C17-10 &11b. Murder Of Talent: How Pop Culture Is Killing “IT”

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Lisa Dalton, on air from March 7th

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Murder Of Talent: How Pop Culture Is Killing “IT” By Lisa Loving Dalton, Amazon #1 Bestselling Author

Behind-the-Scenes Tell-All About How Talented Artists and Athletes Are Mentally and Physically Killed by Badly Behaving Fans, Families, Teachers and Coaches Who Deify, Vilify and Crucify Our Stars. How She Found Healthier Ways to Mentor the Talented and Bring Healing to Our Culture In the midst of award season, Lisa Loving Dalton, a forty-year veteran of the entertainment industry, dares to pull back the curtain of tinsel town to examine some very gritty facts. What stands out in her new book Murder Of Talent: How Pop Culture Is Killing “IT” is the no-holds-barred assay she makes on the fans, the families, mentors and the talented ones revealing the dangers that exist. An easy and dynamic read, with something for everyone, this part memoir, part political diatribe is also a master class for training for Peak Performance in art, athletics, politics and life. Dalton puts us all on trial for the death and destruction of our stars, our Dalton puts us all on trial for the death and destruction of our stars, our wannabes, ourselves and our culture. She calls for the arrest of some and even judges herself guilty of self-violence for allowing a famous coach to destroy her film-acting career. Then, with empathy and wisdom, Lisa gently steps us along a path to redemption with tips for each of us on how to stop the metaphoric and actual bloodshed, leading us to happier, healthier lives. Endorsed by a Clinical Psychologist and a Tony Award-winning Producer, with fore-word by noted scholar/author Dr. Sharon Carnicke, Dalton courageously shares painful true stories of how she and fellow artists were indoctrinated in PTSD-inducing techniques.


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The knife is further twisted when we understand this destruction is still propagated by academia and manipulative super coaches, some making over a million dollars a year as they drain the pockets of penniless actors and a few super-stars to boot. No wonder stars are killing themselves with sex, drugs and other bad behavior. Perhaps the most publicly provocative aspect of this book is how children are traumatized into denying their talent by parents, teacher’s and peers. Parents fear economic and social instability, and even attach homophobia to talent, refusing to support their children in non-math/science careers, forcing them away from what they love and into other fields where they suffer, fail and take a toll on society. Dalton reveals what it takes to survive humiliation in the classroom, harassment and jealousy from friends, self-doubt and parental disapproval. It is rare that any adult passes a single day without repeated exposure to entertainment.

229544_218054118213551_3838855_nDalton reminds us that since ancient times, storytellers have led the critical task of unifying and uplifting the culture. Yet learning how to uptake that noble task is at risk. Politically, the arts, while having scientifically demonstrated outstanding economic and health benefits, are being systemically eradicated from curricula. Murder Of Talent reveals the cost, the cause and a cure for the negative impact pop culture and its icons have on each other. It challenges the reader to reflect on their own role in society’s badly behaving celebrities while calling on coaches and parents to step up their game to offer higher quality mentorship. For those with talent, it asks them to go beyond their fears, demand respect and learn how to survive being deified, vilified or crucified by the public. “We need talent now as much as our tribal ancestors did when they carved masks on the cave walls. It’s time to stop the murder of talent and start healing the wounds of our culture through the arts.” Lisa Loving Dalton, National Michael Chekhov Association Master Acting Teacher, Director, Filmmaker, John Maxwell Certified Speaker, Trainer, Coach, Athlete, Amazon #1 Best-Selling Author of Falling For The Stars: A Stunt Gal’s Tattle Tales, has shared her performing, leadership and teaching talents across the world. She has appeared in over 200 films, TV shows and commercials. An avid motorcyclist, golfer, diver.

Parents fear economic and social instability, and even attach homophobia to talent, refusing to support their children in non-math/science careers, forcing them away from what they love and into other fields where they suffer, fail and take a toll on society. Dalton reveals what it takes to survive humiliation in the classroom, harassment and jealousy from friends, self-doubt and parental disapproval. It is rare that any adult passes a single day without repeated exposure to entertainment. Dalton reminds us that since ancient times, storytellers have led the critical task of unifying and uplifting the culture. Yet learning how to uptake that noble task is at risk. Politically, the arts, while having scientifically demonstrated outstanding economic and health benefits, are being systemically eradicated from curricula.

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Murder Of Talent reveals the cost, the cause and a cure for the negative impact pop culture and its icons have on each other. It challenges the reader to reflect on their own role in society’s badly behaving celebrities while calling on coaches and parents to step up their game to offer higher quality mentorship. For those with talent, it asks them to go beyond their fears, demand respect and learn how to survive being deified, vilified or crucified by the public. “We need talent now as much as our tribal ancestors did when they carved masks on the cave walls. It’s time to stop the murder of talent and start healing the wounds of our culture through the arts.” Lisa Loving Dalton, National Michael Chekhov Association Master Acting Teacher, Director, Filmmaker, John Maxwell Certified Speaker, Trainer, Coach, Athlete, Amazon #1 Best-Selling Author of Falling For The Stars: A Stunt Gal’s Tattle Tales, has shared her performing, leadership and teaching talents across the world. She has appeared in over 200 films, TV shows and commercials. An avid motorcyclist, golfer, diver, she never lets her dyslexic klutziness and crippling stunt injury get in the way of sharing her love of talent, though if you eat a meal with her, she will wear a bib.

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TSM 17-10 Hiding in a Cave of Trunks: Internment in a WWII POW Camp with Ester Shifren

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Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Ester Benjamin Shifren, on air from March 7th


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Hiding in a Cave of Trunks: A Prominent Jewish Family’s Century in Shanghai and Internment in a WWII POW camp. Against an impressive historical background, China-born Ester Benjamin Shifren relates the saga of her family’s century-long existence in Shanghai, the city often referred to as “The Paris of the East,” and details the culture and tribulations of the colorful multi-ethnic population. In the early1840s a vessel brought the Benjamins from India to Shanghai, where they prospered for five generations. Some members of the family achieved high-level diplomatic positions. Owners of prize-winning horses, the family even conducted business at the race- track, sometimes on a handshake! World War II abruptly terminated their privileged lifestyle. In 1943, the Japanese interned the Benjamins for three years in a POW camp. Along with other internees, they endured great hardship and loss of all worldly possessions. In 1948, shortly before the Communist takeover, the Benjamins relocated to Hong Kong, where the ensuing Korean War embargo eventually caused their irreparable financial collapse. In 1951 the family immigrated to Israel. Ester served two years in the army, married a South African in 1957, and spent thirty-six years in South Africa. After spending five years in Canada Ester immigrated to the USA in 1997 and now lives in Los Angeles, California. Ester Benjamin Shifren is an author, artist, musician, and dynamic international speaker. In 2005, in England, she was featured in the BBC1 program “We’ll Meet Again,” and was a guest lecturer for several days at the Imperial War Museum.


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A POEM BY ESTER.

How life changed overnight, and more, of which I’ll speak.
So recently from China, with little to our name,
Depleted of well-being—the enemy had no shame!
First, Israel and tented, then moving to a hut,
So many people idle, most doors to work were shut.
New roofs of tin still missing, our ceilings were just wood,
A Heavy rain fell early—we did all that we could!
Pouring in it drenched us, some neighbors from a tent
Piled in—that day all old umbrellas were truly heaven sent!
Some songs we sang in English were mimicked, hardly fun…
We all spoke different languages in 1951!
The army came to help us, we needed tons of aid!
The government took note, and important changes made.
More or less a year went by, we got the tiniest place
On roof top of a building, the view its saving grace.
We bartered our possessions to pay the purchase price,
We traded fridge for icebox, and daily purchased ice
From vendor (horse and buggy!)—who shouted out his wares!
We heaved ice block, both up and down, more than one hundred stairs!
But we were young and healthy, and never said a word,
Just happy to have shelter, and freedom of a bird.
The next best thing to being like birds that at our level flew,
Was being at top of mountain with the most breathtaking view!
And soon we started working, in different styles and ways,
And started feeling better with how we spent our days.
And now I think I’ll end this piece of memoir that’s in rhyme,
And leave continuation for another day and time.

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C 17-10&11 Creating online Courses or group Programs with Petra Mayer

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Petra Mayer, on air from March 7th.

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We want our business to grow strong and with longevity, but what do we need in place in order to do that? If you’re a professional offering coaching, consulting or you’re services -based professional, which is the best way to serve your community and build your business?

Petra will be sharing her skills of 20 years with us on how to place these building blocks of growth that make’s your business stronger and more in demand. 

10430395_479027362243710_8973536613425155539_nWith more than 20 years of experience in the corporate world and her private practice, Petra Mayer is a business strategy coach based in beautiful Vancouver, British Columbia. Petra lends her expertise to coaches, consultants and service-based professionals who need help turning their vision into action, specifically to create a signature system of online courses and group programs. Through a systematic approach, Petra helps her clients gain clarity and overcome barriers in order to create an online presence that attracts their ideal clients and result in the freedom entrepreneurs seek in their business.

I believe that strategy is personal. One size doesn’t fit all—what will work for your business is as individual as your fingerprint. This is particularly true if you are an entrepreneur or a small business owner. When it comes to defining your online strategy, your full involvement is needed.

Let me guide you through the process—I will hold you by the hand every step of the way. The end result is a strategy that you will know like the back of your hand, with all the pieces in place for easy implementation. While my approach does follow a proven methodology, we will work together to build a plan tailored to your personal preferences and unique situation.


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This gift is a self-assessment where listeners can identify the areas to focus on if they want to start creating online courses or group programs. It also includes an invitation to request a 2-step clarity session with me.

The Big Leap Bootcamp is a 6-month mentorship program during which my clients take their Big Idea and turn it into an Online Course or Group Program. They follow my systematic approach and as a result transform their business. The program includes a lot of interactive components such as Online VIP days, Group Training calls and my Strategy Power Hour during which I answer all their questions. It comes also with a number of highly valuable bonuses.

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TSM 17-008 Supreme Love in Self with Jeanine Staples

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Jeanine Staples, on air from February 21st 

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Harvard Educated Professor and Coach Unleashes a Powerful Exploration of Black Women’s Terror In Love And Revolutions In Life

Terror and love don’t typically go together in the same sentence but for more and more women the pairing has become a harsh reality. This is especially true in a post 9/11 world colliding with the Trump Era. In our day and age acts of emotional, psychological, and physical violence play out publicly (in the mainstream media), and privately (in intimate partnerships). In light of this, Jeanine Staples asks: How does terror in love impact the way women show up in relationships and how women operate in the world? Can we feel safe, healed, and whole in an age where relational and social terrors against Black women’s bodies and souls are common culture?

In Jeanine Staples’ debut book, The Revelations of Asher: Toward Supreme Love in Self, these questions are explored. Her extensive research reveals women’s fragmented selves and the five ways women live as lovers: Main Chick, Side Chick, Bonnie, Bitch, and Victim. Her two-part, online quiz can easily help women uncover which lover identity they take on in relationships. Her subsequent work ( The supreme love project ) shows women a more conscious way of loving and living in the world.

This isn’t a lovey-dovey take on relationships or “self-help”. It is a raw look at how women heal from deep traumas using the tools of emotional literacy and emotional justice. Jeanine is on a mission to teach women how to turn toward supreme love in self, a concept that goes beyond the limits of self-love.

As an alternative-response to the five toxic lover identities, Jeanine presents a new way of loving and living. She introduces the Supreme Lover Identity and illuminates its integral connection to social and emotional justice for and through Black women’s wisdom.

Although Jeanine champions women of color, her work is far-reaching. She currently has thousands of women, from 11 different countries, in her online community (www.thesupremeloveproject.com). Each member is embracing supreme love in self…learning to love supremely so she can live supremely. The Supreme Love Project was born out of this international response from women all over the world craving the tools to take ownership of their lover identities, and consciously seeking greater emotional justice for their lives and communities. Jeanine’s book presents rich examples of this real-life process. The Revelations of Asher is narrated by one of the fragmented selves: Asher. Asher is the questioning protagonist. She inquires and asks the tough questions women feel plagued with – Who am I? How did I get here? Why is this happening? What’s going to happen? What’s wrong with me? Other fragmented selves in the book include: Rajah (the voice of divine wisdom and peace), Maven (the voice of maternal critique), Nason (the voice of approval-addiction), Kagan (the voice of sex, sexuality, and materiality), Laish (the voice of self-doubt and timidity), and Sash (the voice of rage).


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Author of “The Revelations of Asher: Toward Supreme Love in Self
Founder of the Supreme Love Project”
js-com_photo3Jeanine Staples is Associate Professor of Literacy and Language, African American Studies, and Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies at the Pennsylvania State University. She focuses on dismantling supremacist patriarchies through research, teaching, and coaching. As a sociocultural literacist, Dr. Staples works to understand personal and public voices and stories to solve personal and public problems. She does this by researching the evolutionary nature and function of literacies and texts through the discourses of narrative research. Her work exposes the roots and effects of racism, sexism, and ableism.

Dr. Staples earned her bachelor’s degree in English literature and Urban Education from Howard University, a Master’s degree in Teaching and Curriculum from Harvard University, and her Doctorate in Literacy and Language, with distinction, from the University of Pennsylvania. Her research has been peer-reviewed and published internationally. In addition, her teaching has been nationally acclaimed. She is a sought-after scholar, educator, and coach and has received numerous awards and honors for her talents and professional contributions to the field of literacy studies. She is a survivor of multiple terrors in love.

Jeanine can help our listeners identify their lover identity so they can take meaningful steps towards their supreme self.

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C17-07b Life Is Your Party…With A Little Pixie Dust says Sarah Vargo

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Sarah ‘Stargo’ Vargo, on air from February 14th 

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Life Is Your Party…With A Little Pixie Dust is a humorous, inspiring, light-hearted, enlightening comparison between the elements of party planning and spiritual awakening.  Author Sarah Vargo combines two journeys in her life – experiences as an event planner or “party girl” and her continual spiritual evolution leading to enlightenment. Join her as she begins to rejoice in her inner journey, not just in creating festivities in her outside world. A little pixie dust can lead to magic on the dance floor under the disco ball! Ride that rainbow and celebrate life every day….fashionably late but always right on time!

Join Sarah and Sara as they discuss the importance of joy and living life as a party. 


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14184375_10154473036057445_6561275469708478950_nAuthor Sarah ‘Stargo’ Vargo is a certified Reiki Master, Holistic Life Coach, Energy Alchemist and “Party Girl” who loves to ignite the inner star inside all of us so we shine a little brighter. Her work brings inspiration, cheer and sunshine to the world through the love, grace and beauty her clients find on the inside and outside. http://www.sarahstargo.com

Sarah’s current creation – Stargo – specializes in energy clearing and balancing, Self Love Reiki, Divine Path Reiki, Feng Shui, high-frequency energy-embedded art, and angelic intuitive healing and readings. Her professional background ranges from marketing, events, social media, charity work to energy and intuitive healings, readings and life coaching. Through the Stargo vision, Sarah is excited to be a personal life cheerleader and awaken the inner star for many through inspiration, laughter, motivation, leadership, coaching and love.

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