Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Keven Ring, on air from March 20th

|
Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Keven Ring, on air from March 20th

|
Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guests Anouska and Sarah Squires, on air from March 13th

In our first show in this series, we covered the Narcissist in a relationship, our second on Children of Narcissist parents. This time is how to recover from the abuse of a narcissist, Sociopath or Psychopath.
We feel that we will never recover from such emotional and crippling abuse, or how to escape from their clutches, but recovery and freedom can be found, you just need help along the way.
Anouska and Sarah will share their expertise on how to recover from a Narcissistic experience and gain our own empowerment back by embracing our self-worth and learning to love our selves unconditionally.
| ITunes | Spotify | Soundcloud |
| Amazon | Google play, | iHEART |
| Feeds Acast | Bullhorn.fm | Podcast Addict |
| Podvine | Radio Public. | FM Player |
| Odysee | Youtube | |
| Feed spot | Podcasher | Opodium |
.
First, how do we identify, the tel-tale signs? Anouska shares the types here.

We can even break it down further into classes. Taking the criteria for Narcissism from the DSM-IV, we can classify them as showing a tendency to exaggerate certain behaviours more than others. For instance, some will embellish their accomplishments, while others may be consumed with the concept of finding romantic love, and others might be more interested in behaving in duplicitous ways, conning and using others. Here is the list of behaviours, some of which tend to be more dominant than others.
Exaggerate their accomplishments
Obsessed with their uniqueness
Consumed with finding romantic love
Excessive entitlement behaviours
Devious and exploitative
Obsessed with fame and success
Believe they should get special treatment
Behave in a selfish and uncaring manner
Cannot relate to others feelings and desires
Behave in an envious or jealous manner
Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner
Excessively concerned with how they are perceived by others
Excessive need to have high-status friends or other status symbols to impress others.
Why type of narcissist do you/did you have in your life?
When I was experiencing narcissistic abuse and parental alienation, I wanted someone who understands and helped me to find myself again. I couldn’t find anyone with this expertise so, once I felt stronger, I decided to use my experience as a social worker and retrain as an NLP Practitioner.
I help victims of narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation to deal with the trauma of their experience and give them the skills to protect their children from the ongoing abuse at the hands of their own parent. As an ex-social worker, protecting children is at the heart of all that I do. Whether that be adult children of narcissistic parents or parents trying to co-parent with a narcissist.
Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Sarah Squires, on air from February 27th

Over 26,000 people in the UK are diagnosed with having a severe personality disorder and 60-70% of all child abuses feature a parent with a severe personality disorder. And those figures are based on diagnosed patients and reported abuse cases. The real numbers are likely to be scarily higher. So hundreds of thousands of children are being raised by disordered parents, all of whom are at risk of abuse and long-term harm.
My name is Sarah Squires, founder of The Nurturing Coach brand, and I help victims of narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation to deal with the trauma of their experience and give them the skills to protect their children from the ongoing abuse at the hands of their own parent. As an ex-social worker, protecting children is at the heart of all that I do. Whether that be adult children of narcissistic parents or parents trying to co-parent with a narcissist.
Having experienced narcissistic parental abuse and parental alienation, I understand how lonely, frustrating and devastating it can be. And I want to help. I also run a training consultancy to train professionals working with children and families to recognise the signs of disordered parenting (in particular narcissism) and how to intervene in a more effective way. This is part of the “wrap-around care” approach I have to tackling these issues. You can’t treat the problem without working with those who play their role as flying monkeys!
| ITunes | Spotify | Soundcloud |
| Amazon | Google play, | iHEART |
| Feeds Acast | Bullhorn.fm | Podcast Addict |
| Podvine | Radio Public. | FM Player |
| Odysee | Youtube | |
| Feed spot | Podcasher | Opodium |

For appointments: www.thenurturingcoach.co.uk/book-appointment
Their Story Matters with Sara Troy and her guest Anoushka, on air from February 20th

Relationships, the forever rolling of the dice, who will we get? how do we know how to recognise narcissistic, sociopathic and psychopathic person and how do we get out of a relationship of abuse?
All this will be spoken about here in a 3 part series on emotional abuse and how it affects our selves, our children and any future relationships.
Anoushka is the founder of Balance Psychologies a brand where recovery and wellbeing are at the heart of everything I do. I am a trainee psychologist and my specialism is in narcissistic, sociopathic and psychopathic relationships.
I am also the writer of Balance Psychologies blog. Since December 2015 I have been using my blog and YouTube videos to help others transform their lives and understand the shady and crippling effects of being in a relationship with someone with a narcissistic personality disorder. After sharing my own experiences of a 7-year relationship with an individual with a narcissistic personality disorder, I realised I wasn’t alone in my feelings and experiences, there were many others that have suffered at the hands of a narcissist. Ever since I have been driving my insights into empowering survivors, tips and tools to help individuals get out of this traumatic abuse and realise that none of this was their fault but to realise that they are wonderful and special individuals with a big heart – that needs to be protected.
| ITunes | Spotify | Soundcloud |
| Amazon | Google play, | iHEART |
| Acast | onpodium | Anchor |
| Audry | Radio Public. | FM Player |
| Launchpad | Mixcloud | Vurbl |
| Odysee | Youtube | Sticher |
We are on 14 audio and 2 video platforms as seen here.
| Soundcloud | ITunes | iHEART | Anchor |
| Google play, | Spotify | Amazon | Podchaser |
| Radio Public. | Breaker, | Audry | Vurbl |
| FM Player | Launchpad | Odysee | Youtube |

Their Story Matters and “for the LOVE of Music” with Sara Troy and her guest Raphael Weisman, on air from February 13th

Raphael says that there is a deep longing arising in the hearts of so many I have spoken with for community. Not just a group of friends with whom to share common visions and goals, but living communities where children can grow up in safety, where people can live in harmony with the Earth, producing healthy food and providing for the needs of the elderly and respect for all life and everyone, as well as the creatures, the elements and Mother Earth. I have carried this vision for so many years now and have considered a particular piece of land in Northern New Mexico as holding a tremendous potential to be this vision in manifestation. It is where I would also like to create a healing sanctuary where the vision and purposes of Healing The Scars can manifest. I am revisiting my older drafts of this community vision to generate a vision outline and proposal for the establishment of this community and the residential trauma centre.
Healing the Scars, Inc is a New Mexico non profit organization that was founded as a container for the purpose of spreading HeartThread around the world and providing services, programs, relief and tools for those affected by the devastating effects of war, violence, abuse and trauma and for the training of providers of these services. HTS is a vehicle for the ministry of Raphael Weisman, the founder. This ministry offers a comprehensive approach to providing assistance that weaves together a variety of modalities such as HeartThread, Art-, Dance- and Music- Therapies, professional and ministerial counselling services, Nature and Animal oriented programs, sustainable agriculture programs, spiritual and somatic practices and ceremony.R is committed to bringing healing and comfort to those who benefit from the sound of the harp, seeing this vibration as a force for healing on the planet. He has developed a line of Therapy harps for use by those who are working with sick or dying patients. These new models also provide a line of economy harps which allow beginners to purchase an entry level harp at an affordable price, thus proliferating the use of harps in the world.
| ITunes | Spotify | Soundcloud |
| Amazon | Google play, | iHEART |
| Acast | onpodium | Anchor |
| Audry | Radio Public. | FM Player |
| Launchpad | Mixcloud | Vurbl |
| Odysee | Youtube | Sticher |
Raphael is committed to bringing healing and comfort to those who benefit from the sound of the harp, seeing this vibration as a force for healing on the planet. He has developed a line of Therapy harps for use by those who are working with sick or dying patients. These new models also provide a line of economy harps which allow beginners to purchase an entry level harp at an affordable price, thus proliferating the use of harps in the world.
He is now semi-retired and living in Santa Fe, where he practices playing the harp and is involved in consciousness-raising projects, such as the Santa Fe Water Awareness Group, Healing the Scars, and Heart Thread.

The name Lorien was inspired by J.R.R. Tolkien’s Lord of the Rings, and is the home of the elves. The founder of Harps of Lorien, Inc, Raphael Weisman somewhat resembles an Elf himself. He has been making instruments and been involved in creative artwork for over 30 years. He studied Musical Instrument technology and design in London and was one of the few instrument builders in the forefront of the revival of Early Music in Europe. He built Lutes, Bandoras, Orpharions, Renaissance Guitars, and other instruments based on originals that survived the ravages of time and ended up in museums around the world. He researched and specialized in the manufacture of the Vihuela, the predecessor of the guitar, spending a year making a replica of the only surviving instrument found in a museum in Paris, an intricately decorated bass instrument from around 1500, believed to originate in Moorish Spain
FIND US ON THESE SITES TO
Self Discovery Media. Choose Positive Living. Hub of Discovery Orchard of Wisdom Feedspot
All of our shows/interviews are done by donation, if you enjoyed this show please support us here with either a one-time donation or subscribe and support on Patreon.
You must be logged in to post a comment.