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TSM 18-06 Surrender Doesn’t Mean To Give Up

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Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Bill Maquis, on air from February 6thSurrender doesn't mean to give up....

People get the wrong idea of what surrendering means, it is not about giving up, it is more about surrendering to the NOW and what is, it is patience. As we age we find that we have to surrender a lot more to our presence like our health, our limitations, our situations. This does not mean we are powerless, but rather we have power in other ways. Our power is not always in the body or just in the mind, it is within our very souls, hearts, spirits and knowingness, and when we choose to empower what we can do with what aids us, then we discover the ability to be more and do more in our ageing lives.

We are constantly given paths in life that we happily walk down, only to learn it is just leading to another path. We can not force things we cannot dictate, we have to surrender to the moment and follow the wind, for that will guide us to where we need to be in our NOW.

Just because we are older that does not mean we can not adapt to technologies that can make our lives better. With our technological advances abundantly around us, we can overcome certain obstacles and still lead a productive quality life.

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Bill Macquis

Bill Macquis: founder of the science called “mindology”, discoverer of the “Q-factors” , inventor of “Quantum Values Chromotography” and conceptualist of the “my nuances” family of web and mobile apps.

Field of expertise: Behavioral Science and Technology

Specialization: mindology – master tool designer

“Quinesence: the journey taken in discovering, embracing and actualizing SELF. The SOUL Enabled LIFE Force that guides one in how to live LIFE with greater purpose, meaning and integrity through serving the betterment of humanity. The SOUL is the Source Of Universal LOVE that when freely shared, creates Limitless Opportunities Virtually Everywhere for us to unite in working together to peacefully transform the world around us into one where everyone can live LIFE with Liberty, Independence, Freedom and Equality.”

This is one of many profound statements you will encounter Bill Macquis make during conversations with him. Profound in that Bill does not consider himself to be a religious or spiritual person. His belief is that god is deeply embedded into the very genetic code we are made from which he calls the SELF. The “Soul Enabled Life Force” that guides one in how to live LIFE with greater purpose, meaning and integrity through serving the betterment of humanity.

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About “quinesence”

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“Quinesence” is a finely crafted collage of art, music and words that shares the journey of Bill Macquis’ life and the lessons he learned along his journey to discovering, embracing and actualizing SELF.

“Quinesence” is also the story of a boy who was born with a special gift of learning how to live with and overcome challenges that would leave many of us believing that only a miracle could conquer. The lessons he learned from these experiences became the core values and principles that form the embodiment of SELF that enable him to live life with greater purpose, meaning and dignity.

This book is best enjoyed with a bottle of fine wine along with a plate of imported cheese and crackers in a candlelit room with a comfy sofa or chair to curl up in. Next, plug your headphones into your computer, turn up the volume, open the book and begin playing the music playlist on the Tribute page. The just sit back, relax and let your mind discover the true purpose and meaning of images and words on the page, as the music tells Bill’s story. When the song changes, advance to the next page in the book. The incredible hour-long journey you are about to be taken will ignite your creative free thinking and original thought processes that in turn manifest into becoming the driving LIFE force that guides you along your journey in discovering, embracing and actualizing the potentiality of your “SELF”

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Sara Troy

Sara Troy founder, director and host

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Sara discovered her special gift in early childhood. That special gift was her ability to be a spiritual guild and councillor in helping people to discover their true purpose and meaning in life. In 2012 she was presented with an opportunity to host her own on-line BlogTalk radio show where she discovered yet another calling in life that she became compelled to pursue. Sharing the inspiring stories and wisdom of others so that those stories might inspire others to believe that anything in life is possible. In 2013 with the encouragement and support of a close friend ( Bill ) she decided to build her own platform from which she could spread her reach, this endeavour over time has evolved and grown into becoming Self Discovery Radio. A platform that has now amassed more than 1900 insightful, informational and inspirational shows for you to enjoy.

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18-05 Living in My Own Expectation

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Sara Troy on Sara’s View of Life, on air from January 30th. 

One has to step outside of one’s life and look at it from the outside in, to find out why one is so lost. For the last thirty-seven and a half years, I have been trying to live up to everybody else’s expectations. I came to Canada a free spirit in Discovery of a new life and I met my husband here. I was a free spirit which he loved for a time, but I could not live up to his expectations what he wanted from me, what he needed from me wasn’t enough to feed him,   he fell in love with me for one thing and then that wasn’t enough, so it came to an end when I no longer could live with a disappointment of us destroying each other.

My children each seek something different from me, I wasn’t the apple pie Mom but I was the Mom you brought home when someone who was lost in a conflict or in trouble. I was a home of afternoon teas, I was a home of a sanctuary. I was a mother who would pick my kids up, even in the middle of the night, even their friends,  I was there to help them when they were in trouble I was there when they fell and helped them get back up, but yet still there were these needs enough, what about the ones  I did not fill, the things that I let them down on,  expectations I could not complete?

After my marriage came to an end I had a short time of rediscovery, then I met someone else and for a while/ Our Soul passion was very high then our soul’s intellectual passion took over and that was the end of the relationship, yet again could not fulfil what he desired.

I found my self with my radio interviewing, my calling, my voice, but yet again it is serving others, which I love and committed to, but not serving me with life’s needs and expectations, like security and sanctuary.

I needed to find my Joy for I was not in the enjoyment of life.
Feeling crushed underneath the weight of everyone’s disappointment of everyone’s unfulfilled expectations of me, I needed to leave the city. I needed to find myself in a place when no expectations were placed on me. This is what brought me to Toronto, I had the most wonderful time with my daughter who having been gone for so long it was wonderful to reconnect with her and rediscover each other. Because she was gone for so long, she saw me through different eyes, and I began to see me differently too. Unfortunately for me, she went to New Zealand for a few months, and that all came to an end, for after she was gone it was once again along with myself.
I realized the only expectations that I needed to have were those of my own, it wasn’t about my work or fulfilling everyone else’s need, it wasn’t about my family needs, it wasn’t about my friends or colleges needing something different from me,  it was what do I need from me to fulfil me? What are my expectations for me? What are my desire for me, and who am I really from the inside out?
So stepping outside of one’s life and looking in, shows us things so much more clearly, I cannot be what everyone wants me to be, I can only be who I am and I need to be someone I want to be with. I am enough, I do enough,  I contribute enough, and I have given enough and if it is not enough for everyone else that is their issue, not mine.
Step outside of your life and look in for it is a very good lesson for one’s self-discovery. I see what I need, what I need to do, who I need to be, who I need to serve, and that at this present moment it is me. For when I am fortitude, living in self-fulfilment, then I will be more able to serve my community without sacrificing me.
So now onto Victoria BC, close enough to my loved ones and friends, but far enough away to have my own independence. I will dedicate the next few months to writing my book and also be taking time to embrace me. I will still be interviewing and updating the site as I go, but not at my health or spirits cost.
I look forward to knowing me in this new arena, Toronto was a great awakener, but too cold and was only there to show me the real me. Now a warmer and smaller arena I look forward to getting to know me more.

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C 17-51 The Ball of Human Kindness with Gabriella van Rij

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Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest  Gabriella van Rij, on air from December 19th on. 

KINDNESS EXPERT, GABRIELLA VAN RIJ, DISCUSSES THE BALL OF HUMAN KINDNESS® CAMPAIGN

The ball of Human Kindness® movement began during November 2013 in Tulare, CA and has since made its way across the nation, making news wherever it goes. “The ball represents a child or adult someone that does not know how to fit in or someone that feels it cannot belong; to a group, family or even your spouse or partner,” says Gabriella van Rij [pronounced “Ray”], widely acclaimed kindness expert. “As a society, we have dropped the ball of Human Kindness®. Will you help me pick it up?”

A tireless speaker and consultant to students and school faculty, Gabriella has travelled across North America, speaking at school assemblies, corporations, and community halls, providing a practical approach for ending bullying and creating safer communities through her 4-step kindness program. “One moment, one person, one kindness—is all it takes to help someone go from a negative space to a positive place, BE the difference!

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GABRIELLA VAN RIJ [pronounced “Ray”] began her life as an orphan in Pakistan and without the determination and kindness of two strangers, she would not have been adopted into her new family. Today, Gabriella relentlessly champions the Kindness movement and tackles the social issues that plague our society. With a brave and compassionate voice, she speaks at businesses, universities, corporate training events, school assemblies, community centres, places of worship, and on network shows. Her uplifting talks to motivate, challenge, and provide the groundwork for lasting progress. She is an acclaimed author of three books. With All My Might is her mesmerizing memoir of one of the first cross-cultural adoptions. I Can Find My Might is part self-help, a part practical resource for students, parents, and educators. Gabriella’s personal experience creates a boots-on-the-ground approach to bullying and self-acceptance that is nothing short of magical. Watch Your Delivery is Gabriella’s third and latest book, based on one of her popular presentations of the same name. Gabriella’s #DareToBeKind campaign brings her bullying prevention program to schools, communities, and corporations across the US. Gabriella has been seen by millions on Dr. Phil, ABC, CBS, NBC, and FOX. She also writes for the Huffington Post and the NY Daily News. In 2017, Gabriella van Rij was elected as Secretary General of the World Kindness Movement.

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C17-39a Mending a Broken Heart with Dr Parti

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Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Dr Raj Parti, on air from September 26th 

No one has come to understand how to heal a broken heart qui like Dr Rajiv Parti has. A renowned heart anesthesiologist, Dr Parti used to put people to sleep to mend their damaged hearts. It took an electrifying Near Death Experience (NDE) and the near death of his marriage to waken him to the truth of a truly healthy heart.

Before his NDE, Dr Parti was a strict and unforgiving man driven by money, materialism, and social standing who expected subservience and obedience from his wife and children. After having been guided through several levels of consciousness during his NDE, however, Dr Parti awoke a changed man, which he described in his best-selling book Dying to Wake Up  He left his medical practice, sold his mansion and expensive cars, made amends with his father and son, and began to help others find health and wellbeing through forgiveness, service, and love.

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All was not well at home, however. Dr Parti’s wife announced that she no longer loved him. She tore his heart apart. Thrown into what the medical community recognizes as “Broken Heart Syndrome,” Dr Parti fell into despair, anger, and disbelief. Months of mutual betrayal and heartbreak followed before the couple met to sign divorce papers.  At the very last minute, as they sat across from one another in the lawyer’s office and realized that their 30th anniversary was just six weeks away, they decided to hold off until their anniversary to try to work things out.

The trauma of the “near death” of his marriage prompted Dr Parti to apply the Consciousness-Based Healing lessons he had learned in his NDE to heal his heart, his wife’s heart, and his marriage. Nine months later, he and his wife are like honeymooners- in love, inseparable, and bound by more mutual respect, care, and forgiveness than ever before.

Dr Parti’s deepest pain has become his greatest joy. He is now called to help others heal their wounds from heartbreak and find love again.

“The Consciousness-Based Healing I learned on the other side transformed my life and gave me new purpose—to help the heartbroken heal and return to love again.”

DR RAJIV PARTI is a world-renowned heart anesthesiologist and was chief of anesthesiology at Bakersfield Heart Hospital for more than a decade before having his life-changing near-death experience. Trained in western medicine, Dr. Parti is also a student of eastern medicine, which has led him to formulate an integrative approach to total wellness.

He is a certified co-active coach from the Coaches Training Institute, A Mars Venus coach trained by Dr John Gray, a certified ayurvedic practitioner, a certified high-performance coach, grief recovery coach with training in trauma work, and a certified meditation instructor from the Chopra University.

Dr Parti tours the country extensively, holding workshops to demonstrate methods of healing heartbreak. He is the author of the best-selling book Dying to Wake Up: A Doctor’s Voyage into the Afterlife and the Wisdom He Brought Back (Atria Books, 2016), has appeared nationwide on television, radio and in print, and has been featured in the international press in the UK and India. Watch Dr Parti on Fox & Friends and KDVR-FOX in Denver.

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C 17-38 David Essel on Inner Honesty Setting us FREE

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Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest David Essel, on air September 19th 

Everyone talks about how they’re such an honest person. How they wish everyone else would be as honest as they are. But for most of us, it’s a total illusion. Most people in America are petrified of living an honest life, regardless of what they might try to tell themselves on a daily basis

This might seem startling to many. Maybe even you.

We’ve been told since were a little kid that honesty is the best policy. Abe Lincoln is immortalized in a story about being honest.

But it doesn’t matter what your parents said, doesn’t matter what Abe Lincoln did, because most of us are so petrified of being honest that we would rather tell white lies, be passive aggressive in nature, then risk being honest with those around us.

510njmsnyil-_sx331_bo1204203200_Number one bestselling author, life coach, counsellor and Radio host David Essel has seen firsthand the damaging effects of people who are afraid, to be honest in life with their partners, kids, friends, coworkers and parents.

The fear of honesty can be wrapped up in a word called co-dependency. Into thousand two, David called co-dependency “the largest Addiction in the world today.”

So before you read any further, are you an honest person? On a scale of 1 to 10, would you claim that you’re 100% honest 100% of the time? Or only 10% of the time?

Here’s what David Essel believes are the four biggest blocks to living an honest life. David has been called “the new leader in the positive thinking movement” by celebrity Jenny McCarthy, for good reasons. He’s honest.

” most of us are raised to be honest. At least that’s what our parents, society and teachers tell us. Always be honest. But what percentage of our society actually lives an honest life?

I can tell you from my own experience that rarely was I honest growing up, in college, and even in the beginning of my professional career with most people.

And there are reasons for that. It’s not that we are dishonest because were bad people, but because we’re afraid of the ramifications of what it would look like to lead an honest life.

Below are my four top key reasons why most of us are currently not honest, and unless we really get on the ball, will not be honest for the rest of our lives. It’s sad. But true.

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Number one. Fear of being rejected by family, friends, partners co-workers and more. Most of us aren’t honest because we’re afraid that people are going to reject us. They’re gonna tell us that was stupid. Whatever we’re talking about, whatever side of the fence we’re taking, in conversations,  most of us would rather avoid being honest so that we couldn’t be rejected.

Number two. Our fear of being embarrassed. If we stand for a cause and talk openly and honestly about how we feel about a social situation, economic situation, Addiction situation, educational situation, we’re afraid that if we speak our mind honestly we might be embarrassed to find out that we could be wrong. Or we might embarrass ourselves by not knowing as much as we might think we do about a certain topic. So instead of risking embarrassment, we will go along and agree with whoever we’re talking to in a certain circumstance.

Number three. Our fear of being ridiculed. Being ridiculed is a little different than being rejected. Being ridiculed means that we could be made fun of if we’re honest. If 20 years ago you were a Chicago Cubs fan, you may not openly admit it to people because the Cubs had struggled for so long. And if you were honest with them, you’re afraid that you might be ridiculed for liking a team that had been one of the biggest losers in sports franchise history.

Number four. The fear of abandonment. The greatest fear that most humans have is that if they were honest with people they would be abandoned. This is one of the reasons why so many gay people stay in the closet, or transgender’s, or bi sexual’s…… Because they’re afraid of being abandoned by their friends, partners, family, co-workers and society in general. The fear of abandonment is absolutely one of the greatest fears in the world, and it’s one of the reasons why we choose not to be honest in life.

If you look at the above statements… You can evaluate your own life. I was one of those people for years that didn’t want to rock the boat, didn’t want to have people upset with me, didn’t want to have people reject me, embarrassed me, ridicule me and God for bid someone might leave my life because of my opinions.

11999082_1076683125699244_5259454418228206069_nThe paragraph above is a definition of codependency. I was highly co-dependent in my world. It wasn’t until 1997, when I worked for 52 straight weeks with a counsellor, that I found the depth of my codependency.

I’d also found that I wasn’t honest in my relationships. If I wasn’t happy with a woman I was dating, I might bring it up once or twice, but if I didn’t get the end result I wanted, in other words, if she didn’t agree with my position, I would slowly back out. I would disappear into my addictions. Or have an affair. Or work longer hours. Anything to avoid having to face the consequences of a disagreement.

Our fear of being honest is a fear of rocking the boat, so we are dishonest, or omit our true feelings, or hide behind someone else’s feelings, or use passive aggressive behaviour instead of facing the facts and being honest. Independent.

Currently, of the thousands of people, I have worked with in the last 27 years as a counsellor and a life coach from all over the world, 50% of my clients are battling codependency. They are afraid of living an honest life. And they’re shocked to find when we start working together, that there in the majority, and their main addiction is that of co-dependency.

The great news is with the help of a fantastic counsellor, minister, priest, life coach or other types of professional you can shatter your need to be liked and accepted by everyone, and risk being yourself. A powerful, independent person living in this world.

If you need help on how to do this, contact me directly. I know the way, I once was in that place of dishonesty, and the freedom that not only myself but thousands of clients have found in leading an honest life is amazing. It’s not always easy by any means. But it simply amazing.”

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