we navigate the final days of this year, let’s embrace the urgency to complete our tasks, the excitement of new beginnings, and the tranquility of being in the here and now. In this delicate dance, we can find harmony and fulfillment.

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NA23-46. Gina Kunadian on Un Alcoholing my Life.

November 13, 2023November 15, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Nature of Addictions with Sara Troy and her guest Gina Ariel Kunadian pronounced (Koon-a-Dian), on air from October 31st

My path to self-discovery was paved with challenges, leading me to over 5 years of personal sobriety. This journey not only freed me from the clutches of alcohol but also unveiled my authentic self, illuminating a purpose far greater than I’d ever envisioned. Today, with experience and passion guiding me, I recognize the profound significance of sharing this transformative tale of sobriety and self-love. This message is essential for those navigating the tumultuous waters of addiction, for women looking to reclaim their power post-dependency, and for anyone yearning for a life of true purpose and vitality. From personal tribulations to a life brimming with purpose, I aim to inspire, guide, and empower.

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Gina Kunadian is a beacon of hope and inspiration for countless women. With over 5 years of personal sobriety, she has transformed from a person grappling with addiction to a certified massage therapist, podcast host, and creator of the transformative ‘Shine Process’. Through her platforms, Gina empowers individuals to step out of the shadows of dependency and embrace a life of authenticity and purpose. Her personal journey serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of self-love and determination.

Background Story: Hello there! I’m Gina Kunadian, a woman of faith, a devoted wife, a mother of three, and an entrepreneur who has fought her battles and emerged stronger. Once gripped by the clutches of alcohol addiction, today I stand tall as a beacon of hope, guiding others on their journey towards sobriety.

There was a time in my life when darkness was my constant companion, and every day was a struggle. I was lost, disconnected, and trapped in a cycle of dependence that I couldn’t seem to break free from. But, through this darkness, I found strength I didn’t know I possessed. My faith, determination, and an insatiable desire for a better life guided me towards the path of recovery.

Breaking up with alcohol was challenging, yet liberating. It didn’t happen overnight, and there were moments of self-doubt and relapses. But each stumble made me stronger, each fall more determined to rise. My transformation wasn’t just about becoming alcohol-free; it was about rediscovering myself, about reclaiming my mind, body, and spirit from the shadows of addiction.

Today, I channel this experience, wisdom, and empathy into my role as a sobriety coach. I provide guidance, support, and tools for women who are committed to breaking free from alcohol, without the traditional 12-step program. I’m there with them every step of the way, helping them unlock their potential, rebuild their confidence, and create a life they love, alcohol-free.

But my ambition extends beyond my coaching career. I am passionate about learning, evolving, and expanding my horizons. Whether it’s exploring new ways to enhance my coaching techniques, seeking spiritual growth, or nurturing my family, I am constantly driven by the desire to become the best version of myself.

My journey from darkness to light has taught me invaluable lessons about resilience, self-love, and the power of change. Now, I am on a mission to empower others to break free from their chains, to shine brightly, and to embrace the limitless potential that lies within each one of us. I believe in the transformative power of gratitude, positivity, and self-belief, and I am committed to sharing this belief with the world.

Being an entrepreneur is more than running a business to me, it’s a way of life. It’s about creating impact, driving change, and leaving a legacy of hope, resilience, and transformation. And as I continue this journey, I am excited about the lives I will touch, the change I will inspire, and the future we will create, together.

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IG23-46. Aryeh Ben David says Love is what Judaism is all about.

November 13, 2023November 13, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Ignite Your Heart and Soul with Sara Troy and her guest Areyh Ben David, on air form November 14th

The Secret of Love: A Glimpse into the Mystical Wisdom of Rav Kook It’s obviously intended for a Jewish audience, but the principles and wisdom of Rav Kook really applies to everyone. It’s about how to become a more loving human being.

This is a book about love, about how to become a more loving human being. It has been inspired by the writings of the contemporary mystic, Rabbi Avraham Yitzchak HaCohen Kook (1865-1935). Author Aryeh Ben David says, “Though this may not be what we learned in school or synagogue, becoming a more loving human being is really what Judaism is all about.

And even more than becoming more loving human beings in our personal relationships—don’t we sense that the larger world today is in desperate need of more love? The brokenness and anger present in Jewish life seems irreparable. Jews from different religious denominations and ideological views cannot sit together, much less respect each other’s positions and love each other. Our political arena has become toxic and awash with animosity.”

In our interview, Areyh Ben David can talk about some of the more surprising and insightful things he has learned:

Why Aryeh says that loving does not come to him naturally; the ways his life has changed since embracing Rav Kook’s approach to living a Jewish life
Why love as a purely emotional experience is restrictive. It is limited to the people we want to be with and can sometimes be selfish and self-serving
Our pleasure almost always derives from the achievement of a goal, and rarely on the process necessary to achieve that goal. What would our daily to-do list look like if we loved not only the product but also the process? Maybe it would look like this: Find God’s light while getting dressed; while preparing food; while waiting in line; while driving to work; while cleaning up. Find God’s light now.
Loving all of humanity — how we can shift our perspective, to come from a place of humility with regard to other people’s opinions and ideologies
Obstacles to loving: Is there such a thing as “too much love?” Isn’t that contradictory to everything we’re talking about?
Why too much love cannot sustain a relationship for a long period of time – for relationships to stand the test of time, we need to periodically put boundaries in place

“All of the Torah — ethics, mitzvot, learning, and practice — come to remove the obstacles that prevent an all-encompassing love from expanding and spreading to every corner of life, everywhere.” —Rabbi Avraham Yitzchak HaCohen Kook

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR: A world-renowned educator, Aryeh Ben David is committed to “plucking the soul strings” of teachers and students alike in order to transform how we learn and grow. He is the founder of Ayeka: Center for Soulful Education, which trains educators of all denominations, including campus professionals, and staff of middle and high schools, on how to teach Jewish subjects with more soulfulness, personal meaning and impact on life. Aryeh has taught at the Pardes Institute in Jerusalem since 1987, where he was a member of the Senior Faculty and Director of Spiritual Education. He also served as the Rabbinical Educational Consultant for Hillel International from 2004 to 2007, and spearheaded their spiritual initiative throughout the United States. Previously Aryeh served as the Educational Director of Livnot U’Lehibanot from 1991- 96.He has been involved in the training of staff of countless organizations and lectures internationally. He is the author of

Around the Shabbat Table, a Guide to Meaningful Shabbat Conversations (2000) and

The Godfile, Ten Approaches To Personalizing Prayer (2007),

Becoming a Soulful Educator: How to Bring Jewish Learning from Our Minds, to Our Hearts, to Our Souls and Into Our Lives (2016), and

Hearing Your Own Voice: A Family Haggadah (2017) . Aryeh grew up outside of NYC and studied psychology at Vassar College. He came to Israel in 1978, studied at the Meretz yeshiva in Mevasseret Zion and received Rabbinic ordination from the Israeli Rabbinate. He served in the Israeli army and now lives in Efrat, Gush Etzion, with his wife Sandra and their six children.