IG 18-18 Empowered Love in the #Me2 Movement with Pam Del Franco

April 15, 2018July 24, 2020Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Igniting Our Hearts and Souls with Sara Troy and her guest Pam Del Franco, on air from May 1st

The key to any relationship, but specifically to a partner, is to be vigilant in learning how to listen to the intuitive part of yourself. You can enter a relationship wounded; you don’t need to be all sorted out. But you do have to be willing to look at how you might be participating in bad behaviour from your partner; for example you may be suppressing your needs; putting the other person first; avoiding looking at the reality of what’s happening and being stuck in the “if only I could …he would change”. When you constantly look within yourself and ask the hard questions, you may find it easier to make choices based on your own knowing which often gets suppressed in order to make a relationship work. That’s the part of you that does know what next step to take; when to be flexible and when to stand firm; when to stay and when to walk away.

The #MeToo movement – how important is this movement and why IS IT HAPPENING NOW?

I like to use the metaphor of a glass of water with a layer of mud on the bottom. If you’re just looking at the top it’s easy to miss all of that dirt at the bottom, but then you start to stir it up; it all mixes and muddles together and it looks like you’ll never have that clear water anymore. With time, the sediment settles back down to the bottom, and although it doesn’t actually leave the glass it has offered enough of a disturbance to acknowledge that it’s there.

The #MeToo movement is about that disturbance. Many women are coming forward speaking about things that happened to them 20 or 30 years ago. Some people comment that it was so long ago just leave it alone, what’s the point in bringing it up now. The point is that heartbreak, sadness, or fear don’t operate on the same timeline as our minds do on a day-to-day basis. Just like someone that can smell the aroma of apple pie and be immediately taken back to a time in the kitchen with their mother baking and re-experience the joy of that moment, we too can also immediately be transported back to a time where the experience made you feel scared, ashamed and alone.

The #MeToo movement is the mud at the bottom of the glass and it’s being stirred up. It’s not entirely new; we experienced similar ideology in the 1960’s but now with the power of social media, it offers a much wider platform. In that way, it’s even in more powerful because the #MeToo is easily accessible across generations of women.

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Any growth in humanity is important and I hope that in my lifetime I will be able to witness that we have the ability to #RiseUp not only for women’s equality but to move beyond that and become humanity moving forward together regardless of gender.

Pam Del Franco is a spiritual medium, counsellor, author and workshop facilitator. She has spent over 20 years helping women trust their intuition and feel more empowered. Pam graduated as a Social Service Worker in 1994, is a Certified Hypnotherapist. She has studied her dreams since 1986 and developed a dream interpretation app, Dulcis Somnium. Her memoir, Walking Out of the Fire, published in 2006, describes her experiences with physical, mental and emotional abuse and how she survived against all odds. She lives with her fur-baby Molly and enjoys spending her free time with her family and friends.

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SE18-17 WHY DO MEN NOT TALK TO WOMEN? with Steven Lake

April 14, 2018July 3, 2018Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Our Sensual Expressions with Sara Troy and her guest Steven Lake, on air from April 24th.

WHY DO MEN NOT TALK TO WOMEN?

On our talk today we will be discussing the male to female communications. Even though one might be a top leader in the corporate world, that does not mean he has the female to male interaction in hand. The knowledge of that interaction will be shared on this show with Dr Steven Lake, who works with top leaders who know the loneliness of being at the top. Does this disconnect them from those around and can they disconnect their leadership role from that of a loving partner?

Dr. Lake brings a rich and varied background to his work as a writer, speaker, and trainer, having owned businesses in manufacturing, construction, education, and mental health.

Steven worked as a psychologist for Corrections Canada in a maximum security prison hospital and as a consultant for an Employee Assistance Plan (EAP) provider before establishing Executive Support Net.

His corporate work includes policy reviews, needs assessment and program delivery. Steven also works one-on-one with executives focusing on personal effectiveness and lifestyle improvement.

Steven’s degrees in Psychology (Masters) and Administration (PhD) along with his focus on emotion and leadership combined with extensive business experience gives him unique insights into leadership and the management of organizations.

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talk2ME: How to communicate with women

The Sex Formula: How to calculate sexual compatibility

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www.lakecounselling.com

www.therelationshipguy.ca

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April 14, 2018April 12, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Embracing our own sensuality and understanding sexuality is even more confusing today than ever before. In these shows, we speak to our own sensual liberations and in how to embrace our own sexuality without fee of judgment.

Sex is a hot topic and we will look at it from all sides, the do’s and don’ts the crossing the line, the sex trade and sexual abuse, the mixed messages, and also setting our selves free from societies sexual dictations.

SE25-35. Sue William Silverman’s Mercy of the Reader - Sensual Expression with Sara Troy and her guest Sue William Silverman, on air from September 2nd The award-winning voice behind Love Sick: One Woman’s Journey Through Sexual Addiction (which was adapted into a Lifetime movie) and How to Survive Death and Other Inconvenience now new book Selected Misdemeanors: Essays at the Mercy of the Reader, Sue Williams Silverman. […]

SE23-16. Sex, Love, Relationship, Coach Carina Reeves - Sensual Expressions with Sara Troy and her guest Carina Reeves, on air from April 17th My “why”: Research shows that 75% of women are reported to be struggling with self esteem and self worth issues, and that they have reached their peak confidence by AGE 9. Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach Carina Reeves is an […]

SE22-29 Liv Arnold “In Stepping Stone” - Sensual Expression with Sara Troy and her guest Liv Arnold, on air from July 19th Every time Jenna Kravitz sees her sex on a stick ex-husband, she still sex on a stick with all the fillings. They were soulmates, meant to grow old together…before his freight train wreck dropped her off at despair station. As […]

SE22-10 Richard Cirulli, A Harmonious Love Affair. - Sensual Expressions with Sara Troy and her guest Richard Cirulli, on air from March 8th Playwright Richard Cirulli, author of the new novel Demitasse Divorce. Cirulli is also the founder of the Demitasse Players, a charity founded on the mission to write and produce plays to bring awareness to mental health. His Steamy Romantic Novel Tells How A Chance Encounter Over Coffee Led […]

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C18-16 Blossom: 7 Steps to Sexual Healing with Carolin Hauser-Carson

April 13, 2018April 16, 2025Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Carolin Hauser-Carson, on air from April 17th

After #MeToo, What Comes Next? Finding Your Voice Just Isn’t Enough Humanistic Psychotherapist Explains How to “Integrate” The Trauma and Own Your Magnificence So You Can Truly Live Well and Love Fully

So under the welcome sweeping influence of the #MeToo movement, you’ve found the courage to denounce your sexual harasser. Or maybe you’ve just finally told someone, or simply felt validated by the stories of so many others who experienced what you did. But is it enough?Statistics show that 1 in 4 women will be sexually abused or assaulted in their lifetime and will on average be up to 4 times more likely to develop depression, suicidal thoughts, PTSD, drug and alcohol abuse, eating disorders, relationship problems and physical and/or mental health issues. And, if unhealed, will not be able to live free, purposeful and joyful lives.

While #MeToo may give you back your voice, is it enough to bring about the healing you desire? Will voice what happened, in and of itself, repair a stunted life? Can years of self-blame, failed relationships, the envy of perceived “normal” happy women, addictive behaviour or other self-destructive thinking or habits be eradicated by merely verbalizing what happened to you?

No, says Carolin Hauser-Carson, a renowned Humanistic Psychotherapist with a large and successful practice that helps women who have been victims of sexual abuse. Getting validation or voicing your anger is only the starting point.

The key to healing from sexual trauma is “integration.” In the past, women have been taught to process trauma. But, only through integration and letting go can one truly be released from the full energetic impact of it. Processing merely leaves you with a stored energetic impact that leads to emotional and mental distress. Through Carolin’s 7-Step Blossom Journey, the integration process is completed so that wholeness is restored and normal healthy relationships become possible.

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In her book, Blossom: 7 Steps to Sexual Healing, Carolin lays out a simple and very effective 7-week program that brings about the healing necessary to allow women to create the life they truly dream of living.

Blossom stands for:

B: Bring Your Mind on Board
L: Land Within Yourself
O: Open to Your Intuition
S: See with the Eyes of Truth
S: Stretch Beyond Your Limits
O: Own All of Who You Are
M: Meet the World and Your Beloved Wholeness

But Carolin didn’t choose to become a Naturopathic Doctor, Family Constellations Practitioner, Humanistic Psychotherapist, Healer or Women’s Empowerment Expert solely out of professional interest. As she explains in the first half of her book, she was sexually abused, first by her grandfather from the ages of 3 to 7, and then by her mother’s boyfriend from 11 to 13, in her native Germany. This led to many years of chronic food addiction and eating disorders, a constant sense of alienation, unsatisfying and aborted relationships, financial ruin and self-destructive coping mechanisms. All too commonly adopted by women who have suffered from sexual abuse.

Carolin began her own Blossom Journey on the floor of her bathroom when she realized that binging and purging would eventually end her life and that the love she sought so desperately could never be hers unless she changed. And that was the moment she “committed to love itself,” the first step that her clients must take to start the Blossom Journey-to open their hearts to love in all its forms.

Since arriving in the U.S. from Germany 13 years ago with only $7 in her pocket and a passion to help others, Carolin Hauser-Carson has developed a thriving international coaching practice with women from her home base in Santa Barbara, CA. She has also married her Divine Partner Paul and they are committed to co-creating and advocating, for all, the actualization of the most pleasure-filled experience life has to offer.

With so many women finding cathartic relief in the power and wake of the #MeToo movement, they must now understand that the work that needs to be done to unravel the damage of the past and truly heal has only just begun. #WhatNext?

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BB18-16 “Sales Training for the Building Industry” with Sharon-Rose McNeil.

April 12, 2018April 16, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Building Your Business with Sara Troy and her guest Sharon-Rose McNeil, on air from April 17th.

The Topic I will cover will be “What is your vision?” I will share a short story of the power of my first Vision Board and how it transformed my life. I also will share how I got started in sales, selling vacuum cleaners door to door and moved through different sales jobs until I landed in the Building Materials Industry where I have been for the past 16 years.

I am a professional sales trainer with over 20 years experience in the Sales Industry. I specialize in the Building Materials Industry and have a passion for helping people excel in this industry. I am an author, public speaker, marathon runner, Mom, Grandma and Friend.

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AT THE YOUNG AGE OF 18 SHARON-ROSE MCNEIL STARTED SELLING VACUUM CLEANERS DOOR TO DOOR. FOR 6 YEARS AND THE BIRTH OF TWO CHILDREN SHE SUPPORTED HER WHOLE FAMILY. SHE BECAME A TOP SALES PROFESSIONAL IN CANADA.
THESE EARLY YEARS SET THE FOUNDATION FOR A LIFELONG CAREER IN SALES. WHILE SELLING B2B IN THE BUILDING PRODUCTS INDUSTRY FOR RESIDENTIAL & COMMERCIAL PRODUCTS. SHE BECAME OF THE TOP SALES PROFESSIONALS IN HER COMPANY, BREAKING SALES RECORDS. SHE HAS HOSTED TRAINING SEMINARS ACROSS CANADA IN THE HOME DEPOT STORES. IN 2018 SHE LAUNCHED HER OWN SALES TRAINING & COACHING COMPANY. SHE IS PASSIONATE ABOUT HELPING PEOPLE REACH THEIR FULL SALES POTENTIAL THROUGH PROVEN TRAINING METHODOLOGIES.
WHEN SHE IS NOT WORKING, PUBLIC SPEAKING, HIKING OR RUNNING A MARATHON,
SHE MIGHT BE FOUND WITH HER BEST FRIEND RUSSEL L THE BEAGLE.

SHARON-ROSE’S Accomplishments:

I have written a sales curriculum called the “Fundamentals of Sales”. It covers all the essentials to landing your ideal clients. Most recently I was a top sales producer in the Building Products Industry Specifically Garage Doors, breaking sales history for the largest garage door manufacturer in North America. I was the top female saleswoman in Canada in direct sales, selling vacuum cleaners early on in my sales career.

Passions:

I am passionate about helping people reach their full potential in sales. I help people use their natural abilities to embrace their own sales style. Sales is such a fun profession and we all have to sell something to sell whether it’s a product, service or idea. I love to use my own gifts and talents to help others both locally and pay it forward through Compassion. I am a highly motivated woman with a passion for motivating and inspiring others.

Vision:

I am a wife, mother of two grown children, two beautiful grandchildren. I was inspired to start my own business after volunteering in Kolkata India with the Missionaries of Charity. I felt helpless in the midst of extreme poverty and I made a vow to use my talents and skills to pay it forward. Honor Sales is a proud supporter of Compassion Canada Compassion is an amazing organization that is one of the world’s leading child development organizations. Compassion partners with local churches in 25 countries to help end poverty in the lives of children and their families. Honor Sales is committed to learning and a firm believer in paying it forward. A portion of all sales will be directed towards building a learning centre often children in extreme poverty lack access to education to change their situation. We are helping build a learning centre where children will have access to a computer lab and a library, along with vocational skills training. Personally, I am so honored and proud to do my one small part.