C17-37 Fantasy and Illusion of Cyber Relationships

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest  John Krotec, ON AIR FROM September 12th

In the search for acceptance, sexual assault survivor John Krotec discusses his own personal experience trying to find love in the cyber-world. He will detail how he first found the romantic cyber world and the pitfalls he encountered. His reactions to his own behaviour while in the cyber-world nearly ruined his personal life. He will talk about the nature of the cyber world, a place where because of technology you can be anybody or anything you want to be. It is his belief that such cyber-relationships are not real, just fantasy and illusion and, if not kept in check (the proper perspective), can erode the human spirit.

It really was a search for acceptance and satisfaction…things I was not finding in my own personal relationships and job…brought on by serious low self-esteem…


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“Putting Out The Self-Loathing Fire”
The journey of self-actualization (I call it the struggle for authenticity) is lifelong. For me and for millions of others, it can be and has been excruciatingly emotionally painful at times. However, for those struggling, there is a way out. It’s not easy.  It takes brutal honesty and courage to overcome.  After months of one-on-one therapy, I believe the only way to truly self-actualize is to dig deep, to introspect, and to do the hard work that will erase the negative limiting self-beliefs that can and will continue to reinforce self-loathing. You will have setbacks and you will make mistakes (I certainly have), but you will have small victories, too. I ultimately belief these small accomplishments can be built upon and lead you to success.
My own personal struggles dealing with self-loathing were the result of two significant events in my early life, events that took place before the age of fifteen. The extreme self-loathing created by these significant events fueled an extreme need for acceptance and love–not self-acceptance and self-love–but finding acceptance and love from others. The first event, being sexually assaulted, destroyed many parts of my self-esteem. It was not good. It sucked. The second event further reinforced my feelings of inadequacy AND added even more psychological destruction to my already fragile sense of self. Without going into too much detail about it, let’s just say it concerned the behavior of a parent and it created more confusion for me on the important subject of marital fidelity.
I will be sharing my personal journey for self-actualization with you in the hopes that my story will help others suffering from similar circumstances and feelings.  One of the subjects that I will be exploring will be online relationships.  Drawing upon my own experiences, I hope to expose the pitfalls of looking for acceptance and love in the digital world, a world full of fantasy and illusion. I know firsthand that millions are suffering.  In the process, I hope to heal myself and my marriage and not add any more fuel to my self-loathing fire.
Please join me…it’s time to live a real life…
 

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LM 17-37 , KELITA’s Unique Music & Approach to life.


“for the LOVE of Music” with Sara Troy and her guest KELITA, on air from September 12th

KELITA – From Musician to mentor & coach. My music has been my life line from a very young age. I wrote my first song at age 11, shortly after my father committed suicide on our family farm. After that, it became an essential instrument in the expression and healing of my pain. Hiding behind a very harsh and dysfunctional upbringing, followed by one tragedy after another, including various kinds of abuse into my 30’s, I look back and see the music and all its offerings were always interwoven between my personal healing journey and my outward profession as a recording artist. I hid myself behind the music and her sad refrains. After a profound spiritual awakening when I finally came out of my dysfunctional co-dependent closet, I began to openly sing and pour forth more confessional music and the stories to accompany them. It was then I would hear from my fans.

I became a safe place, someone who understood them. That is how I began to walk along side of people on their own healing journeys. To listen, encourage and let them know they are not alone. To pass on the lessons I have gleaned from so many life experiences and help guide and direct those who simply need someone to believe in and cherish them. To let them know – they matter – they are loved. To help them discover their own answers and their hidden gifts. To inspire them to become all they were created to be. To fly! And now after many years of ‘being there’ for others, I am moving my mentoring into a more formal setting.

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KELITA is a one-name, one-woman powerhouse, a versatile, multi-talented artist who ignites hearts in her audiencesKelita, Kelita short bio, Kelita biography, Kelita in denim jacket through music, storytelling and, humour.

Whether she’s on stage performing before a large audience or working with people one on one in personal mentorship, KELITA’s unique style and heartfelt emotions touch everyone she comes in contact with.

She connects with audiences on a deeply emotional and spiritual level, borne out of an early life of one misfortune after another. Through her artistic performances and constant giving to others, she has transcended the tragedy of losing her parents and the humiliation and shame of childhood sex abuse, redirecting her energy into a more positive channel.

KELITA is a much-in-demand speaker who mesmerizes audiences with her many talents–singing, comedy and piano playing–and genuine tales of triumph over tragedy. Whether she’s the keynote speaker at a conference or performing before a televised audience, she never fails to impress an adoring public.

Her deep repertoire of talent qualifies KELITA for the superstardom bestowed upon her. As a five-time JUNO Award nominee, (the Canadian equivalent of the Grammy Awards) singer/songwriter, she has a powerful vocal range and an evocative style.

She’s a gifted mimic, comedienne and storyteller who presents a bevvy of quirky characters, from Sophie Flanagan, the colourful trailer park mother of 12, to the infamous, sophisticated, yet hideous author, Priscilla Rottenbaught.

KELITA understands the curative power of humour on a physical and mental well being.

She’s a dedicated humanitarian determined to foster change and she has quietly and tirelessly raised awareness for worthy causes across the globe.

KELITA is a definitely a force of nature, a compassionate, energetic multi-talented performer who continues to engage and inspire a constantly expanding universe of adoring fans and admirers.




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C 17-36b Dr Holly Fourchalk on Your Whole Health Wellness

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Dr Holly Fourchalk, on air from September 12th

Dr. Holly Fourchalk, Ph.D., DNM®, RHT, HT, AAP.

Holly and I will be looking to the Whole of us and why we need to see our selves from the inside out in health. With such knowledge form Holly addressing our mind and body health, she knows the need to place importance on our whole health wellness system for it to work cohesively for us.

With PhDs in Psychology (not registered with the College of Psychologists) and in Nutrition; Dr of Natural Medicine; another MA in Herbal Medicine; Advanced Ayurvedic Physician; Homeopathy; Reflexology, Hypnotherapy & various energetic healing modalities (from Rieke to Theta) and a variety of other healing modalities, Dr Holly covers the spectrum of holistic health.

She was born with a genetic disorder that prevents her from metabolizing food in the same way the rest of us do, consequently, she has a passion for research and understanding how the body functions from the energetics to the psychological to the physiological right down to cellular functioning.

She runs a Mobile Health Clinic, aptly named Choices Unlimited for Health & Wellness Ltd.  It moves from Hope to Horseshoe Bay; from Oliver to Vernon; and around the world.


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This is why dogs follow you into the bathroom. I never knew this!

Having a loyal pup in the household certainly ensures an incredible amount of love from dog to owner, in a true “man’s best friend” fashion. Understanding your dog is fairly easy and it’s not hard to understand your pup wants to give you some delightful bits of love with kisses, but dogs can often behave in a more subtle manner as well.

Unfortunately, not all of us are as good as talking to pets as Dr. Doolittle, but here are 12 different signs your dog makes and what your pup is actually trying to say to you.

Puppy-Dog Eyes

Of course, this one is a true classic. The puppy-dog eyes are often imitated by younger children whenever they really want something, but dogs use it to show love and enforce a greater trust between the both of you.

Following You Around

Granted, a dog that follows every step you take isn’t always ideal, but you can’t deny that it’s absolutely adorable. According to vets, this type of followers behaviour is simply because it is a dog’s instinct to always do things with your family. How cute!

Giving You Little Gifts

Does your pup give you little gifts once a while when you’re not playing fetch? It turns out that dogs simply want to share their joy with someone else, and there’s no better person to share it with than you!

Cuddling After Dinner

It’s not always a great idea to interrupt your pup while they’re eating a meal because they’re often keen on their food, but cuddling with you after their bellies are filled shows that dogs feel truly comfortable around you.

Licking Your Body or Face

Some people love it, some people find it rather gross, but all dogs like giving people a couple of licks once a while. Giving licks is actually submissive behavior and helps dogs ease their stress, and it’s also a sign of love, of course.

Going Wild Whenever You Return Home

Just like in the movies, the second a dog hears you coming back home chaos is ensured – and they’re just overly happy to see you! Their enthusiastic response is simply their way of saying “I missed you”.

Knowing When Something Is Wrong

Dogs don’t need to be able to actually talk with their owners to sense that something is wrong or if you’re feeling sad. They can read your body language really well, and also use their senses to detect if something is wrong. They’ll also be more than willing to solace you.

Crawling In Your Bed

Getting up in the morning can be a bit of a pain sometimes, but perhaps your loyal pup joins you once in a while in your bed. They don’t just sit there because your bed is probably more comfortable, but it’s also how they keep you close when you’re not home and away for work, for example.

Raising A Single Paw

Raising one of two paws usually means that your dog is in the mood for some playtime or perhaps even hungry. Sometimes, they’ll do this when they spot something interesting in their environment.

Leaning Against You

If a dog is actively leaning against you, it means he or she is looking for a bit of extra love and hugs from the owner. Dogs sure love to have a bit of attention directed towards them!

Trying To Get Your Opinion

If you ever had the feeling that your dog was looking for your approval for something, it’s because pups really appreciate and value your opinion. A little love and affection go a long way!

Squinting And Blinking Eyes

When a dog is seemingly playing a lot with his eyes, attention is the thing he or she is looking for the most. They’re ready to play and have a little bit of quality time with you.

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Jonathan Maes is a contributing writer at Shareably. He is based out of Belgium and can be reached at hi@shareably.net.

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C17-34 Dolphin Kasper on Evolving Now

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Dolphin Kasper, on air from August 22nd 

When we are rooted in living from the qualities of authenticity and clarity, and we let go of the need for coping and self-created filters, our way of living and interacting with others becomes grounded and deeply purposeful.  Our most positive qualities begin to naturally come to the surface leaving us more honest, compassionate and generous even in the most challenging and stressful environments.  Imagine if your most positive qualities and capacities were available to you regardless of the circumstances around you. Imagine if you had the ability to bring your very best to your work, to your family and to your life. This is what the work Evolve now offers is cultivating and making real.  

Once reacquainted with these essential yet forgotten parts of us we step back onto a developmental trajectory we all knew when we were very young.  One that had us in our innate love of learning, connecting and growing in partnership with the people around us.  We then begin to live to openly give, to fully receive and to consistently and progressively contribute to creating a better world.  What you are, the most beautiful and meaningful part of you gets to come to the surface and express itself through us and into our lives, our work and our world. Join us and rediscover your own highest calling and your deepest resources.


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Dolphin Kasper, a consummate coach, speaker and facilitator of human growth and transformative communication, grew up in Vancouver BC and is now based in Edmonton, Canada.  For over 18 years, through his private coaching and thousands of workshops, retreats and online programs, Dolphin has been inviting people to become the empowered authorities of both their inner and outer lives.  He has a passion for creating the space in which people can recognize and integrate their conditioned limitations and coping mechanisms, opening the doorway to their full potential.  He believes in each person’s capacity to heal, grow and live a life beyond ideas and beyond imagined limitations.

Dolphin’s career has spanned a wide range of roles and experiences. From coaching professional athletes, to working with business leaders to supporting and empowering homeless youth, Dolphin has found the underlying truths about why the human system falters and what it needs to thrive. He brings this knowledge and clarity to the work he does with others in a way that profoundly changes their perspective and their capacity to become the source of sustainable positive change in their lives and in the world.   He takes the richest and most powerful learnings from these varied experiences and has honed them into 3 specific areas of expertise: Conscious Communication, Leadership and the most effective ways of Maximizing Human Potential


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