Stress Buster At Home Our Pets.

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Positive paw-steps for future happiness

Today, people are under greater pressure to cram more into their lives, every day being a relentless list of calendar events. In this digital age of mobiles and devices, everyone is following a strict schedule with notifications regularly keeping them on track.  Currently, ways to reduce stress are of huge importance.  Who would have believed, in these times, that the answer lies in our furry friends, and what nicer way to maintain balance in your life than with your own canine stress ‘Buster’.

Are you constantly rushing through your busy day with no time for yourself, and work deadlines to meet? Stress, which can lead to problems with mental health, has become prevalent in recent years. Latest statistics from the World Health Organisation state that over 300 million people have experienced various levels of depression in 2017 alone. On a brighter note, dog ownership has been shown to be the ‘wonder drug’ for both prevention and treatment of mental health issues. Needless to say, canine companions are hugely beneficial, and can do marvels for one’s mental state.

Man’s best friend

Dog owners experience a large burst of the love and bonding hormone, oxytocin when they look into their beloved pet’s eyes or stroke them and this ‘feel good’ hormone has a very positive effect, also promoting a reduction of the stress hormone, cortisol.  A reduction in cortisol decreases susceptibility to anxiety, thereby promoting the individual to lead a fulfilled and happy life.  Subsequently, it is clear that owning a dog can improve mental health.  

Routine and exercise best for both canine and human alike

Dogs need to exercise every day and tend to be happier with a routine, which is also the case for their human owners.  People feel more fulfilled and happier with a strong structure to their day and exercising their pooches will also improve the physical fitness of both humans and canine alike.  A recent study, which was carried out for the University of East Anglia, showed that dog owners tend to be more active and, subsequently, healthier in both mind and body.  It is well known that mental health is improved with exercise.  After all, what could be more fun and beneficial than an outdoor adventure with your canine companion?

Furthermore, the health benefits, beyond those of mental health, are fairly obvious including greater mobility which equals a better mind, body, spirit and soul. 

Written by Sally Writes. 

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18-10 Eternal Optimism but running out of Enthusiasm?

Sara Troy on Sara’s View of Life, on air from March 6th


Sometimes those dark thoughts come creeping in, they take away your enthusiasm for your optimism. How do we stop that from happening?

I am the eternal optimist, always believing that somehow it will work out, that I am meant to go this way, meant to take this journey. Then something happens and you are challenged once again, and you wonder about it all. I am very enthusiastic about what I do, what vision I see for the future, what possibilities lay before me, and I take action to put them in the process, then it is STOP, not now.

That is when you get the hurry up and wait, what wait why? everything feels right, the vision is clear the action is needed now, so why the wait? Well, you can not argue with the universe, and you have to surrender to patience once again. BUT, it is a damper on the enthusiasm.

I am optimistic that my vision will find its action, in time, and I will always find my enthusiasm for it is my divine presence, even though it drops off sometimes on those dark days for a moment or two.

So how we choose to see the world is our choice, even when things are shity, think manure for that is the soil of growth. I know at times it can be challenging, the always up to only be brought down, but maybe those down times are preparing us for what wonders are to come.

So don’t get gloomy, I know it is hard at times, dark at times, even scary, do not forget that freedom starts in the mind with a willingness to connect with our heart and souls.

I face this daily, yet I choose even though the clouds to see the clear blue sky. Sometimes I have to see it in my mind before I truly see it in my heart,  but when you do, you know, this darkness will pass and optimism and enthusiasm will prevail.

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TSM18-10 Recovering from Narcissist Abuse PRT 3

Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guests Anouska and Sarah Squires, on air from March 13th

In our first show in this series, we covered the Narcissist in a relationship, our second on Children of Narcissist parents. This time is how to recover from the abuse of a narcissist, Sociopath or Psychopath.

We feel that we will never recover from such emotional and crippling abuse, or how to escape from their clutches, but recovery and freedom can be found, you just need help along the way.

Anouska and Sarah will share their expertise on how to recover from a Narcissistic experience and gain our own empowerment back by embracing our self-worth and learning to love our selves unconditionally.


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First, how do we identify, the tel-tale signs? Anouska shares the types here. 


We can even break it down further into classes. Taking the criteria for Narcissism from the DSM-IV, we can classify them as showing a tendency to exaggerate certain behaviours more than others. For instance, some will embellish their accomplishments, while others may be consumed with the concept of finding romantic love, and others might be more interested in behaving in duplicitous ways, conning and using others. Here is the list of behaviours, some of which tend to be more dominant than others.

  • Exaggerate their accomplishments

  • Obsessed with their uniqueness

  • Consumed with finding romantic love

  • Excessive entitlement behaviours

  • Devious and exploitative

  • Obsessed with fame and success

  • Believe they should get special treatment

  • Behave in a selfish and uncaring manner

  • Cannot relate to others feelings and desires

  • Behave in an envious or jealous manner

  • Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner

  • Excessively concerned with how they are perceived by others

  • Excessive need to have high-status friends or other status symbols to impress others.

Why type of narcissist do you/did you have in your life?

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Sarah from The Nurturing Coach says

When I was experiencing narcissistic abuse and parental alienation, I wanted someone who understands and helped me to find myself again. I couldn’t find anyone with this expertise so, once I felt stronger, I decided to use my experience as a social worker and retrain as an NLP Practitioner.

I help victims of narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation to deal with the trauma of their experience and give them the skills to protect their children from the ongoing abuse at the hands of their own parent.  As an ex-social worker, protecting children is at the heart of all that I do.  Whether that be adult children of narcissistic parents or parents trying to co-parent with a narcissist. 

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Part1. ANOUSHKA’S SHOW ON Narcissistic, Sociopathic and Psychopathic Relationships CAN BE FOUND HERE 

Part 2. For Sarah’s show on NARCISSISM on Parenting go here. 


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C18-10 Worthy Women embracing your self worth and love

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Faye Hurley, on air from March 6th

“3 Steps to Self Worth that Attracts Phenomenal Love & Success.

If you feel like you have to work incredibly hard to receive success,
If you feel like you’re always ‘giving, giving, giving’…yet receiving very little in return,
If you feel exhausted and resentful, and just wish that you could have the love, money (or any other form of success) with ease…

Then this topic is for you!

The root cause of all of the above is low self-worth…even if you appear self-confident to the outside world!

In my interview with Sara, I will be sharing 3 life changing tips, that will transform your life, love and wealth forever. I know this to be a fact because these steps changed my own life, and continue to change my client’s lives.

I experienced multiple toxic and dysfunctional relationships, during my childhood and adulthood; as well as a dysfunctional relationship with money too. But the steps I’m sharing enabled me to attract loving relationships, including my partner of 10 years, and to become a multiple awards winning entrepreneur.


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These steps are the ‘magical keys’ to shedding all of the resistance you have to receive what you truly want. They enable you to become an ‘aligned match’ to attracting and receiving your heart’s desires…without having to struggle, strive or prove yourself. You start to receive with ease!

You will attract:
– The fulfilling, emotionally supportive, loving relationships you’ve always wanted
– The money you want
– The freedom and joy you want
– The creative, passionate, fulfilling life that you know, deep down, you’re meant to be living

So if this is something that excites you,
If this is something you want for your life right now,
I can’t wait for you to join us as I share this topic that I’m so passionate about!”

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David Essel, #1 Best Selling Author, TV/Radio Host, Master Business, Relationship & Success Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Addiction Recovery Coach #1 best-selling author says that positive thinking accounts for only 20% of anyone’s success ! And proved it in his new book.

Nine-time author, master life coach and national radio host is crowned the “New Leader of The Positive Thinking Movement” by radio & TV host/actress Jenny McCarthy

“Positive Thinking Will Never Change Your Life… But This Book Will! The Myth of Positive Thinking, The Reality of Success” on Amazon.com (www.talkdavid.com). The free giveaway will last through Friday, February 10th, just in time for Valentine’s Day. The book breaks the rules on the way we think about positivity, with stories that include collaborations with six New York Times best-selling authors.

Actress and Sirius XM Host, Jenny McCarthy has endorsed David’s book and crowned him “The New Leader of The Positive Movement”, while Dr. Wayne W. Dyer said “David Essel’s destiny is to help you become more alive in every area of your life.” Watch David (Syracuse University Alum) on Syracuse’s ABC 9 TV morning show: bridge-street/as-seen-on/author-david-essel-on-life-lessons

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