TSM 17-008 Supreme Love in Self with Jeanine Staples

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Jeanine Staples, on air from February 21st 

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Harvard Educated Professor and Coach Unleashes a Powerful Exploration of Black Women’s Terror In Love And Revolutions In Life

Terror and love don’t typically go together in the same sentence but for more and more women the pairing has become a harsh reality. This is especially true in a post 9/11 world colliding with the Trump Era. In our day and age acts of emotional, psychological, and physical violence play out publicly (in the mainstream media), and privately (in intimate partnerships). In light of this, Jeanine Staples asks: How does terror in love impact the way women show up in relationships and how women operate in the world? Can we feel safe, healed, and whole in an age where relational and social terrors against Black women’s bodies and souls are common culture?

In Jeanine Staples’ debut book, The Revelations of Asher: Toward Supreme Love in Self, these questions are explored. Her extensive research reveals women’s fragmented selves and the five ways women live as lovers: Main Chick, Side Chick, Bonnie, Bitch, and Victim. Her two-part, online quiz can easily help women uncover which lover identity they take on in relationships. Her subsequent work ( The supreme love project ) shows women a more conscious way of loving and living in the world.

This isn’t a lovey-dovey take on relationships or “self-help”. It is a raw look at how women heal from deep traumas using the tools of emotional literacy and emotional justice. Jeanine is on a mission to teach women how to turn toward supreme love in self, a concept that goes beyond the limits of self-love.

As an alternative-response to the five toxic lover identities, Jeanine presents a new way of loving and living. She introduces the Supreme Lover Identity and illuminates its integral connection to social and emotional justice for and through Black women’s wisdom.

Although Jeanine champions women of color, her work is far-reaching. She currently has thousands of women, from 11 different countries, in her online community (www.thesupremeloveproject.com). Each member is embracing supreme love in self…learning to love supremely so she can live supremely. The Supreme Love Project was born out of this international response from women all over the world craving the tools to take ownership of their lover identities, and consciously seeking greater emotional justice for their lives and communities. Jeanine’s book presents rich examples of this real-life process. The Revelations of Asher is narrated by one of the fragmented selves: Asher. Asher is the questioning protagonist. She inquires and asks the tough questions women feel plagued with – Who am I? How did I get here? Why is this happening? What’s going to happen? What’s wrong with me? Other fragmented selves in the book include: Rajah (the voice of divine wisdom and peace), Maven (the voice of maternal critique), Nason (the voice of approval-addiction), Kagan (the voice of sex, sexuality, and materiality), Laish (the voice of self-doubt and timidity), and Sash (the voice of rage).


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Author of “The Revelations of Asher: Toward Supreme Love in Self
Founder of the Supreme Love Project”
js-com_photo3Jeanine Staples is Associate Professor of Literacy and Language, African American Studies, and Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies at the Pennsylvania State University. She focuses on dismantling supremacist patriarchies through research, teaching, and coaching. As a sociocultural literacist, Dr. Staples works to understand personal and public voices and stories to solve personal and public problems. She does this by researching the evolutionary nature and function of literacies and texts through the discourses of narrative research. Her work exposes the roots and effects of racism, sexism, and ableism.

Dr. Staples earned her bachelor’s degree in English literature and Urban Education from Howard University, a Master’s degree in Teaching and Curriculum from Harvard University, and her Doctorate in Literacy and Language, with distinction, from the University of Pennsylvania. Her research has been peer-reviewed and published internationally. In addition, her teaching has been nationally acclaimed. She is a sought-after scholar, educator, and coach and has received numerous awards and honors for her talents and professional contributions to the field of literacy studies. She is a survivor of multiple terrors in love.

Jeanine can help our listeners identify their lover identity so they can take meaningful steps towards their supreme self.

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C17-07b Life Is Your Party…With A Little Pixie Dust says Sarah Vargo

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Sarah ‘Stargo’ Vargo, on air from February 14th 

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Life Is Your Party…With A Little Pixie Dust is a humorous, inspiring, light-hearted, enlightening comparison between the elements of party planning and spiritual awakening.  Author Sarah Vargo combines two journeys in her life – experiences as an event planner or “party girl” and her continual spiritual evolution leading to enlightenment. Join her as she begins to rejoice in her inner journey, not just in creating festivities in her outside world. A little pixie dust can lead to magic on the dance floor under the disco ball! Ride that rainbow and celebrate life every day….fashionably late but always right on time!

Join Sarah and Sara as they discuss the importance of joy and living life as a party. 


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LIFE CHEERLEADER.   CONNECTOR.   GIVER.   ENERGY ALCHEMIST.  ARTIST.  WRITER. DREAMER.   BELIEVER.

14184375_10154473036057445_6561275469708478950_nAuthor Sarah ‘Stargo’ Vargo is a certified Reiki Master, Holistic Life Coach, Energy Alchemist and “Party Girl” who loves to ignite the inner star inside all of us so we shine a little brighter. Her work brings inspiration, cheer and sunshine to the world through the love, grace and beauty her clients find on the inside and outside. http://www.sarahstargo.com

Sarah’s current creation – Stargo – specializes in energy clearing and balancing, Self Love Reiki, Divine Path Reiki, Feng Shui, high-frequency energy-embedded art, and angelic intuitive healing and readings. Her professional background ranges from marketing, events, social media, charity work to energy and intuitive healings, readings and life coaching. Through the Stargo vision, Sarah is excited to be a personal life cheerleader and awaken the inner star for many through inspiration, laughter, motivation, leadership, coaching and love.

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C 17-6b The Profit Of Kindness: with Jill Lublin.

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Jill Lublin, on air from February 7th 

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The Profit Of Kindness: How to Influence Others, Establish Trust, and Build Lasting Business Relationships
By Jill Lublin
 
In A Nation Polarized By Violence, Hatred, and Malicious Behavior,
The Need For Kindness Is Greater Than Ever Before
3-Time Bestselling Author, Jill Lublin, Shows How Kindness Pays the Greatest Dividends  
In light of the recent election, our country has become entirely polarized. Whether in the political arena, a business environment, or within one’s church or circle of friends or family, the need for kindness has never been greater. If we are to heal this divide in our nation, and in our homes and communities, the need for kindness is essential.
 
Bestselling author Jill Lublin’s newest book could not be timelier!  The Profit Of Kindness: How to Influence Others, Establish Trust, and Build Lasting Business Relationships makes the case that acting out of kindness is not just an act of goodness, but it pays dividends on the bottomline. As anger and demand has become the order of the day, this powerful reflection reminds us that Kindness is a Currency that actually fuels success. 
 
When kindness becomes the primary goal in one’s life, business, community, or family, everything changes — how we look at life, what we get from it, and how others act towards us and relate to us.
 
The Profit Of Kindness will help your audience master the art of building trusting, long-lasting relationships through open, non-adversarial interchanges that result in mutually beneficial outcomes.
 
Lublin offers these four key points:
1.  Kindness does not mean weakness
2.  Kindness can help you stay competitive
3.  Kindness leads to positive expectations and better outcomes
4.  Success, achieved through kindness, makes for a happier nation
 
We have the power to transform our lives, our businesses, and our community. What is desperately needed at this time is a global “Attitudinal Adjustment” in which we, as individuals, business owners, and leaders, commit to implementing kindness strategies into our lives, businesses, and everyday affairs in order to facilitate a return to societal balance — as well as to increase our individual success.
 
Your audience will learn about:
  • The Power of Giving First
  • How to Communicate in Kind and Productive Ways
  • Exactly What Integrity Is and How to Maintain It
  • What Teamwork Looks Like When It’s Fueled by Kindness
  • How One’s Sphere of Influence Can Expand Greatly When Kindness is Practiced.

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Jill Lublin is an international speaker on the topics of Success through Kindness, Radical Influence, Publicity, Networking, and Referrals. Her 3 national bestsellers include: Get Noticed…Get Referrals (McGraw Hill); and the co-authored books, Guerrilla Publicity and Networking Magic. Jill is a master publicity strategist who has worked with over 100,000 business owners, authors, and other professionals to help them position their businesses, services and products for more profitability and more visibility. She is the CEO of a strategic consulting firm with more than 20 years of experience and she is well-known by ABC, NBC and every conceivable major media outlet nationally, as well as many internationally. In addition to her private consultations for executives, business owners, and authors, Jill teaches Publicity Crash Courses and Masterminds as both live events and live webinars. www.jilllublin.com
Imagine a world in which you interact with new clients or potential business partners, and you choose to focus more on extending kindness through acts of giving and working with others, rather than by focusing simply on “winning.” What might happen?
It is Jill Lublin’s experience that when “What can I give?” exceeds the desire for “What can I get?” that one’s success increases exponentially.  Says Jill: “A LACK OF KINDNESS DIVIDED A NATION… LET’S GET AMERICA BACK ON TRACK!”
To book Jill Lublin on your show so she can share her vital message of The Profit Of Kindness, please send an email with the name of the show, your contact information, a proposed date and time, and the calling details.

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PVR 17-05 Sir Ken Miller & Bobby Henline speak Healing Humor

Positive Vibrations Roundtable with Sara Troy and her guests Sir Ken Miller & BoBby Henline, on air from January 31st.

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Two totally different people with different lives, but both of them know that laughter has saved their lives. We speak to how humor can not only heal but makes it easy for others to understand the challenging journey your on in life. 

With Ken battling cancer again striving to find humor in it and Booby facing more operations for his burns, humor is the only way they get through it.

Sir Ken Miller was born very young in Brooklyn, New York on a September Labor Day at 7:11a.m. His mother was there, and his father was working in Buffalo as an entertainer. He learned at an early age to be somewhat independent. He entered the world crying after the doctor slapped his tush. His mother told him a joke. He stopped crying and started laughing.

book-coverWhile creating a ‘model’ for the ‘resort city of the future’ on assignment for a major insurance company, his firm predicted the growth of green development and the need for wellness through preventive medicine. These discoveries were a determining factor in his mission to bring better health to people worldwide and was in part, the inspiration to write Enter Crying, Exit Laughing©. His personal health challenges provided the experience and a funny collection of stories depicting his time in hospitals, clinics and ambulances.

Working with the United Nations he founded the National Committee for Habitat to help families worldwide obtain affordable and sustainable housing. In July 2001 His Majesty, Sheikh Anwar Mahmoud Mekkeen, King of Nubia and its Provinces knighted Miller for his humanitarian work. Hello Sir Ken. Miller lectures worldwide on the subject of marketing at universities, trade conferences, and for corporations. He has been interviewed on radio and television, authored several articles on marketing and co-authored Social Media Superstars.

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As a 4-tour Iraqi War Veteran, Wounded Warrior, Comedian, and Motivational presenter, Bobby Henline’s story and lived experiences have been featured in numerous media, including the documentaries “Comedy Warriors: Healing Through Humor”, “Healing Bobby”, and “Weight of Honor”; on CNN, PBS KET, NPR, Today.com, and Time.com; Time Magazine, People Magazine, The Huffington Post, Guideposts, and The Nipawin Journal; as well as television, radio, and podcasts around the world. Henline is a retired Army Staff Sergeant, last serving with the 82nd Airborne Division. He spent 13 years in the Army, completing four tours in Iraq. While on his fourth tour in Iraq, three weeks after his arrival, an IED blast blew up his Humvee – April 7, 2007 is a day he will never forget. The four soldiers with him were killed, as he stumbled out of the wreck, a human torch. Extinguished by the soldier he had replaced in the Humvee, burns covered almost 40% of his body, bones in his face were fractured, and his head was burned to the skull. Put into a medically induced coma for two weeks, Henline was flown back to the states.

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ECO 17-05 Global Warming Awareness & Solutions with Craig Hover

ECO Solutions with Sara Troy and her guest Craig Hover, on air from January 31st 

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Can we keep turning a blind eye to global warming? The facts are abundant and if we want a future here we must do our part, however, small, tune in and here what you can do to save this planet that sustains us so well. 

Craig was a SKEPTIC

A 2oC temperature rise is going to be “catastrophic?”

  • Problem seems counterintuitive
  • Temperatures can vary 40 to 60oF (22 to 33oC) in any given day
  • What’s another couple of degrees?
  • At first blush it seems not credible that such a small variation can have such a large effect
  • Some people may want to “bury head in sand” (the problem, if true, is so scary don’t want to look at).
  • Some don’t want to “sacrifice” their lifestyle to “save the planet,” particularly if it’s perceived that that “sacrifice” is part of someone else’s “agenda” (e.g., battery-electric cars). (With my proposed solution sacrificing lifestyle isn’t necessary.)

CLIMATE

“Climate Change”

  • The term is a milquetoast, politically-correct, overworked cliché
  • The climate is changing all the time
  • This cliché equivocates about what’s really happening
  • The term global warming is much more accurate
  • There are 14 climate drivers; effects are from days to 100s of millions of years
  • There’s only one that can produce the kinds of changes in the time frame we’re seeing
  • The greenhouse effect; need the greenhouse effect; too much CO2 in the air; trapping more heat on the surface than can escape back into space; every 3 weeks the thermal energy accumulation on the surface is equivalent to annual global energy production
  • Blew through the safe upper limit of 350 ppm in 1988; now at 408 ppm and rising fast.

POLITICAL

Concern about global warming perceived/perpetrated as a “liberal vs. conservative” construct

  • Global warming is NOT a political issue – though it has been politicized.
  • Frank Luntz in 2003; created the illusion there is no scientific consensus
  • 97 to 99% of scientific community agree; it’s scientific fact – like gravity; the “uncertainty” comes from scientist types always wanting to give themselves some “wiggle room,” just in case there is some unknown data “out there.”
  • The unthinking, knee-jerk reaction is that if you are concerned about global warming you’re automatically assumed to be a Democrat; if you’re a Republican, it’s automatically assumed that you’re not concerned.
  • Kept politics out of the book on purpose – would immediately alienate 50% of the potential audience regardless of what my personal political viewpoints are; it’s just physics.
  • Reality: Climate Resolve; 3 out of 8 attendees Republican; recent poll – 90% Dem & 74% Reply favor climate-related measures (that’s over 80% of population)
  • Problem is state- and federal-level party posturing (the warring teams)
  • Despite grandiose noises by politicians, big business, and the COP21 Accord – ALL proposed measures to date are much too little way too late.
  • Entrenched power structure doesn’t want to fix global warming (i.e., abandon fossil fuels) – results in loss of control over people (this is the real issue)

IMMEDIATE

Media persistently alludes to solving global warming “someday,” like we have generations to solve this problem [they use words like gradually, ultimately, and eventually]

  • Global warming is real, imminent, and severe – far more so than is being portrayed in the mainstream media.
  • Don’t have generations to fix this.
  • Need to achieve 80 to 90% CO2 emission reductions globally in next 5 years – 10 years tops.
  • Must mount an all-out WWII-style war on global warming in the next few years if we are to have any hope of surviving as a global civilization.
  • We are fast approaching a Point of No Return – which will be induced by an ice-free Arctic; ice-free Arctic will be created by the 2oC temperature rise
  • Passing this Point of No Return will unleash an irreversible, methane-driven, runaway global warming phenomenon; it’s not the 2oC that will wreck the planet, it’s what gets unleashed that will wreck the planet.
  • By the next century, much of the planet will experience summertime peak temperatures of 125 to 157oF (52 to 70oC)
  • Our children and grandchildren all dead; 90% of the population will perish; end of civilization as we know it.

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FIXING IT

Well-regarded business leaders assert we need an “energy miracle” to “tackle” global warming

  • This is flat-out false and is extremely damaging; it is almost criminal to make such statements
  • The truth is that we have ALL the technology needed to end global warming right now. All we need to do is implement it.
  • In my Perpetual Abundance Engine model, ALL our power for our entire global civilization can be provided by the three natural forces of sunlight (solar), air moving across the planet’s surface (wind), and gravity (hydro). These forces are inexhaustible, unlimited in supply, and are free for use by anyone.
  • We can create as much electricity, water, and fuel (motive and heating) as we wish for any purpose we wish
  • We can live an abundant, free-flowing life without damaging the planet
  • No scrimping, shrinking, or living small will be needed
  • Our energy sources (solar, wind, hydro) and water sources (desalination) are already “handled”
  • Energy storage and conveyances are the challenges
  • Forget batteries for energy storage ($47 trillion per day) and battery-electric cars (unsolvable limitations in range, recharge rate, and scale, among others)
  • Energy storage – CAES
  • Replacing the ICEV – FCEVs
  • WWII-scale level of effort
  • Large-scale deployment; unprecedented 6 to 12% annual economic growth rate for an entire generation

WHAT TO DO?

One of the standard mantras is to “Reduce our carbon footprint”

  • While well-meaning, this intimates shrinking and trying to live in a smaller and smaller box.
  • I know 3 people (out of 100s) who have almost “eliminated” their “carbon footprint” (so they say). What about the energy needed for creating their houses, clothes, furniture, cars, electronic devices, food, etc, etc, etc?
  • Reality: most people won’t do that. Don’t try to make fixing global warming dependent on these – it won’t work, by a long shot.
  • Reality: we can’t “shrink” small enough to fix the global warming problem
  • We need to rethink what we’re doing from the ground, up.
  • Individual actions (Chapter 40) are useful – help to retrain our outlook and thinking
  • Non-typical individual actions; Ex., unplug from your devices, think, read a book – one printed on paper, buy quality over quantity, open a credit union account, buy locally, feel good, pay attention, laugh, etc, etc.
  • Collective actions; 10%; critical mass; entrenched power structure has an Achilles’ Heel
  • Activist groups
  • Our emotional state is critical; from powerlessness to empowerment
  • Raise thinking – most important part; Einstein
  • At least 83 different topics in the book to get us to think; break out of our non-thinking media-induced trance
  • Action at local level (examples); women’s suffrage movement
  • “Vibrate” at a high level; think in terms of a positive outcome

BOOK

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What makes this book different from others?

  • I’ve had more than one reader tell me this was the one book on global warming they’d always been looking for, but thought they would never find.
  • Half the book is about the global warming problem and the technology that can fix it. The other half of the book is about the human element – how we think (or don’t think, as the case may be), feel, and relate to others. This is the most important part and is what makes this book different from other books on global warming.
  • People don’t think they can understand the global warming problem – it’s too scientific and complicated; not true
  • Scientific community keeps throwing more facts and data at people author-craig-hovertrying to “get through” to them
  • It’s not about the facts; we’re drowning in facts
  • Scientists are lousy salespeople – that’s because they don’t understand that most people don’t make decisions based solely on facts; they make decisions based on their emotions, and then select facts to justify those decisions
  • My book is written for the general public in terms that are easy to understand
  • I reduce the entire global warming problem down to basic fundamentals – Ex., a pot of ice on the stove
  • I paint the picture of what “catastrophic” really looks like (the disaster movie)
  • I then show how we can actually fix it – if we get busy
  • Most important – how we think
  • Global warming is actually our greatest opportunity; if we can learn to cooperate to fix this thing – open a whole new era for mankind.

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