18-10 Eternal Optimism but running out of Enthusiasm?

March 2, 2018March 31, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast 2 Comments

Sara Troy on Sara’s View of Life, on air from March 6th

Sometimes those dark thoughts come creeping in, they take away your enthusiasm for your optimism. How do we stop that from happening?

I am the eternal optimist, always believing that somehow it will work out, that I am meant to go this way, meant to take this journey. Then something happens and you are challenged once again, and you wonder about it all. I am very enthusiastic about what I do, what vision I see for the future, what possibilities lay before me, and I take action to put them in the process, then it is STOP, not now.

That is when you get the hurry up and wait, what wait why? everything feels right, the vision is clear the action is needed now, so why the wait? Well, you can not argue with the universe, and you have to surrender to patience once again. BUT, it is a damper on the enthusiasm.

I am optimistic that my vision will find its action, in time, and I will always find my enthusiasm for it is my divine presence, even though it drops off sometimes on those dark days for a moment or two.

So how we choose to see the world is our choice, even when things are shity, think manure for that is the soil of growth. I know at times it can be challenging, the always up to only be brought down, but maybe those down times are preparing us for what wonders are to come.

So don’t get gloomy, I know it is hard at times, dark at times, even scary, do not forget that freedom starts in the mind with a willingness to connect with our heart and souls.

I face this daily, yet I choose even though the clouds to see the clear blue sky. Sometimes I have to see it in my mind before I truly see it in my heart, but when you do, you know, this darkness will pass and optimism and enthusiasm will prevail.

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TSM18-10 Recovering from Narcissist Abuse PRT 3

March 2, 2018November 17, 2023Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guests Anouska and Sarah Squires, on air from March 13th

In our first show in this series, we covered the Narcissist in a relationship, our second on Children of Narcissist parents. This time is how to recover from the abuse of a narcissist, Sociopath or Psychopath.

We feel that we will never recover from such emotional and crippling abuse, or how to escape from their clutches, but recovery and freedom can be found, you just need help along the way.

Anouska and Sarah will share their expertise on how to recover from a Narcissistic experience and gain our own empowerment back by embracing our self-worth and learning to love our selves unconditionally.

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First, how do we identify, the tel-tale signs? Anouska shares the types here.

We can even break it down further into classes. Taking the criteria for Narcissism from the DSM-IV, we can classify them as showing a tendency to exaggerate certain behaviours more than others. For instance, some will embellish their accomplishments, while others may be consumed with the concept of finding romantic love, and others might be more interested in behaving in duplicitous ways, conning and using others. Here is the list of behaviours, some of which tend to be more dominant than others.

Exaggerate their accomplishments
Obsessed with their uniqueness
Consumed with finding romantic love
Excessive entitlement behaviours
Devious and exploitative
Obsessed with fame and success
Believe they should get special treatment
Behave in a selfish and uncaring manner
Cannot relate to others feelings and desires
Behave in an envious or jealous manner
Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner
Excessively concerned with how they are perceived by others
Excessive need to have high-status friends or other status symbols to impress others.

Why type of narcissist do you/did you have in your life?

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Sarah from The Nurturing Coach says

When I was experiencing narcissistic abuse and parental alienation, I wanted someone who understands and helped me to find myself again. I couldn’t find anyone with this expertise so, once I felt stronger, I decided to use my experience as a social worker and retrain as an NLP Practitioner.

I help victims of narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation to deal with the trauma of their experience and give them the skills to protect their children from the ongoing abuse at the hands of their own parent. As an ex-social worker, protecting children is at the heart of all that I do. Whether that be adult children of narcissistic parents or parents trying to co-parent with a narcissist.

www.thenurturingcoach.co.uk

PART 1 AND 2 IN THE SERIES CAN BE FOUND HERE.

Part1. ANOUSHKA’S SHOW ON Narcissistic, Sociopathic and Psychopathic Relationships CAN BE FOUND HERE

Part 2. For Sarah’s show on NARCISSISM on Parenting go here.

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David Essel shows

February 28, 2018March 29, 2018Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

David Essel, #1 Best Selling Author, TV/Radio Host, Master Business, Relationship & Success Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Addiction Recovery Coach #1 best-selling author says that positive thinking accounts for only 20% of anyone’s success ! And proved it in his new book.

Nine-time author, master life coach and national radio host is crowned the “New Leader of The Positive Thinking Movement” by radio & TV host/actress Jenny McCarthy

“Positive Thinking Will Never Change Your Life… But This Book Will! The Myth of Positive Thinking, The Reality of Success” on Amazon.com (www.talkdavid.com). The free giveaway will last through Friday, February 10^th, just in time for Valentine’s Day. The book breaks the rules on the way we think about positivity, with stories that include collaborations with six New York Times best-selling authors.

Actress and Sirius XM Host, Jenny McCarthy has endorsed David’s book and crowned him “The New Leader of The Positive Movement”, while Dr. Wayne W. Dyer said “David Essel’s destiny is to help you become more alive in every area of your life.” Watch David (Syracuse University Alum) on Syracuse’s ABC 9 TV morning show: bridge-street/as-seen-on/author-david-essel-on-life-lessons

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18-08 NOT ONE MORE DEATH PLEASE

February 18, 2018May 26, 2022Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Sara Troy on Sara’s View of Life, on air from February 20th

NO MORE PLEASE NO MORE, how many LIVES have to be on the hands of Congress, politicians and the NRA before the grow a conscience?

Another shooting, more souls lost, more families torn to shreds in sorrow, more anguish and more fear around the protection of our children and our own daily lives. Why is this love affair with guns more important than lives? Why has it been allowed to become the norm sad but oh well, rather than LET US STAND UP AND CHANGE THE LAWS?

HOW can a nation stand by and allow such murderous senseless shootings day in and day out? WHEN IS IT ENOUGH FOR YOU? HOW MANY MORE SOULS NEED TO BE LOST BEFORE YOU DEMAND THE CHANGES? Only when you stand up arm in arm will you succeed against the armour.

WHERE IS THE EMPATHY THE LOVE? Where is the downright anger and conviction to stop this madness? It is hard I know to step into love when more blood has been shed, but Love for those who are lost, Love for those left behind in pain, Love for what is right, Love for our humanity to step up and change what is wrong.

LET LOVE SHOW YOU AWAY FORWARD LET TOGETHERNESS IN UNITED LOVE FOR YOUR CHILDREN LOVE FOR LIFE LOVE FOR COMMUNITY AND LOVE FOR PEACE, LET THAT LOVE SHOW YOU A WAY INTO STOPPING THIS MADNESS AND MORE SENSELESS DEATHS.

PEACE CAN ONLY BE FOUND FIRST IN OUR HEARTS THEN IN OUR ACTIONS.

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C 18-08 The Human Chain of HOPE Together WE Stand

February 17, 2018November 21, 2018Self Discovery Wisdom Podcast

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and Cindy-Diane Rheault, on air from February 21st

The Human Chain of HOPE is a loving project of Cindy-Diane’s to bring hope from many caring people to all people who are in need of it, TOGETHER WE ARE THE HOPE FOR TOMORROW.

It is a time of year where the season of depression hits people the hardest, and for some unknown reason, suicide is most common in spring. Depression is the leading cause of disability worldwide. Over 300 million people of all ages suffer from depression.

As opposed to sitting on the sidelines, Cindy-Diane Rheault, decided to bring people together by creating a unique Movie of Hope using social and digital media, a first of it’s kind. A Human Chain Link of H-O-P-E to send a well-needed message to the world.

Having lost her cousin in November 2017, and having suffered herself from depression, anxiety and toxic self-chatter, inspired the making of a Massive Gathering based on the Power of Hope. Sending out a much-needed message of Hope to those who are in a dark place, and to the families and friends who have no idea how to support their loved ones through it. Saving lives in the process is exactly what she is set out to do with the creation of IntentionTherapy.org platform.

Cindy-Diane Rheault the founder and Executive Producer of the Movie presents her vision of creating a Virtual Human Chain Link of Hope featuring on-line interviews with over 20 guests who are either authors, doctors, coaches, spiritual teachers, mom’s, sons, and grandmothers.

In a 16 Day Social Media Campaign, over 12,000 messages filled with feelings of H.O.P.E flooded in through Social and Digital Media, making it the first ever Virtual Network Movie.

The Human Chain Link Of Hope, Together WE Stand! reveals the Power of a gathering of people that brings an Uplifting message that shifts hopeless towards Hope, Trust, Connection and Possibility. The movie of Hope brings mental health professionals, inspiring organizations, and the general public to the social media table in a cinematic experience that is equal parts education and a highly vibrational gift of entertainment.

In presenting this Movie to the public, Cindy-Diane Rheault aims to move and shake how we treat depression and personal challenges, encouraging people to reach out for help and know that there is support for them that is filled with compassion and hope. A solution that is not solely reliant on medication and others to fix them, but a willingness to take the first step to a new way of looking at how coming out of the toxic self-chatter and how being aware that their old unsupportive beliefs no longer support them in their self-recovery process.