Sisterhood of Common Sense Lovewith Sara Troy and her guest Elle Nagy. On air from August 25th
For most of my life, I believed that success came from working harder, achieving more, and proving my worth through what I accomplished. It wasn’t until I realised that true leadership begins within that everything changed. My work is about helping women reclaim authorship of their own lives through self-leadership; not the kind that’s taught in boardrooms, but the kind that allows you to lead yourself with clarity, courage, integrity, and deep self-trust. I believe the quality of our lives is determined by the quality of our relationship with ourselves. When we consciously lead from within, our careers, relationships, health, and purpose naturally begin to reflect that inner alignment. My hope is that every woman leaves our conversation remembering that she already holds the wisdom she’s been searching for. Her work integrates psychology, identity, and nervous system regulation to help women create authentic, fulfilling lives.
Elle Nagy is a Rich Life Advisor, author of Mastering Self-LeadershipandThe Artist State, and creator of Woman Reimagined. For the past two decades she has guided ambitious women through profound identity shifts by helping them move beyond external achievement and into authentic self-leadership. Her work blends psychology, identity architecture, nervous system recalibration, and embodied feminine creation to help women create lives that feel as rich on the inside as they appear on the outside. Known for her thoughtful, challenging conversations, Elle invites women to stop waiting for life to change and instead become the conscious leader of their own lives.
Free Gift: As a thank you to Sara’s audience, I’d love to gift listeners a complimentary digital copy of my book, The Artist’s State, to continue exploring what it means to create a richer, more self-led life.
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Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Katie Eberman. On air from August 18th
After rebuilding her life following an unexpected separation, she discovered there is no single “right” path for women. Through entrepreneurship, storytelling, and resilience, she inspires women to create a life they love and a legacy that shows their children anything is possible.
After becoming a mom, I decided to become a stay-at-home mom. I kept having this pull to do more, and I started my then Virtual Assistant business with my 1 and 3 year old boys at home. In my own journey, I have had to navigate finding myself while navigating an unexpected separation from my partner of 15 years and rebuild a life that I am proud of. Through telling the stories of women entrepreneurs who inspire me, I have found courage to build a life that I love, so that I can show my kids that they can do anything that they put their mind to. My message for women is that there isn’t just one “right” path for them, and that they can choose the legacy that they leave behind.
Katie Eberman is the creative force behind Simply by Katie, a design studio that helps women entrepreneurs craft websites that feel like home and convert with ease. Having navigated the path from corporate professional to stay-at-home mom to single-mom business owner, Katie turned her pivot into purpose. Now she brings her story, her strategy, and her heart to help women step out of the exhausting social media cycle and step into a powerful digital presence that says: I’m here, I’m worthy, and I’m built to grow.
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Mental Health Awareness with Sara Troy and her guest Nikolai Blinow. On air August 25th
Nikolai Blinow, LMHC. I am the creator of The Calm Hustle Method, TEDx speaker, and licensed therapist in RI & MA, with nationwide licensure coming soon.
My “why”: After years of struggling with my own burnout, inner-perfectionist, and overachiever, and the eventual discovery that I am a high-functioning neurodivergent woman with ADHD who has flown under the radar for many, many years, I’m now passionate about helping fellow ambitious women with ADHD or other types of neurodiversities embody success without the chronic stress and personal life consequences (chronic pain, autoimmune issues, stress-related health conditions, anxiety, depression, personal life challenges, the list goes on!)
I’m the daughter of an Eastern European immigrant and an American woman without a higher education who was taught that the path to success is stability and financial success. And so I developed a tendency to work hard and be a perfectionist. After a year and a half of AmeriCorps service, and obtaining my “perfect” job, I realized that the secret to being happy wasn’t creating the stability and achievement I thought I wanted. So I took a leap, went back to school to become a therapist, and eventually found my way, at aged 37, to a late-in-life high-functioning ADHD diagnosis. This explained so much about why I could never relax, why achievement felt like the secret to safety, and how I needed to heal my nervous system, to truly settle in and enjoy my success. Now, I help other ambitious women struggling with anxiety, perfectionism, and ADHD do the same.
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Sara’s View of Life, with Sara Troy. On air from August 25th
Did you hear that? I mean, did you truly hear it? Were you listening and absorbing what was being said? Did it illuminate, astonish or enlighten you? Did it reveal something within you?
That is what podcasting is all about, and why I have continued doing this work for more than fourteen years. I want you to hear the message—not merely the words, but who is speaking, why they are sharing and what their story can teach us.
I recently recorded an extraordinary two-hour conversation with Giselle Roeder, a survivor of the Second World War. As a young girl living in Eastern Germany, she experienced the destruction of war firsthand. Her family had lived a humble but loving rural life until the arrival of the Russian army turned their world upside down.
Giselle witnessed violence, displacement, hunger and unspeakable atrocities. Her father was taken away and sent to Siberia, along with other able-bodied men and women between sixteen and sixty. Her mother was left to protect and care for her children under horrific circumstances. Giselle was only eleven years old, yet the things she witnessed forced her to grow up far too quickly.
Her story is important because history continues to repeat itself—under different names, uniforms and circumstances. We see suffering in Ukraine, Gaza, and many other places around the world. We continue to say, “Never again,” but somehow we allow fear, hatred, division and the hunger for power to lead humanity back into violence.
Who wins a war? No one. The emotional, spiritual, economic and environmental wounds can take generations to heal. Yet, despite everything history has taught us, humanity continues to reach for weapons instead of conversation, understanding and peaceful solutions.
Many of the people I interview share stories of struggle, pain and loss—but also courage, resilience and healing. They faced the darkness in their lives and found a way through it. Those who embrace healing often emerge with a profound commitment to peace, because they know that peace is what settles the heart, spirit and soul.
Those who do not heal can become trapped in bitterness, blame and vengeance. Hurt people often hurt others. This is why listening matters. If we listened to people before their pain became rage, helped them discover their value and give them meaningful ways to participate, perhaps fewer people would be manipulated by those who use anger and division to gain power.
Our significance begins within us. It comes through our participation, contribution and willingness to take responsibility for our own journey. We cannot become significant in the world until we recognize our significance in our own lives. This is the journey of self-discovery, self-love and meaningful purpose.
Today, we have access to more stories, knowledge and guidance than ever before. People share their experiences through books, podcasts, talks and social platforms. They show us how they moved from darkness into light and found courage, compassion and hope. The wisdom is available—but what are we choosing to read, watch and hear?
We cannot claim ignorance when suffering is happening before our eyes. Awareness invites us to care, and caring calls us to respond. We cannot fight every battle, because carrying the pain of the entire world can overwhelm us. But we can choose something meaningful to stand for, something harmful to stand against and someone vulnerable to stand beside.
Standing with another person can make an enormous difference, even if all we can offer is the knowledge that they are not alone.
We do not all have to look, think or live alike. There are many colours in the rainbow of life, and every one of them contributes to its beauty. I do not care about someone’s colour, nationality, economic standing, gender or orientation. What matters to me is their frequency, their consciousness and whether they genuinely care about humanity and planet.
Are you listening? Are you truly hearing and seeing what is happening—or are you choosing to look away?
Please listen to my conversation with Giselle. It is long and, at times, difficult to hear, but her story needs to be remembered. If we believe such atrocities cannot happen again, we only need to look around. They are already happening under different labels and in different forms.
I believe we are kinder and more intelligent than this. I believe we possess the conscious hearts needed to choose another way. We must listen more deeply, pay attention and find something we are willing to stand for. We must push back against those who use fear and division for power while standing beside the innocent, the wounded and even those beginning to realize they have been deceived.
Let us stand together as one human race, regardless of colour, creed or origin. Let us place humanity, our planet and all life upon it first. Let us practise kindness toward ourselves and one another, because until we do, we will continue travelling down a path of destruction.
Until next time, I truly wish you love and peace. May you discover them within yourself and share them with everyone around you.
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Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Giselle Roeder. On air from August.
Giselle’s Memoir developed into a trilogy. As stated in Nanaimo Magazine, “Giselle had one hell of a life.” It was impossible to fit into an ordinary book without becoming one with a thousand pages. Smiling, Giselle says, the book title could be “The Nine Lives of Gila.”
The first book, “We Don’t Talk About That,” is a riveting story of surviving WWII and its aftermath. It reads more like history rather than a memoir. It begins after WWI and outlines changes in the social makeup of many European countries, particularly post-war Germany. Unemployment and staggering inflation, where half a loaf of bread cost billions and two beers a mere one-hundred billion led to the rise of Adolf Hitler, an Austrian man. He promised work and bread and kept his promises. The following years brought an upswing in life but also carried Germany into WWII. The invasion of Eastern Germany by the Russian army brought horror with unspeakable atrocities to ordinary people. Most survivors’ attitude is “we don’t talk about that.”
Gila’s life turned tragic when the fighting approached her neighbourhood. Rape, murder and hunger were part of everyday life. The Russians took her father and every 16 to 60-year-old non-disabled person to Siberia. The rest of the population, including Gila’s mother and her siblings, were evicted. They joined the trek of thousands on the road to nowhere.’ Gila was witness to gruesome acts of violence, aging her beyond her years. She barely survived diphtheria while on the road. Months later, recovering from typhoid fever, she took responsibility for her three siblings while her mother worked. Despite her interrupted schooling due to circumstances beyond her control, Gila’s determination enabled her to become a Physical Education teacher. Gila lived the first ten years of her life under the Nazis and her teenage years under communist rule. Germany’s division into East and West, with its political ramifications, forced her to escape to West Germany. Gila’s story is one of heartache, courage, pain, love, and longing for liberation.
The second book, “Flight Into The Unknown,” deals with Gila’s life in the West. She came across an ad placed by a former German man living in Canada. He looked for a new mommy for his four-year-old daughter. Intrigued, she wrote a reply, never expecting a response. A large envelope with several ‘Beautiful British Columbia’ magazines, a letter, and photographs arrived. The Canadian man’s father, a lawyer, called. “My son is not a fly-by-night. ” Gila visited the lawyer’s family. Three months later, she got ‘engaged’ by telephone. While on holiday, the lawyer and his wife organized the wedding without ever asking Gila.
Gila did not know how to disentangle herself. She left Germany seven months after answering the ad and immigrated to Vancouver, Canada. She soon realized she had made the biggest mistake of her life. Her husband used her money to pay his debts. Gila had been blinded by his well-to-do parents, thinking, ‘the apple does not fall far from the tree.’ She made the best of it and took English classes, feeling lost without mastering the language. Five months later, they moved to Winnipeg. Gila welcomed a second stepdaughter and gave birth to a son the same year. The baby kept the family together. After a bankruptcy, Gila lost her drive for life and faced suicide. She couldn’t do it because of her little boy. Her husband told her, “Their mother left the girls, and if you do that, you’ll ruin them for life.” Trials and tribulations were constant companions. After twenty years of marriage, raising the kids, and finally succeeding in her own business, the husband had an affair, leading to a nasty divorce. Gila lost everything and moved back to Vancouver, hoping to start a new life. Coming September 15th
“Set Sail for Life After 50,” the trilogy’s final book, deals with being single again and new beginnings. This book is a work in progress. To follow
Content Warning: This story contains accounts of horrific cruelty inflicted upon East German civilians. Although these painful truths need to be heard, some details may be deeply disturbing. Please listen with care.
Giselle Roeder is the author of four books: two about healthy living, followed by “Forget Me Not,” A Bouquet of Stories, Thoughts, and Memories about people who influenced her life, and last but not least, the memoir that went around the world:
“We Don’t Talk About That” – covering the riveting story of surviving WW II during her first thirty years.
Giselle sequel, writing about her life in Canada. Following her emigration to Canada in 1963, Giselle succeeded in business, was interviewed on radio stations across the country, hosted her own Television Show for 9 years, and became well-known as an international public speaker in the developing field of alternative health.
Today, she will tell us about her life under different political systems:
Ten years as a child under Nazi rule –
Ten years as a teenager growing up in Communist East Germany –
Her life as a young adult in Capitalist West Germany after she escaped from East Germany.
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