25-21. Be Kind On-line


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from May 27th

Good morning, good afternoon, and good evening, everybody. Welcome back to another edition of Sara’s View of Life, right here on SelfDiscoveryWisdom.com. I’m your host, Sara Troy.

Give it a break. I’ve been scrolling through social media, and it’s everywhere—someone has a moment of celebration, and right beside it is someone tearing them down. It’s just getting ridiculous. Whether you agree or not, why do we feel the need to bring someone else down just to make a point?

Take American Idol, for example. A young man named Jamal won, and he was magnificent. I truly wanted him to win. He was a soulful singer who really drew you in with his music. He competed against a country boy named John Foster, who was also very talented—very, very good. But seeing an R&B artist take the stage and win for a change was refreshing. He deserved it.

But the backlash online was disappointing. “It’s rigged,” “He didn’t deserve it,” “I want to see the votes.” And I just thought, where is the grace? Why not just say, “Well done”? Even if he wasn’t your pick, it doesn’t hurt to show some appreciation. Applaud the effort, honor the moment, and move on.

Why do we always feel the need to bash? This feels like a wake-up call. It’s time we change our narrative. There’s this pull toward negativity, and I think that’s a reflection of where people are emotionally. Many are feeling lost, afraid, angry, and anxious. There’s a deep sense of injustice in the air, especially in the political world, where we see dishonesty, ridicule, and manipulation. But that doesn’t mean we have to mirror it.

Just because the world is noisy doesn’t mean we have to add to the noise. It’s easy to get swept up in the chaos, to jump into the drama with pitchforks raised. But it takes more courage and more effort to rise above it. To choose kindness. To center ourselves and seek the light in the dark.

When we pause and listen, truly listen—not just to respond or react, but to understand—we shift the energy. We give space for grace to enter. And in that space, healing can begin. That doesn’t mean we ignore the injustices or pretend everything is fine when it’s not. But we choose not to let those injustices define who we become.

We are not here to be echo chambers of fear and hate. We are here to be light-bearers, wisdom-weavers, compassionate listeners, and conscious creators. We can’t control what others say or do, but we can absolutely choose how we respond, how we show up, and what we radiate into the world.

When we come from love, not the fluffy kind, but the kind grounded in truth, boundaries, and soul, we become catalysts for change. That love holds space for pain, yes, but it also calls us forwarded. It says, “I see you. I hear you. And still, I will not be pulled into the fire of your anger.”

It’s time for us to rise, not in defiance, but in dignity. To be disruptors of division and architects of unity. Let others wage their wars of words, we’ll sow peace in our actions, strength in our silence, and wisdom in our words.

We are the shift. It begins with how we treat one another, online and off. It begins with how we treat ourselves.

It all begins with a breath. A moment of stillness. A choice to respond differently.



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25-20. Humanity in the Universe’s Mirror


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from May 20 th


I often wonder how the universe sees us.

From its cosmic vantage point, does it gaze upon Earth and marvel at our mountains, oceans, and landscapes? Or does it weep at how we treat one another? For all our natural beauty, we continue to be a species divided by anger, hate, and greed. In 2023 alone, over 122,000 people lost their lives due to conflict. With over 8.2 billion people on this planet, is that an acceptable number? Have we become numb to the weight of lives lost, to the pain caused by war, homicides, and cruelty?

Why do we continue to choose domination over dialogue, destruction over understanding? It is baffling how some still profit from the pain of others, turning suffering into currency. This hunger for power, whether political, financial, or personal, has birthed a world in which empathy feels like a luxury rather than a standard.

As I look across the globe, from America to Gaza, Ukraine to England, I see patterns repeating. We ignore history’s warnings, repeating atrocities with more ferocity than ever before. We scapegoat the immigrant, demonize the different, and allow outdated systems to fuel our division.

And yet, if the universe is watching (God, Spirit, Energy, Wisdom) and I believe it is, surely it sees not only our failures but our flickers of light. It must see the healers, the helpers, the truth-tellers, and the peace-builders, but also those who choose kindness over cruelty, service over self-gain, and compassion over condemnation.

True justice is not vengeance. It’s in choosing understanding. It is accountability without dehumanization. It is raising children with love, boundaries, and a moral compass so they grow up with conscience, not entitlement. If we are to change the future, we must begin with the children, nurture their empathy, teach them respect, and show them how to care.

I know what it is to feel the weight of the world, to cry out, “Beam me up!” But the same voice inside me whispers, “Not yet. There’s still work to do.” Each one of us must become the change, no pitchforks, no hate, but with truth, integrity, and courage. We must stop being pawns of chaos and become builders of peace.

With all the knowledge, all the technology, all the spiritual guidance we have access to, we must ask ourselves: Why are we still hurting each other? Why are we still blind to love, deaf to compassion, and numb to suffering?

The universe is waiting. Watching. Hoping we wake up. Let us be the generation that does.

Let us choose to be part of the healing, not the harm. Let our legacy be one of love, understanding, and co-creation. Let us be the light the universe knew we could be.

And it begins with one thing: self-discovery. Because when we truly know and love ourselves, we naturally extend that love outward. We become contributors. We become human. Finally.



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25-19. Discovering your Courage


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from May 13th

This week, I’m diving into the powerful themes of courage, strength, resilience, and the human spirit’s unyielding capacity to rise. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of interviewing extraordinary individuals who have faced trauma, violence, and unimaginable hardships—yet emerged with greater clarity, purpose, and strength. One such guest is Brenda Coffey, whose story is not only cinematic but a testament to raw survival and unshakable will. Her journey, like many others I’ve shared, reminded me of my own past times when I faced violence, rejection, and struggled to find my place as a dyslexic empath in a world that didn’t understand me.

I’ve spent much of my life choosing people to fix or nurture, often at the cost of my own well-being. But self-discovery has taught me that being of service does not mean sacrificing the self. I now share the tools, wisdom, and soulful guides who can help others heal, but only if they’re willing to walk the path. Through my podcast, Self Discovery Wisdom, I’ve had the honour of hearing 3,000+ stories, each a spark of transformation. Whether it’s surviving abuse, redefining self-worth, or discovering one’s true design through Human Design, numerology, or my True Colours method, each journey brings us home to ourselves. You don’t need to face life-threatening danger to be courageous; sometimes the biggest bravery lies in choosing to live your truth.

My invitation to you: trust your instincts, listen to your inner knowing, and honor your unique flavor in the grand buffet of life. And for my fellow seniors, your story still matters. If you’d like to be part of our anthology, Our Forgotten Seniors, visit OrchardOfWisdom.org. We want your voice, your truth, your legacy. Because no matter your age, your light is still meant to shine.



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25-18. Take the Wheel


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from May 6th

Today, I want to talk about self-leadership. What does that really mean? We often look for a leader in life—someone to guide us along the path of self-discovery or help us uncover our abilities—because we feel we can’t lead ourselves. But ultimately, no matter who’s guiding you—whether at work, in relationships, or anywhere else—you are the leader of your own life. Self-leadership means stepping into your own empowerment. It’s about knowing what you need, recognizing the path you must take, being aware, and caring deeply about yourself, the environment you’re in, what you’re giving out, and what you’re receiving. Your life, your arena—it all begins with you.

Awareness and Choice

Is your environment bringing out something in you that feels uncomfortable? Are you surrounded by people who claim to be leaders but are leading you astray? Are you in the company of negativity—those who are angry, bitter, vengeful, jealous, or retaliatory? Because those kinds of environments won’t serve you. So, how do you step into your own leadership? It starts with a choice. I will choose the path I take. I will choose the people I allow around me. I will choose how I interact, how I receive, and how I perceive the world. That kind of leadership begins with awareness—awareness of your surroundings and of what life is making you feel. We’re living in a time of heightened emotion: global unrest, political upheaval, wars, famine, division—it’s overwhelming. And in all that noise, it’s easy to feel powerless. It’s easy to feel like our voice no longer matters in shaping our own life.

Yet leadership doesn’t mean having all the answers. It means taking ownership of how we show up. Are we reacting from past wounds? Are we stuck in patterns that aren’t even ours? Generational trauma, societal programming, inherited fear—it’s all there. But we can pause and ask: “Is this mine? Is this helping me? What can I shift?” And from that question, the journey begins.

Empowerment, Exploration, and Leading by Example

Self-leadership doesn’t mean going it alone—it means tuning in. You may be using tools, programs, or practices passed down from others. They might have sparked something in you, or maybe you’ve created your own. Either way, it’s still your leadership. You’re in charge of your actions, your voice, and your direction. While the universe might hold the map, you’re holding the wheel.

Sara shares how her own path to podcasting began at age 57. She didn’t know what a podcast was, but said yes to the invitation. Now, more than 13 years and thousands of shows later, she reflects on how every step before led to this one. Her story reminds us that it’s never too late to begin steering your own journey.

She paints a powerful metaphor—life is a vehicle, and we must learn how to drive it. Know your gears: first, second, third, fourth, and when it’s time for fifth. Your trauma and fears might still ride with you, but they belong in the trunk or backseat, not behind the wheel. Learn from them, but don’t let them drive.

True self-leadership isn’t loud. It’s a calm confidence. It’s feeling your way forward even when the road isn’t clear. It’s choosing what resonates in your gut, heart, and soul. It’s quiet courage and soulful conviction. And when we embrace it, we inspire others to do the same.

We’re not meant to walk alone—we’re meant to harmonize. As we step into our own leadership, we become strong instruments in life’s orchestra, playing with clarity, confidence, and care. Together, we create symphonies that awaken and uplift the world.

So, take the wheel. Tune into your truth. Choose your direction, one breath, one step, one gear at a time. Because the greatest adventure you’ll ever take is the discovery of your Self.



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25.17.The One Drop RIPPLES


Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from April 29th

In a world constantly seeking the grand finale, the big bang, the dramatic pivot, the life-altering moment, we often miss the quiet miracles that live in the in-between. The truth is, it’s not always a thunderous event that changes everything. More often, it’s one small drop a single moment of insight, a gentle word, a quiet act of kindness—that sets a new path in motion. One drop becomes another, and then another, rippling out into something much larger than we could have ever predicted.

The ripple effect begins the moment we choose to be present. It could be a smile shared with a stranger, a pause before reacting harshly, or a thoughtful message to someone who’s hurting. These simple acts, small as they may seem, hold immense power. They shift energies, soften walls, and open doors to connection. They create a rhythm of change, one that moves through hearts, homes, and communities without needing applause.

We look to the world for transformation, hoping institutions, governments, or movements will change everything overnight. But real, sustainable change is personal first. It is born in the whisper of a thought, the weight of a feeling, and the intention behind our actions. Our thoughts are the first drops. Our words carry them outward. Our actions plant them into the soil of the world around us.

It is in the subtleties where the greatest impact lives. Like water shaping stone, consistency in small, mindful choices leaves a lasting mark. Speak to others in the tone you would want to receive. Let your words be an invitation to joy, comfort, or clarity. Think before you speak, not just to avoid harm, but to ensure your voice becomes a balm rather than a blow.

We are all seeking something: peace, meaning, a better way to live. But we don’t find it waiting for someone else to do the work. We find it by becoming the ripple. By embodying the change. We are at the beginning of the wave that can rise and carry others with us.

This is the heart of what I speak to on my shows: the magic of the everyday, the extraordinary within the ordinary. Through the stories of others and reflections of self, we explore how each of us can create meaningful change, not by waiting for the world to shift, but by choosing to drop love, kindness, and purpose into the waters of life.

Join me. Let’s ripple together.



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